She is not going to plan out all the dates, initiate all the phone calls, and lead all the conversations. She is not going to be the one doing all the work and putting in all the effort. Not anymore.
2. Mixed signals.
You are either willing to commit to her or you are not. Stop leaning one way and then the other, because she is sick of guessing how you feel. Grow up.
3. Being ignored.
If you reply to the sexy Snapchat she just sent you, but refuse to answer the text she sent hours ago, then she is not going to bother texting or snapping you anymore.
4. Empty promises.
She does not need you to toy with her expectations or emotions. If you tell her you are going to do something, do it. She has been hurt enough in the past. She does not need any fresh wounds.
She wants to be a girlfriend. Not a mother and not a babysitter. That is why she needs a man that has his life together. Or is at least actively trying to get his life together.
6. Being controlled.
She is not willing to hand over her free will to some stranger. She is not going to ditch her friends because her man is threatened by them because he does not want her to leave the house without him. That is just not happening.
7. Unanswered texts.
If you ‘forget’ to reply to her, she is going to ‘forget’ you exist. She is not going to waste her time waiting for a response. Waiting to see if you are interested. Waiting to be treated the way she deserves.
8. Booty calls.
She is not a sex object. She is ready for something real. So no, she is not going to reply when you text her at two in the morning. Try texting her at two in the afternoon next time.
If she asks you a question, like where your relationship is going, she expects you to answer it. No more I do not believe in labels. No more I do not want to talk about this now. Give her a legit answer, because she deserves to know how you feel about her.
It does not matter if you lie about your past history or lie about your favorite color. She is not going to tolerate it. She does not want you to be the guy you assume she wants. She wants you to be you. She wants you to be authentic.
11. Being the second choice.
Do not make plans with her at the last second because another girl bailed on you. Make plans with her a few days in advance. Make it clear that she is a priority and not just the backup plan. Never make a girl feel like a second choice. Ever.
She is done dealing with liars and cheaters and scumbags. She has had one of those in the past. She knows every inch of the little game you are about to play. She knows what she deserves and it is definitely not this.