16 Reasons 'Lazy Girls' Often Make The Best Girlfriends

16 Reasons 'Lazy Girls' Often Make The Best Girlfriends

She just doesn't have time for that.
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Don't get me wrong, laziness in anyone can be irritating.

And I give an insane amount of respect to any girl who can put in the effort to always look flawless. Quite frankly, I wish I had the patience to do that.

I also know that it some people really enjoy going out always being on the go, but I'm here to tell you why dating a lazy girl may actually be your best idea.

So here are 16 reasons a lazy girl girlfriend can be the best girlfriend:

1. You will rarely have to wait for her to finish getting ready.

She hates taking the time to finish her hair and makeup, so she will rarely waste her time on it. In fact, that extra 30 minutes that she could be doing her hair and makeup, she will probably spend sleeping.

2. Most days she will rather stay at home and watch the movie on Netflix then go to the theater.

This can work out in your favor by saving money.

3. Since she cares so little about taking the time to make herself look perfect, you won't have to worry about her trying to impress other guys.

She doesn't have time for that.

4. She isn't high maintenance.

You won't have to worry about having to please her because it won't be difficult.

5. You won't get sucked into long shopping trips.

If she doesn't even like spending hours walking around the mall, she definitely won't drag you around either.

6. She'll encourage lazy habits.

You need this more than you realize in your hectic life.

7. She would rather plan a weekly date than trying to plan something for every single day.

Even if she plans on spending every day with you, she won't go through the hassle of planning elaborate dates for every day because she know's she'd rather spend them on the couch with you.

8. You will rarely see her in "real" pants.

Either she's in leggings or her underwear. Seeing her in jeans will make you question what is really going on.

9. She won't wake you up early.

She loves being lazy so you definitely won't find her waking you up before you're ready.

10. She know's shortcuts for 90% of tasks.

She doesn't see the point in spending extra time on something if you don't have to.

11. They won't spend time digging into your past.

They'd rather just ask you whatever they want to know because digging themselves will be too much work for her.

12. Lazy girls tend to be the type to chug a bottle of wine.

I don't mean in a night, I mean like within an hour or two. She's definitely the type of girl you want in your life.

13. You'll get to know the real her.

She won't bother pretending to be someone else because that is exhausting and she's way too lazy for that.

14. She would rather spend a day on the couch with a book.

Her idea of a perfect day includes you, her couch, a cup of coffee and her favorite book.

15. Her idea of a fancy date night includes a pizza or you making her noodles.

She would rather have dinner with you on her living room floor on paper plates than go to a fancy restaurant where you spend a ridiculous amount of money on fancy mac and cheese.

16. She'll always be available when you need her.

You know she spends most of her time at home, so if you ever need her, she'll be there.

Literally, so hot RN

Literally, so hot RN

PSA: Don't Text And Date, Do It Like Our Grandparents

Waiting for a text from a boy is like waiting for water to boil. Sometimes I think if I take a lap around my kitchen then the text will magically light up my phone.

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Texting in our relationships has become so prevalent that it has snuck its way into TV. shows and movies, as well as songs. This makes sense because it is such a large part of our lives. Texting boys can be great in some cases, especially in long distance relationships.

And don't get me wrong, it certainly can be exciting!

But I've realized is that it has the potential to be incredibly inefficient and waste a whole lot of everyone's time. The time that is wasted is a combination of the time spent texting in a conversation that leads absolutely nowhere, along with the time you spend thinking about when that next text is going to roll in. Not to mention all the time you spend screenshotting these texts and sending them to your friends and asking advice on how to craft a perfect reply and agonizing over the right wording, re-typing over and over again, having everyone from your best friend to your Mom weigh in on the perfect syntax.

For a generation that is obsessed with getting everything as fast as possible, why are we contacting each other so inefficiently? We think we will just send a quick text, but more often than not, it turns into a whole production.

Snapchat can be even worse. Taking time out of your day to take a well-lit selfie and send it to a boy just so he can send you a snap of his actual chin is just ridiculous.

We are talking to people constantly about absolutely nothing. And quite frankly, we all deserve more. Technology is great, but just because it is advanced doesn't mean it's advancing our communication skills. Boys, I think it might be time to pick up the phone again. Imagine if instead of spending countless hours in a Snapchat conversation grasping at straws to make a plan with the girl you like, you actually just picked up the phone. The call would take maybe two minutes to set up a plan instead of whittling away a whole day. It seems like just because we have the option to text or message someone, we forget that we have the alternative of a trusty phone call.

