13 Changes Every Girl Experiences When They Go From Single To Cuffed
Start writing a post
Swoon

13 Changes Every Girl Experiences When They Go From Single To Cuffed

1. Answering my phone

841
13 Changes Every Girl Experiences When They Go From Single To Cuffed
Unsplash

Different relationships bring different changes to life.

Whether it's gaining a best friend or a boyfriend, everyone needs to adjust to start including this new person into their life. For me, I never expected to get a boyfriend in college, but now that I'm here I've had to make those adjustments and learn what it's like to be in a relationship with someone.

Some of the changes were expected, like having to go out to dinner, but some were a little more subtle.

1. Answering my phone.

Anyone that texts me knows that I am probably one of the worst texters ever. I'm extremely guilty of being one of those "oh I'll read this now but respond in a minute" texters, but then never actually responding because I get too distracted. This habit isn't exactly great when I forget to answer my boyfriend's texts for an hour...

2. Scheduling my week.

Knowing my week ahead of time has actually made me a better planner, but it's been weird trying to schedule in plans with my boyfriend because, well, I've never had to do that before. I obviously enjoy spending time with him or going out to dinner together, but it's just an added step in my week.

3. Not worrying about who my date will be to functions.

Not panicking about who I'm going to ask or whether or not it'll be weird if I get set up is honestly such a relief.

4. Spending money on gifts.

I guess holiday season is cuffing season for a reason, right? Spending money on gifts definitely made a dent to my bank account, but it was worth it.

5. Trying to find the right gift.

Honestly, what do guys even want? A wallet? Cologne? A jersey? I'm horrible in this department and my boyfriend's answer of "Anything will be nice," really doesn't help my indecisive mind.

6. Opening up and actually expressing emotions.

I'm a big fan of putting up an emotional wall and letting no one cross it, even though I know that's not exactly the best practice. But, getting a boyfriend has forced me to (reluctantly) start to open up to someone else and not keep my thoughts trapped in my mind, which has admittedly helped me in the long run.

7. You see different sides of their friends

Now that I'm officially dating my boyfriend, I obviously see his friends more than before. I think they've started accepting me in some sort of way, because hearing their stories and seeing what actually goes on in their friend group is eye-opening in so many weird ways.

8. Creating a balance between friends and boyfriend

Sometimes it's hard to find time to breathe let alone make plans with my best friends and my boyfriend. Finding this balance is harder at some times than others, but both parties understand if I can't be with them for a night.

9. Some things get way more fun when you do them together

Watching a funny movie? Driving around and singing horribly together? Making fun of that other couple that's sitting on the same side of the booth? Much funnier.

10. Watching people's reactions when you tell them you're dating someone

My friends literally thought I was joking when I told them for the first time and started laughing.

11. Having someone to tag in funny memes about psycho girlfriends

I can tag my boyfriend so he can see how lucky he is that I'm sooo much less psycho than everyone else!!! I'd highly recommend.

12. Suddenly remembering that your S.O. doesn't know all of the weird sh*t from your past... like high school.

This is dangerous territory. I thought I was done going through this when my roommate found my embarrassing Facebook pics freshman year, but I guess not.

13. Having big sweatshirts to wear!!

I waited a solid amount of time before breaking the news to my boyfriend that he wasn't getting his sweatshirt back. Even though he still complains, I think he knows I won that battle.

Report this Content
houses under green sky
Photo by Alev Takil on Unsplash

Small towns certainly have their pros and cons. Many people who grow up in small towns find themselves counting the days until they get to escape their roots and plant new ones in bigger, "better" places. And that's fine. I'd be lying if I said I hadn't thought those same thoughts before too. We all have, but they say it's important to remember where you came from. When I think about where I come from, I can't help having an overwhelming feeling of gratitude for my roots. Being from a small town has taught me so many important lessons that I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

Keep Reading...Show less
​a woman sitting at a table having a coffee
nappy.co

I can't say "thank you" enough to express how grateful I am for you coming into my life. You have made such a huge impact on my life. I would not be the person I am today without you and I know that you will keep inspiring me to become an even better version of myself.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Waitlisted for a College Class? Here's What to Do!

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

88537
college students waiting in a long line in the hallway
StableDiffusion

Course registration at college can be a big hassle and is almost never talked about. Classes you want to take fill up before you get a chance to register. You might change your mind about a class you want to take and must struggle to find another class to fit in the same time period. You also have to make sure no classes clash by time. Like I said, it's a big hassle.

This semester, I was waitlisted for two classes. Most people in this situation, especially first years, freak out because they don't know what to do. Here is what you should do when this happens.

Keep Reading...Show less
a man and a woman sitting on the beach in front of the sunset

Whether you met your new love interest online, through mutual friends, or another way entirely, you'll definitely want to know what you're getting into. I mean, really, what's the point in entering a relationship with someone if you don't know whether or not you're compatible on a very basic level?

Consider these 21 questions to ask in the talking stage when getting to know that new guy or girl you just started talking to:

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

Challah vs. Easter Bread: A Delicious Dilemma

Is there really such a difference in Challah bread or Easter Bread?

56168
loaves of challah and easter bread stacked up aside each other, an abundance of food in baskets
StableDiffusion

Ever since I could remember, it was a treat to receive Easter Bread made by my grandmother. We would only have it once a year and the wait was excruciating. Now that my grandmother has gotten older, she has stopped baking a lot of her recipes that require a lot of hand usage--her traditional Italian baking means no machines. So for the past few years, I have missed enjoying my Easter Bread.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments