Because I Don't Thank My Best Friend Enough

Because I Don't Thank My Best Friend Enough

For all the things I should thank my BFF for but never do.
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We all have that best friend that has been there for us no matter what we are going through, and we know that they will never leave our side. Chances are, though, you haven't thanked them in awhile for being the absolute greatest best friend in the world. So here's a couple of things we could probably all thank our best friend for.

1. Thank You For Always Being Down To Get Food

This one may not seem serious, but it definitely is. There's comfort in the fact that you know you won't be the only one going to get food late at night. Aka getting fat. That's what best friends are for, though, so thanks BFF for those late night T-Bell runs.

2. Thank You For Having Jam Sessions With Me In The Car

I know that every time we get in the car together, it's going down. Whether it is jamming to T. Swift, Justin Bieber, Jana Kramer, or really anything- we are going to scream at the top of our lungs and pull out our best dance moves. Honestly, I couldn't imagine a car ride without one of our famous "concerts."

3. Thank You For Listening To My Stories

Even though you've probably heard the same story five times, you still sit there laughing and smiling like this is the first time you heard it.

4. Thank You For Believing In Me

I know my insecurities tend to get the best of me, knowing that not matter what you've got my back and you know I can do it means the world. Even when I don't believe in myself, you believe in me so much that I don't really have to. You give me the confidence I need when I need it the most and you don't know how much it means to me.

5. Thank You For Telling Me That Guy Isn't Good Enough

Even though half the time I don't believe you, knowing that you believe he isn't good enough and that there is someone better out there gives me hope. You make sure I have the best guy standing by my side, and I know that will never change. Eventually (I hope) there will be a guy that meets the standards you have set for him, and I know he'll basically be the one because no guy has been good enough yet.

6. Thank You For Crying/Laughing/Hating Life/Being Weird With Me

No matter what mood I'm in you either understand or in that same mood as well. If I'm super upset and have no clue what to do with my life, I know I can just come sit on your bed and cry it out. If I want to cry at proposal videos I definitely know you'll be down because we love love. When I can't stop laughing at the dumbest things, it's okay because you're probably laughing that hard too. If I hate life or people, you're hating the same things. And when we're together, it's always weird and people judge. But do we care? Heck no.

7. Thank You For Being My Person

Sometimes I don't even know how I'm feeling or what to say, but I know I can just give you a look and you totally know what I'm saying without saying it. You know all my secrets, all my fears, all my joys, the things I love most, the things I can't stand, yeah...you know it all. And even though you know it all you don't judge or leave me. You have stayed by my side and continued being my person. Actually, you knowing all these things about me has made us closer.

8. Thank You For Loving Me

No matter how the day goes, what we say to each other, how long it's been since we've last talked- I know that we'll end the day still loving each other. I know there isn't really anything that can stop us from being best friends. So, thanks for loving me. Thanks for being there. Thanks for everything you do.

I know I don't tell you thank you as much as I should. But know that even when I don't say it, I'm thinking it. I wouldn't trade our friendship for the world and I am glad you're my best friend. Thank you for staying by my side.

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Before You Double Text Read These 10 Reasons On Why He Hasn't Responded To Your Text

If he has left your last message on 'Read' or 'Delivered' here is why.

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It's all fun and games until your newest boo doesn't text you back. You're panicking wonder if you did something or how busy are they to not have responded to you. It's a shot to your pride when you are contemplating sending a double text, so you type a message and delete it, just to repeat the same process over.

1. He is overwhelmed with school

School can be very stressful at times, and everyone processes that stress differently. He may be able to give you the attention you desire because his proprieties lie with his academics.

2. He is not interested and doesn’t know how to tell you

Communicating is important, but not all guys know how to. He does not want to hurt your feelings, so instead of telling you straight up he is not interested, he just doesn't give you any more of a reason to be interested in him.

3. Your last message was not response worthy

Whether it was a bad joke or a dying conversation, he did not feel the need to respond. He did not feel like the conversation was worth continuing or that he could bring anymore excitement to it.

4. You are making assumptions about him

Don't make assumptions about a guy and push those assumptions upon him. If you want to grow with him, you can't believe everything you hear. Guys find it disrespectful when you take false information and try to use it against them.

5. He is busy

If he is apart of athletics, has a job or takes part in any extracurricular activities his amount of free time is very minimal. Scrolling through twitter feed or Instagram is a force of habit, but texting takes a little more energy he is not willing to use.

6. He is napping

Boys sleep. A lot. They stay up all night playing video games and get exhausted during the day. His phone is probably on Do Not Disturb while he takes a three hour nap, just to wake up and forget to take his phone off Do Not Disturb.

7. He has heard rumors

You have potentially done something in your past that he is not fond of and he would rather not continue talking to you. Whatever has been said, he believes it and does not see a point in continuing something with you.

8. Someone else is occupying his time

No girl wants to deal with the thought of her guy dealing with another woman, but there is always a chance. He may not be giving you attention because his attention is with another a girl. He trying to play both sides of the fence but cannot equally give you you both all his time. You just so happen to be the girl that receives the lesser of his time.

9. Playing video games

You know it. I know it. We all know it. Guys are addicted to the controller. Whether it be Fortnite or 2K, they are always some how online gaming. They game for hours and do not want to take a break to text you back.

10. He forgot

Boring, but true. Once he forgets to reply he probably won't reply period. Once forgotten, they typically feel like there is no point and it is just too late to say something back. If you see him in person, don't take it personal, make a funny joke out of it and forget it ever happened.

Now you no longer have to wonder why he hasn't texted you back. There are so many reasons why guys don't respond or even text back hours later. You have to decide whether it is because of his schedule or if he is up to no good.

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9 Perfect Reactions To The Invasive Questions Every Woman's Family Asks During The Holidays

I'd rather talk about the weather.

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Going home for the holidays can be the highlight of the season. Free food and socializing with your family can be a stress relieving experience.

Everyone wants to catch up on how you're doing and how college is going.

Unfortunately, after your 21st birthday, people start asking about "milestones" in your life. People want to know when you're getting married and having kids.

These questions are especially invasive for women who do not plan to get married or have children. If you are asked one of these nine questions, here are the perfect reactions to them.

1. "Are you seeing anyone new?"

Trust me, if I was seeing someone new, then you would have heard about it. I would have run into this house and told everyone about my new bae. Since that did not happen, you should assume I'm very single. Find me a full-time college student with a job that has time to look for a partner.

2. "Are you still seeing [insert name of ex-partner]?"

Nope, I'm not. Did you notice that I didn't mention their name in the last 20-minute conversion that we've had? Or that they're not here meeting the family. Just assume that they're canceled and never going to be spoken about again.

3. "Have you lost weight? It will help you find a boyfriend."

Do not ask about my weight when we're about to sit down to a 2,000 calorie meal. Have you lost weight? That's what I'd like to know.

4. "When can we meet your partner?"

Considering that they're not currently here with us, the answer is no. It's too soon and I'm not ready for them to meet my crazy family. Remember, I want him to like me.

5. "Are you planning on getting married?"

Do you see a ring on my finger? That's how you'll know I'm getting married. Turn your Facebook notifications on and you'll be very up-to-date on the state of our marriage.

6. "Do you want to have a big wedding?"

0/10 do I want to have a big wedding. Just for asking, you are not invited.

7. "How many kids do you want to have?"

Stop. Asking. Women. About. Having. Kids. There are many women who do not want children or cannot have children. If I didn't bring it up keep your thoughts to yourself or ask someone else.

8. "Do you want to be a stay-at-home mom?"

Have you asked my partner if they're staying at home with the baby? No? Then don't ask me. If my partner isn't expected to stay home, neither should I.

9. "Are you moving back home?"

I haven't decided if I'm moving back yet. If you want to pay my rent, you can let me know.

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