If our grandparents had dated the way that we did, would they have ever worked out? Would our parents ever have been born? Would we even exist?

As I am re-watching "Sex and The City," "Gilmore Girls" and "Friends" yet again, I am overcome with nostalgia about what dating was like during these times. I'd love to come home to a message on my machine.

Maybe you're reading this and you think I'm lame and old fashioned and you're absolutely right, but I think I have a point. In order to have better success in our romantic relationships, we need to work on actually saying something. Why are we claiming we are "talking" to someone when we have never talked to them in person? How did we end up in this reality of sulking when we have been left on read, or obsessively checking to see if someone has viewed our Snapchat story?

We've been given all these ways of pseudo-communicating and endless time to do it and absolutely no rule book of what is acceptable. When you really think about it, it's a recipe for disaster that could be destroying our relationships before they even start. We need an Emily Post of technology to teach us how to behave. We need to stop abusing the convenience of technology and start challenging ourselves to communicate better.

I challenge you if you're a single lady that the next time a boy asks for your Snapchat, tell them you'd prefer it if they called you to make plans.

Guys, just call a girl! It might really impress her! Everyone who tries this has full permission to call me and yell at me if the person who calls you/you call says you're a huge freak. But do me a favor and start leaving your ringer on when you're not in class. Let's talk.

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13 Reasons To Date An Aries Girl ASAP

Once she's in, she is in with her entire heart.

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It's my absolute favorite season: Aries season! As an Aries, I tend to flourish as my best self once Aries season rolls around. I'm here to lead the way into the new astrological year, and as a single Aries, I'm here to convince single guys why they should date an Aries girl like me ASAP.

1. She's adventurous

She's not content with humdrum dates, she needs action or she'll leave you out of boredom. She'll be down for something to get her adrenaline pumping and will keep you on your toes.

2. She's driven

She's a girl with goals. She's independent and doesn't need anyone holding her back from what she wants. Support her or get out of her way.

3. She's all in whole-heartedly

When she falls, she falls all at once with her entire being. This is a girl who is willing to put her heart on the line for love once she knows it's real. You'll never have to worry about her heart being anywhere else but with you.

4. She's very direct with her likes and dislikes

She isn't a sugar coater since she hates liars, so she'll be honest about everything. Whether you like it or not, you'll always get the truth from an Aries girl.

5. She's super passionate

Whatever it may be, an Aries will be passionate for what she loves. I am passionate about writing, and I never let anything get in the way of it. In a relationship, an Aries girl will bring the heat that comes with her passion for you.

6. She's not a clinger

She hates clingers SO MUCH. Over the top PDA or romantic things generally make an Aries cringe (maybe not all of us, but I know that's how it is for me). She loves getting attention, but being clingy is a major turnoff, and she isn't one herself. She's not going to beg to see you 24/7, she likes to lead her own life.

7. She's a great listener

She loves to talk, but something she's just as great at is listening. She'll ask you so many questions to get to know you and really listen to what you have to say when you answer them.

8. She's big on friends and family, they come first

She's a big proponent of valuing her friends and family above all else. She will likely go to them for advice about everything. Meeting them is more important to an Aries than many people realize. If you're big on family, she's the girl for you.

9. She's open to anything in the bedroom

Got a fantasy? She's game to indulge. She's adventurous and that extends to bedroom activities as well. The same old routine bores her, so don't be afraid to experiment and try new things.

10. She only uses the past as a means to learn

She's probably got a rough past she doesn't necessarily want to talk about. The past is the past and she tries to use this as a lesson. It takes a lot for her to open up about it. She tries to be optimistic and keep herself in the present, and this optimism may rub off on you eventually.

11. Her cuddle game is epic

You'll never want to leave bed once your Aries girl gets her hands on you. You'll be too comfortable to leave.

12. She loves fashion and wears trends well

She loves wearing what's in fashion and looking her very best. Her outfits may put yours to shame. She's the kind of woman you want on your arm while you're out on the town.

13. She'll be the woman you'll never forget

You may break up or drift apart, but she's the girl that will leave a permanent mark on your heart. She's unforgettable.

Get your Aries while you can, because if you don't scoop her up, someone else will.

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