10 Songs To Share With Your Crush

10 Songs To Share With Your Crush

What better way to get to someone's heart than through music?
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Whether you have Spotify and create playlists or send YouTube links when you want someone to hear a song, these songs are perfect for when you are crushing on someone. All of these songs are unique in their own way and they serve different purposes and carry different messages. Have a listen and see if you’re brave enough to drop some hints on your crush with these tunes:

1. “Wasted” by Dreezy

Send this to your crush if: you’re sick of your crush drunk texting or calling you. Maybe they’ll get the hint that you want to have a real conversation with them and don’t only want to hear their voice when they’ve been drinking. The song doesn’t convey this message in a mean or rude way, but it definitely will send your crush a signal.

2. “Friday Night” by Eric Paslay

Send this to your crush if: you want to be included in their plans on a Friday night! This fun, feel-good country tune basically tells your crush that you want to be the one they hang out with on Friday night and that if they do choose to spend time with you, they won’t regret it.

3. “Give It Up” by Nathan Sykes

Send this to your crush if: you want to subtly tell them you’re DTF. This song is just downright sexy, upbeat, and will make your crush feel good. I guarantee you if you pass this along to your crush, they will smile the whole time.

4. “Priceless” by Sebastian Kole

Send this to your crush if: you want to make them feel special. This song is so sweet and is sure to give your crush butterflies. It’s about not being able to give them the finer things in life, but being able to give them yourself, and how the material things don’t compare to them anyway.

5. “Make Me Like You” by Gwen Stefani

Send this to your crush if: it’s hard to admit that you like them, but you want them to know. Maybe you’re not used to feeling like this about someone and it’s a little bit uncomfortable for you. This song is perfect if you have a tough exterior and high, protective walls to send your crush to say that you like them, but this is a new, uncertain feeling for you.

6. “Beneath Your Beautiful” by Labrinth ft. Emeli Sandé

Send this to your crush if: you want them to open up to you. Catching feelings for someone is scary, especially if you’ve been hurt before. This song addresses the difficulty of being vulnerable and how we think it’s easier to put up walls because we’re protecting ourselves from getting hurt. If you send this to your crush or vice versa, you can be sure they really like you and their intentions are not to hurt you!

7. “Surprise Yourself” by Jack Garratt

Send this to your crush if: you want them to let go and try to overcome their fear of being hurt. This song is very inspirational and doesn’t just apply to crushes; it’s about trying new things and letting go of worry. It reminds me of that Eleanor Roosevelt quote, “do one thing every day that scares you.” If you send this to your crush, it’s a clear indicator that you want them to step out of their comfort zone by taking a chance on you; They may surprise themselves by falling for you.

8. “If These Sheets Were States” by All Time Low

Send this to your crush if: there is distance between you, but you wish they were next to you. This song is about the loneliness that comes with long distance relationships. It can be especially hard at night when you’re alone with your thoughts in bed that you realize how badly you want that person to be closer.

9. “I Wanna” by The All-American Rejects

Send this to your crush if: you want to touch and hold them, but can’t, for whatever reason. My speculation is that this song is about a prisoner who dreams about being able to touch his lover, but can’t because he’s locked up and far away. This is another great song if you’re dealing with geographical distance (and may even spark some sexts.)

10. “Closer” by Tegan and Sara

Send this to your crush if: you want to flirt! This song is super flirtatious and lets your crush know that you’re ready to be physically intimate. It’s about the excitement of lust and the sexual tension building up.


These songs are all perfect for different situations at different stages of potential relationships. Don’t be weirded out by showing your feelings for your crush in the form of songs. They’ll listen to the lyrics knowing that you had them in mind and they’ll be flattered by your thoughtfulness.
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An Open Letter To The Girl In A Toxic Relationship Who Doesn't See The Signs To Let Go

"it took letting go to realize that I was holding onto nothing" -R.H Sin

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Dear you,

I hope you're doing well. I once thought I was too. I once thought that if he would just change, for me, everything would work. However, my sweet girl, you should not have to change people, you should not have to push people to be better, for you. You cannot help anyone, that does not want to help themselves.

