4 Amazing Things That Make LDRs Worth It
Start writing a post
Swoon

4 Amazing Things That Make LDRs Worth It

Who would have thought?

310
4 Amazing Things That Make LDRs Worth It
unsplash.com

Now, I know that everyone likes to complain about how long distance relationships are so hard and how they suck, I know I have done so many-a-time before; I have even written an article about it but I have learned that sometimes you need to take a step back in life and look on the bright side.

You only have one life, so why not enjoy it and why not be positive; there is too much sadness and hate in the world already why add to it? So, I am going to give you five reasons why long distance relationships, in my opinion, can be way better than ones where you see each other every second of every day.

1. Even though your time away from your sweetie might be long and feel like ages away even though it's only two weeks, that time where you are away you get to spend focusing on other things that are important to you.

For example, your friends and school work get the attention they deserve. There are always those girls that ignore their friends and school whenever they get a boyfriend and long distance refuses to let that happen to you.

2. When you do finally get to see your boy, the time you spend together is filled with things you have been talking about doing for awhile.

Your precious time together is not wasted and you plan out weeks in advance what you want to do. Not only that, but the time you spend together is even more special than it already was because instead of seeing the other person's face on a screen or hearing their voice on the phone, they are actually physically there with you. You can squeeze them whenever you want.

3. When it comes to long-distance relationships, you don't normally have to worry about the other person's commitment to you.

Think about it, neither one of you would be putting up with the stress and pain if you did not feel like it was worth it and that's saying a lot about you and your significant other's feelings for one another. If you did not care a lot about the other person, you would not drive four hours every other weekend, FaceTime or call them every day for an hour just to hear their voice, or text them constantly about your day since they can't be there with you to experience it.

4. Absence does make the heart grow fonder.

I know we have probably all heard this and some of you may not believe it, but if you have ever experienced a long distance relationship, you know it to be true. When you aren't with your sweetie for weeks on end you begin to miss the small things and possibly things that would normally annoy you if you were together all the time.

You find yourself missing how their hair always ends up on every single piece of your clothing, the way that they snore at 1 in the morning and wake you up, or the little kiss they give you when you're half asleep of a way of saying goodnight, I love you.

Report this Content
​a woman sitting at a table having a coffee
nappy.co

I can't say "thank you" enough to express how grateful I am for you coming into my life. You have made such a huge impact on my life. I would not be the person I am today without you and I know that you will keep inspiring me to become an even better version of myself.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Waitlisted for a College Class? Here's What to Do!

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

77636
college students waiting in a long line in the hallway
StableDiffusion

Course registration at college can be a big hassle and is almost never talked about. Classes you want to take fill up before you get a chance to register. You might change your mind about a class you want to take and must struggle to find another class to fit in the same time period. You also have to make sure no classes clash by time. Like I said, it's a big hassle.

This semester, I was waitlisted for two classes. Most people in this situation, especially first years, freak out because they don't know what to do. Here is what you should do when this happens.

Keep Reading...Show less
a man and a woman sitting on the beach in front of the sunset

Whether you met your new love interest online, through mutual friends, or another way entirely, you'll definitely want to know what you're getting into. I mean, really, what's the point in entering a relationship with someone if you don't know whether or not you're compatible on a very basic level?

Consider these 21 questions to ask in the talking stage when getting to know that new guy or girl you just started talking to:

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

Challah vs. Easter Bread: A Delicious Dilemma

Is there really such a difference in Challah bread or Easter Bread?

47864
loaves of challah and easter bread stacked up aside each other, an abundance of food in baskets
StableDiffusion

Ever since I could remember, it was a treat to receive Easter Bread made by my grandmother. We would only have it once a year and the wait was excruciating. Now that my grandmother has gotten older, she has stopped baking a lot of her recipes that require a lot of hand usage--her traditional Italian baking means no machines. So for the past few years, I have missed enjoying my Easter Bread.

Keep Reading...Show less
Adulting

Unlocking Lake People's Secrets: 15 Must-Knows!

There's no other place you'd rather be in the summer.

978091
Group of joyful friends sitting in a boat
Haley Harvey

The people that spend their summers at the lake are a unique group of people.

Whether you grew up going to the lake, have only recently started going, or have only been once or twice, you know it takes a certain kind of person to be a lake person. To the long-time lake people, the lake holds a special place in your heart, no matter how dirty the water may look.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments