7 Bondage And Submission Sex Positions For People On The Naughty List This Season
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Do any of you have partners who have a smart mouth? Are you guys dating someone who constantly destroys you during roast battles? What about those of you who purposely initiate aggression just because you love to be put in your place? If any of these scenarios pertain to you then it's clear either one of you in the relationship (or both) definitely made your way to the naughty list this year.

Browse through this list of positions for the naughtiest of them all and discover the different punishments you can give or get... as long as you have consent of course:

1. All tied up

Using their arms and legs, constrain your partner to each corner of the bed. This is one of the few positions where one of you can ensure that you have maximum control over whatever you want to happen. It's completely up to you to decide if you want to go in strong or use this opportunity be the ultimate tease.

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2. Frog tie 

Using some rope, tie your partner's ankles to their thighs so that they are positioned like a crouched frog. You'll want to make sure that you put them in a place where they aren't completely restricted and can have at least a little bit of range in motion. If you want to go the extra mile, tie up their hands behind their back to increase their level of submission.

3. Spreader Bar

In theory, positions that utilize spreader bars are a simplistic version of the frog tie. This position may not be as restrictive as the frog tie, but there's more variety. For example, you can strap your partner's ankles on the spreader and have their body placed on the edge of the bed and thrust them behind in the doggy position. Then you can grab the spreader bar and use your strength to completely toss them on their back. From here you can lift their legs up, making sure they aren't bent so that your partner's body resembles a 90-degree angle. Then you can continue to thrust while standing up and make eye contact.

4. Wrist tie and doggy

If you aren't interested in a lot of different accessories in bed, you can use any material to tie your partner's wrists up from behind. There are a few things to consider about materials though. Rope is the most durable, but may not be as comfortable on your partner. If they want something that feels better against their skin, try an actual tie for work, a silky tie from a robe, or leather handcuffs.

5. Over-the-wedge

Rear-entry sex positions are already fun, but they can be amplified through the Liberator Wedge/Ramp Combo accessory that uses props for comfort, better positioning, and longer play. It's best to take advantage of the restraint clips on the sides of the wedge to keep your partner under control.

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6. Double Blind

Using one blindfold is a smart way to heighten all senses, but think about how interesting using two blindfolds can be. Not only will both of you have enhanced senses, but it'll promote more interpersonal communication between the two of you. Now you can't rely on them to know where to touch. You literally have to show them or tell them what you want.

7. Ultimate ball tie bondage 

This position has your partner in what resembles the fetal position. To make sure they're secure, bind their wrists and ankles together and make sure their knees are up against their chest while doing so. You may need to use a little bit more rope to make sure their knees are where they need to be. After this is done, place a ball gag to their mouth and attach the remaining material together behind their head. For this position, it's still imperative to have a safety signal just in case of any emergency whether it be rapidly blinking their eyes or nodding their head a certain way since they aren't allowed to speak.

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11 Thoughts You Have While Losing Your Virginity

Oh my god, it's happening!

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Everyone has an idea of how they want the first time they have sex to be like. And while you might have this idea, and you might be prepared, you definitely aren't prepared for how awkward it can be. (Or for those awkward thoughts that are racing through your mind as it's happening.) So I surveyed former virgins about they were thinking about it when they had sex for the first time.

Here are all the thoughts they had when they lost their virginity:

1. "Is it over yet?"

OK, so this one was me. But it was so BORING. He laid there and didn't do anything, I was on top and I thought it was going to hurt but it didn't... I'll let you guys connect the dots. But anyway, I lied to him said that it hurt and asked if we could stop just so it would be over.

2. "I hope I'm doing OK."

Let's be real here though, this was probably everyone.

3. "This is happening. This is happening."

Probably everyones thoughts right when things start heating up.

4. "Well, this isn't what I expected. It's nothing like the movies."

Losing your virginity is nothing like "Fifty Shades of Grey." It's more like fifty shades of red from, embarrassment and putting in work.

5. "I hope it doesn't hurt—it hurts, when is this going to end."

I would bet that a lot of girls had this thought.

6. "He's not going anywhere."

I got a bunch of these comments.

7. "She's amazing."

Once again I got a bunch of these.

8. "This is happening fast."

It probably did, one minute you're putting on Netflix and the next you're naked...

9. "Do I really want this?"

If this is what you're thinking, just stop... yes even in the middle of it.