In the movies, we learn to love a bad boy that needs changing. However, it isn't always your job to be boys saving grace. However, his shaming and emotional abuse is not just something you should put up with so that you can love him. That is not loving.

Love is not a constant competition of who could belittle the other one first. Love is not asking for a hug and being told no. Love does not make you feel stupid for bringing up things that hurt your feelings.

Love does not grow angry because you talk to your mom about your feelings. Love does not body shame. Love does not constantly change the passcode to their phone.

Love does not laugh when you find out they're unfaithful. Love does not tell you that you are not smart enough to accomplish anything. Love does not force their hand up your thigh when the words "no" slip out of your mouth.

Love is the warmth of a hand on your cheek when you get anxious. Love is getting your backpack out the car for you. Love is turning around when you need them. Love compromises.

Love is encouraging. Love is proud. Love is forgiving. Love sees you for who you are. Love knows you are worthy.

God is your Father and you are His daughter, so do not believe for one second that this abuse is the love you think you deserve.

Love will not always be easy. Love will be challenging and a constant prayer to not anger so quickly.

However, do not mix up challenging with the abuse. If you are losing the good pieces of yourself, then it isn't love. I know that you put a lot of time and effort into this relationship, but it is no good, you are holding on to someone whose heart is not in the right place to love you.

I connected with a poem from R. H. Sin, once I left my toxic relationship which reads, "it took letting go to realize that I was holding onto nothing."

Darling girl, you are so loved by so many people, do not let this relationship hold you back or make you feel less worthy than you are. I have always been the girl with her nose stuck up in the air smelling for smoke, to follow the trail to a burning house to find a boy that needed saving, but it is more than likely a boy that lit the fire in the first place and needs changing.

So, do not be me, be better. Be the girl that lights her own world on fire, for her work, for her family, for God. You are you and you are amazing, so do not fear being without him.

You will feel as if you have come up for air after drowning in an ocean that you had no idea you were swimming in.

The emotional abuse that this boy has put you through and maybe even physical abuse will leave you building walls around your heart. It will make other relationships hard, but you are so so strong.

You will meet someone that makes you so happy and feel so easy to love, you will never understand how you stuck around with the one that hurt you for so long.

You deserve to grow from this, and I promise you will.

Let go.

xoxo,

The girl who learned from a toxic relationship

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Being Far Away From My Boyfriend Actually Strengthened Our Relationship Instead Of Forcing It Apart

While we were apart, we became closer.

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Before I really start this article, I just want to say that my relationship isn't truly a long distance relationship. We are both college students at the same university eight months out of the year, but the other four months we live quite a distance apart. Even during those four months, we are only about 150 miles from each other as the bird flies, but really about three hours from each other.

Being in a relationship where I'm not able to see my boyfriend every day or even every week has been a real challenge. But it's been a good challenge. It hasn't been a challenge because I've felt unfaithful or fallen out of love with him in any way. It's challenging because I miss him. We both work jobs and our schedules aren't the same and oftentimes we aren't able to talk to each other unless it's early in the morning or late at night. There are times when all I want to do is talk to him and tell him about how my day went and get a big bear hug from him. Unfortunately, I'm not really able to do this.

I firmly believe that being apart from each other for days, weeks, or even months have brought us closer than we could've ever imagined. We knew that this would be difficult, and we knew that there would be bad days, but we decided to power through it. It has made each time that we are able to see each other so much more special and meaningful.

Seeing each other has become more of spending time with each other than just laying around on the couch playing around on our phones. It's become really getting to know each other better and catching up on all the things we had missed. It's become a time for us to simply be in each other's presence and enjoy being able to talk face to face without a phone in the middle of us. We go on more adventurous dates, we take more pictures, and I think we would both easily say that we fall more and more in love with each other after each opportunity we have to spend time together.

Spending time together is no longer a daily activity, but it has become a right to be earned through hard work and several paychecks as travel can become expensive. We no longer take opportunities to see each other for granted, and it has made us grow closer because we aren't able to spend time together often. We look forward to the days when we won't have to worry about being apart but know that this is only a stepping stone in our relationship.

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