7 Bondage And Submission Sex Positions For People On The Naughty List This Season
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Do any of you have partners who have a smart mouth? Are you guys dating someone who constantly destroys you during roast battles? What about those of you who purposely initiate aggression just because you love to be put in your place? If any of these scenarios pertain to you then it's clear either one of you in the relationship (or both) definitely made your way to the naughty list this year.

Browse through this list of positions for the naughtiest of them all and discover the different punishments you can give or get... as long as you have consent of course:

1. All tied up

Using their arms and legs, constrain your partner to each corner of the bed. This is one of the few positions where one of you can ensure that you have maximum control over whatever you want to happen. It's completely up to you to decide if you want to go in strong or use this opportunity be the ultimate tease.

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2. Frog tie 

Using some rope, tie your partner's ankles to their thighs so that they are positioned like a crouched frog. You'll want to make sure that you put them in a place where they aren't completely restricted and can have at least a little bit of range in motion. If you want to go the extra mile, tie up their hands behind their back to increase their level of submission.

3. Spreader Bar

In theory, positions that utilize spreader bars are a simplistic version of the frog tie. This position may not be as restrictive as the frog tie, but there's more variety. For example, you can strap your partner's ankles on the spreader and have their body placed on the edge of the bed and thrust them behind in the doggy position. Then you can grab the spreader bar and use your strength to completely toss them on their back. From here you can lift their legs up, making sure they aren't bent so that your partner's body resembles a 90-degree angle. Then you can continue to thrust while standing up and make eye contact.

4. Wrist tie and doggy

If you aren't interested in a lot of different accessories in bed, you can use any material to tie your partner's wrists up from behind. There are a few things to consider about materials though. Rope is the most durable, but may not be as comfortable on your partner. If they want something that feels better against their skin, try an actual tie for work, a silky tie from a robe, or leather handcuffs.

5. Over-the-wedge

Rear-entry sex positions are already fun, but they can be amplified through the Liberator Wedge/Ramp Combo accessory that uses props for comfort, better positioning, and longer play. It's best to take advantage of the restraint clips on the sides of the wedge to keep your partner under control.

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6. Double Blind

Using one blindfold is a smart way to heighten all senses, but think about how interesting using two blindfolds can be. Not only will both of you have enhanced senses, but it'll promote more interpersonal communication between the two of you. Now you can't rely on them to know where to touch. You literally have to show them or tell them what you want.

7. Ultimate ball tie bondage 

This position has your partner in what resembles the fetal position. To make sure they're secure, bind their wrists and ankles together and make sure their knees are up against their chest while doing so. You may need to use a little bit more rope to make sure their knees are where they need to be. After this is done, place a ball gag to their mouth and attach the remaining material together behind their head. For this position, it's still imperative to have a safety signal just in case of any emergency whether it be rapidly blinking their eyes or nodding their head a certain way since they aren't allowed to speak.

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How Much Do You REALLY Know About Contracting STDs? Take This Quiz To Test Yourself

Time to find out how much you really know.

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I don't care what anyone says, safe sex is better than unprotected sex. There are a ton of myths regarding sex, STDs, and germs. It's time to learn the facts. Be kind to your body and protect it. Be honest with yourself and a partner. Even if it's a one night stand, STDs should be on your mind–don't let it be a turnoff. STDs have been on the rise and "The United States continues to have the highest STD rates in the industrialized world." This is your wake-up call.





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My Parents Didn’t Tell Me To Stay Pure Until Marriage, I Made That Decision On My Own

So, please respect my decision.

tiannat
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As we evolve into a more open and accepting world, the one thing that is getting less taboo is sex. It's not something that is talked about behind closed doors. It's something that is on the television screens and easily accessible on our phones. People talk about it and promote it like it's small talk. It's so hard to escape, especially as a young adult.

To say that I am staying pure until marriage is a very uncommon thing, at least in my opinion. Sure, I have friends who are in the same boat as I am. But, even at a Christian college, sex is everywhere and most people are partaking in it. However, I decided to not.

Growing up, my parents never told me to stay pure until marriage directly. I went to church and heard about it in sermons. I knew that by keeping myself pure until marriage, I would enjoy it more knowing that I waited for my future husband. I understand that some people may not agree with me on this topic, but here's why I am saving myself.

1. I want to know that the man loves me.

For me, I want to have sex with someone that I love. Now, you may defend this with the fact that your boyfriend loves you. That's great. But, dating isn't always a sure thing. Boys (and girls) can say that they love you, just to get in your pants. And, they will. It happens all the time. And, because you are blinded by love, you will end up giving in and doing it. But, see, I don't want to be blinded by love. I want to know that the person I am with, is with me forever. By making the biggest commitment aka marriage, that is a clear sign that they love me and want me forever. This is a good example of actions show more than words do. They can say they love me, but when they showcase that love, that's when I know it is real.

2. I want to give all of me to one person.

I heard this great example my senior year that discusses this exact thing. For someone like Hugh Hefner, who was with HUNDREDS of women, when he got older, he said he didn't feel anything anymore when it came to sex. He was numbed by the whole experience. It wasn't pleasurable or for love. By having sex with countless women, he had given a little part of himself to each of them, until he had nothing left. Therefore, by saving myself for one person, they would be getting all of me. As a whole. 100%. This is special because no one else has that except for my future husband.

3. The idea of getting pregnant scares me because of the lack of security.

For the past three generations in my family, they have all had children young. 15, to 17, to 20 years old. Blinded by love. Manipulated by their hormones. They had sex and got pregnant. To see not only 1 woman, but 3 women in my life go through that, I know how difficult it is. You're a kid yourself. Personally, I do want children. However, I have so many dreams and goals for myself. I want to graduate from college. Get a good career. Travel. Fall in love. A lot of that can be halted by a child. I don't know if I would get to achieve everything I want to, especially if I would have to raise the child alone (which usually happens). So, by waiting for marriage, I am using the biggest form of birth control.

4. There's no comparing, if you have only been with one person.

Now, this is different for every relationship. However, everyone feels insecure or uncomfortable when it comes to dating and relationships. Knowing that someone has had sex prior, you wonder if you are shaping up or doing better than the previous. By only having sex with one person, it relieves the stress of comparison.

5. It brings me closer to God.

One important lesson I have learned from friends, college, and personal experience, is that relationships (when it isn't built on God), you tend to stray away from Him. Therefore, by making my relationship with God stronger, I fall in love with Him first. Then, I am capable of loving a boy and committing to something like marriage and sex.

So, no, my parents never convinced me to stay pure until marriage. It was my own decision. I have reasoning for staying pure and it's my choice. So, please stop shaming virginity in the 21st century, because I'm not shaming you if you aren't one.

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