10 Mushy Gushsy Signs You Are Head Over Heels, Butterflies In Tummy, Totally In Love

10 Mushy Gushsy Signs You Are Head Over Heels, Butterflies In Tummy, Totally In Love

1. You still get butterflies when you see them

1. You still get butterflies when you see them

Whenever you see them - no matter how long it's been - you still get butterflies in your stomach. Even if you've been together for a month or for a year, this feeling never goes away because every time you look at them, it's like falling in love all over again.

2. Planning a future

When you are falling in love, you start to picture a future with your significant other. You start thinking about if you guys are going to get married, have kids, and a big house. You picture this because most people are dating just for the hell of it, they are dating for their future, for a future with someone they care about. Once you start picturing your future together, you know you are falling in love.

3. They're the first person you want to tell news to

Good or bad news, this person is the first one you want to tell. When you are falling in love, your significant other becomes your best friend. The kind of best friend that you tell everything to - good or bad. This is the kind of relationship every one would want.

4. The world disappears when you look into their eyes

When you look into your significant other's eyes, it's like everything disappears. They become the only thing you see, even in a crowded room. It's just you and them and nothing could ever ruin it.

5. You re-read text messages

Whether they are good or bad, you can always find yourself re-reading old text messages you guys have sent. You think of how things could've gone differently in bad terms or if you are on good terms you appreciate the little things they sent.

6. Everything reminds you of them

Whenever you are just taking a walk or shopping around, you always find something that reminds them of you or you think they would like. They are on your mind 24/7 and it seems like you can't get them out of your head. Maybe they're supposed to be there.

7. You always talk about them

You always find yourself bringing them up. It could be the stupidest thing but maybe they did it and you bring them up anyway. Or they did something you find funny and want to share with your friends. Or maybe they just pissed you off and you need to vent about them. Good or bad you always find yourself talking about them.

8. You can talk about anything with them

You had a bad day at school or work and you just need to vent, they're your go-to person. Whether it's stupid drama or nothing serious but still upsets you, you just vent to them about anything and they're always there to listen.

9. You love being with them, even if you're doing nothing

Whether you both are watching Netflix together or he's playing Fortnite and you're watching Greys, spending time together is better than spending time apart. You still get to see them and nothing is better than seeing the person you love everyday.

10. They drive you crazy, but you love them anyway

I know Fortnite has become the thing that everyone plays, but it drives me nuts when all my boyfriend does is play 24/7. They may drive you crazy over little things that you wouldn't expect would annoy you but does. Hell, you may even annoy the crap out of them too, but even if you drive each other crazy, you love each other anyway.

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11 Things The Man You Love Should Do For You, No Questions Asked

Sometimes it's just the simple things in life that mean a lot.


Every girl feels special when the guy she's dating does simple things for her that not everyone thinks about. Here's a list of 10 things that every girl genuinely appreciates.

1. Open/Hold the door

I feel like this one is really simple because everyone has to walk through doors. Chivalry isn't dead, let him open the door for you. He's not trying to prove that you can't do it for yourself, but he's trying to be polite and show you that he cares for you.

2. Give you really big hugs

Everyone has bad days, and sometimes you just need a really big hug. Whether it be a bear hug or the hug where he picks you up and spins you around, it will make you feel better in the long run.

3. Buy you really small gifts

One of the best things my boyfriend has ever done for me is simply bringing me a Dr. Pepper when he knows I'm tired from a long hard day full of exams or work. Sonic slushes will also make my day in a heartbeat.

4. Text/Call you just to tell you he loves you

This is pretty simple. It takes less than 10 seconds to text, and only a few minutes to call. Sometimes you get these texts right at the perfect moment, and it makes you feel so much better.

5. Come see you when you're sick

Everyone hates being sick. But seeing your friends and family while you're sick can make you feel so much better. Having your boyfriend come to see you and possibly even take care of you just makes being sick that much easier.

6. Respect your decisions

You're not married yet, so your decisions are up to you! He should respect the decisions you make and support you, even if it's not what he thinks is the best decision. After all, you know yourself better than anyone else!

7. Give you a shoulder to cry on

We all have bad days, and sometimes you just can't stop the tears from coming. Even if he's not good with crying, he should give you hugs and love to help you get through it.

8. Compliment you

Even if you look horrible and know so, hopefully, he'll still tell you that you look good. Even if the clothes you're wearing aren't his style, he should still tell you that they look good on you and that you are beautiful each and every day.

9. Call you when you're away or he's away

If you're like me, I miss my boyfriend after being away for about three hours, so when we're apart for more than a couple days, I love getting random calls from him when he knows I'm not busy. It's definitely better than a text.

10. Deal with all your annoying quirks

So if you're anything like me, you enjoy screaming music as loudly and horribly as you can in the car and making a complete fool of yourself, but he should love you for that anyway. I also love to take really stupid pictures, and he should put up with that too. He shouldn't be annoyed by your quirks, he should love them and laugh along with you.

11. Love you no matter what

I honestly feel like this goes without saying, but I put it on here so that the girls who don't feel like they're being loved no matter what can realize. He should want to work out problems with you instead of calling it quits and holding a grudge. He should want you to be happy and support you in every decision you make in life. When he loves you unconditionally, he will do all of the above things and more.

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If You View Being In A Relationship As 'Losing Your Freedom,' You’re In The Wrong Relationship

Someone had to say it.


Relationships are about being the best possible version of yourself separate and together. They're about growing with and doing life alongside your partner. They're fun, loving, and granted, they can sometimes be challenging.

Some challenges that frequently come up in relationships are disagreements (which are for sure gonna happen, because you're two individual people!), dealing with stress, and depending on where you're at in life, it could also be financial struggles. Of course, all relationships are going to have problems and everything won't always be “rainbows and butterflies" as Maroon 5 like to put it.

That being said though, one challenge that shouldn't ever be an issue in a relationship is the loss of freedom. Where did this idea come from?

I see it all the time, people talking about not wanting to get into a relationship because they don't want to "lose their freedom".

If you are in a relationship which causes you to lose your freedom, you are 100% in the wrong relationship.

Being in a relationship is not synonymous with not being able to be yourself or be able to do what you want. In a good relationship, you will be able to still have your alone time, be your own person, hang out with your friends, the list goes on and on. All of these things are so important. Relationships should never consume your life, they should complement it.

Why is this even a conversation we need to be having? Seriously.

Now obviously if you're referring to losing the option of getting with other people or dating around, then yes, you're right, you absolutely shouldn't get into a relationship... but that doesn't mean relationships mean losing your freedom.

If you are in a relationship with someone you love and respect, getting with other people isn't even going to be on your radar. It truly is that simple.

The trend of hating on relationships, for this reason, has gotten so out of hand in recent years, especially on social media. It's so frustrating, though, because it could not be any more inaccurate.

You should absolutely still have freedom in relationships. You can have it. I for one absolutely have it and do not view my relationship as the loss of freedom, at all. If you don't, maybe evaluate that relationship and realize it's not the best one to be in.

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