10. "I don't want this to end."

#CantRelate

11. "Will I look any different?"

I mean you don't look like your orgasm face, but no you won't look different.

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Contrary To Popular Belief, Friends With Benefits Can Work—But Only If You’re Willing To Take 'Friends' Out Of The Equation

The beauty of being friends with benefits is that if you find someone you trust, you can have that intimacy, without any expectations or jealousy.

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I was involved in a very toxic, controlling and jealousy-fueled relationship a few years back which was why, upon breaking off from it, I swore to myself that I will never ever commit into another relationship until I truly found The One.

After all, I'll be the one to admit—the college dating scene sucks. Every time I convince myself to try going out more and to start dating again, I end up instead going on one god-awful first date after another, relying on friends to set me up with guys, and being stampeded by that anxiety-inducing responsibility of having to text, call and snapchat a boy around the clock just to convince him that I'm into him.

I never actually considered having casual relationships or god forbid—even a friends with benefits situation with any guy I met. Maybe it's just my conservative upbringing in which my parents constantly drilled it into my head that I definitely shouldn't go around messing around with a different guy each week. Or maybe it was my reluctance to give it up to some random guy I just met and consequently come off as “easy."

But then this guy came along. And he completely transformed me, and how I viewed casual relationships.

Let's just call him "John."

But John is someone who I hit it off with from the moment we met and he's probably the only guy I've met who I had a physical attraction to, but not an emotional attraction to.

I have to admit that although he portrays this “bad boy" persona on the exterior, he does truly have a kind soul on the inside which I'm usually able to see right through. But this “bad boy" image is probably why I wouldn't consider dating him in a serious relationship. I mean, because if I brought a guy like him home, my dad would most likely flip shit and my mom would throw a plant at him.

On top of that, our interests and career paths are so different from each other that it's hard to find things to relate to or build mutual respect for each other. He's graduating in a few months, heading off to grad school or perhaps even starting a entry level corporate job, and I don't ever see myself trying to commit to someone like that when I'm still stuck in school with a gazillion responsibilities to keep track of.

But well I'll put it this way—we were extremely attracted to each other, and one thing led to another and we hooked up. And as we sat next to each other talking unanimously for probably an hour after doing the deed, we both decided that we weren't looking for a relationship but that we definitely didn't want this to be some kind of one-night stand.

So we decided to be friends with benefits.

Now, I think the reason why friends with benefits is so looked down upon in our generation is that it defines everything that's wrong with dating culture today. It takes away the conventional method of wooing someone, going on a few dates and then using intimacy as a way to express your love for one another. And also, many people don't like it because it's easy to catch feelings for someone, and that's it's nearly impossible for it to actually work out.

But contrary to popular belief, it actually works.

But here's the catch: friends with benefits is NOT a balancing act of being friends and being sex partners. Rather, you have to be willing to give up one side of the equation in order to successfully obtain the other.

And in the case between me and John, we gave up trying to be “friends" in order to maintain the “benefits" and as a result, it works out perfectly.

The beauty of being "friends with benefits" is that if you find someone you trust, you can have that intimacy, without any expectations or jealousy. And if you stop considering them to be your “friend," then you don't constantly have to think about them or try to make time to see them and you don't even need to freak out if you haven't heard from them for a few days.

But when you do get to see them and get to hang out, it's just this beautiful time you both can savor and really be in the moment without having to express all your emotional thoughts and feelings. Everything is stress-free between me and John, because of the lack of expectation of trying to either make this into an intimate relationship or trying to still be “friends" on top of it.

So here's my main piece of advice to anyone who wants friends with benefits without catching feelings: do not start texting each other all the time or try seeing each other too much. Because if you do, that's when you start catching feelings and try developing something more in the relationship.

If I had the choice, I probably wouldn't have followed John on Instagram (and I encourage you not to), just so I don't ever have to have that thought of whether he was watching my Insta Story or not, or who that girl was in his picture.

My other advice is to take try to take the notion of "friends" out of the equation. As mentioned above, I feel as if most of the time when "friends with benefits" doesn't work out, it's because you both are trying so hard to keep up the "friends" part of it that it begins to blur the lines together, which leads to confusion and heartbreak.

And if you find yourself still wanting to be his "friend" after enjoying the "benefits", I would recommend you to STOP what you're doing and have a conversation with him ASAP.

Be honest, be upfront and don't impose.

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