12 Solid Date Ideas For The Indecisive Couple Who Can Never Make Up Their Minds
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Are you and your boo/bae always trying to figure out what to do but can't seem to agree on something? Do you usually ask, "Where do you want to eat?" and they reply with, "I don't know," making you bang your head against the wall until your unconscious? If you said yes to any of these questions, you're reading the right article. Dates don't have to be so complex, so why do we always make them feel that way?

Here are 12 date ideas for all you indecisive couples out there who just can't seem to get it right:

1. Watch the Sunset 

Grab a blanket and some snacks and head on over to the beach or the park and watch the sunset. It's not only romantic, but it's also a great way to appreciate nature and the world around you.

2. Game Night

Like to get a little competitive? Have a game night and break out "Monopoly" or "Cards Against Humanity" or any other of your favorites.

3. Go to Ikea

Yes, Ikea dates are a thing. They have food there in case you get hungry, and you get to look at so many interesting pieces of furniture. You can spend hours there getting lost all while spending time with someone you enjoy.

4. Walk Around Your Favorite Book Store

If you have a local bookstore or a Barnes and Noble, walk around the aisles and discover new books to read. Maybe pick out a book you can read together and grab some coffee.

5. Adult Treasure Hunt With the Geocaching App

There's this app called Geocaching, which is basically a treasure hunt for adults. You turn on your location and it will tell you where to find the geocache. Once you find it, have a pen handy so you can sign and date in the logbook and then you move on to the next one.

6. Check Out Your Local Food Trucks

There are always different types of foods to try at any food truck event. Maybe share a few different options so you won't fill up on food so fast.

7. Go To A Comedy Show

There are usually comedy shows that happen locally. It's a great way to just sit down, relax, and have a good laugh.

8. Brunch It Up

Who doesn't love brunch? It's an opportune time to enjoy breakfast/lunch food and maybe a mimosa.

9. Attend Trivia Night

There are many bars that will have weekly trivia nights, especially themed ones. Put your heads together. You can also get to know each other better by seeing what you both know.

10. Ice Skating

Strap on some skates and get on the ice. Doesn't matter if you look like a newborn baby deer just learning how to walk, you'll have fun in the process. Plus, you can hold each other's hand if you're scared you might fall.

11. Arcade Games and Photo Booths  

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Go to an arcade, perhaps a Dave and Busters or a Boomers, and see who can win the most tickets. Whoever wins will get a cute prize to keep as a memory. If there's a photo booth, take some silly photos to commemorate your win/loss....

12. Attend A Sporting Event

You can find cheap tickets to a basketball or hockey game. Even if you're not super into sports, it's still fun to attend and eat some greasy food.

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To The Boyfriend Who Makes It Feel Like Valentine's Day Every Single Day Of The Year

I couldn't ask for better.

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If love is in the air and it's all over your Instagram feed, that can only mean one thing: Valentine's Day is approaching.

When it comes to Valentine's Day, people typically try to go over the top and demonstrate how much love they have for someone else through giving gifts. Whether that's flowers, chocolates, or going out to dinner, the gifts are meant to show that it's a special day that's all about the person they love.

That's not the case for me.

Valentine's Day is just another day to me. The love I receive from my boyfriend on a daily basis makes me feel like a queen every day, so nothing will really change once February 14th rolls around.

To him, I just want to say two things: thank you, and I love you.

Growing up, I never thought I would know a love as wholesome as yours. I sure as hell never thought I would deserve it, either, but you've shown me my worth and what real love feels like.

I used to not know my worth. I used to only know love as something that turned toxic and controlling. You changed all of that once you came into my life. You have shown me a healthy love that was trusting and unconditional, and I'll love you forever because of that.

I don't need Valentine's Day to know how much you love me. I don't need flowers, chocolates, or anything material to know that you see the rest of your life by my side. I know all of these things because you consistently show me that they're true on a daily basis.

You show me love in everything you do, whether that's holding the door open for me when we go out to eat, asking me how my day was, or making sure that my mental health is okay. You always greet me with a hug and a kiss, and you make me feel like I'm the most important person in the entire world.

You don't need to demonstrate a grand gesture to prove to me that you love me because I've never once doubted your feelings for me. You always tell me how beautiful I am and all of the things you love about me. I'm so thankful to be so head over heels for someone who cares about me with all of their heart.

I could never ask for someone better than you to be my partner in crime. You know me better than I know myself and I love every fiber of who you are. I know that in everything you do, you have me in your mind and your heart. You've shown me what it means to truly love someone, and for that, I'm so grateful.

Thank you for showing me what I deserve, and thank you for making every day feel like the most romantic holiday on the calendar. I love you.

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If You're Grossed Out By PDA, Then Don't Look At Me And My Boyfriend Kissing, Easy As That

Building my relationship and showing my boyfriend how much I love him will always be more important than catering to someone's bitterness.

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Whenever I see two people kiss, I always smile to myself briefly before looking away. That may sound weird, but honestly, there's something really heartwarming about knowing that other people are happy and in love. In a world that all too often seems full of hatred, heartbreak, and suffering, I try to value little moments of love. I've always felt this way, regardless of whether I was moody or happy, single or cuffed, and having a good or bad day. But apparently, other people, as I've recently found out, don't feel the same way.

"Do you two ever brush your teeth?"

"Are you picking bugs off of each other?"

*Other various glares and audibly annoyed sounds*

Talk about a mood killer, right?

I'll never get what possesses people to say stuff like that when there's a simple solution to this problem.

Don't like it? Don't look.

No one is forcing you to watch us be affectionate with each other. You can easily turn around, check the notifications on your phone, or talk to whoever you're with instead.

I've kissed my boyfriend in LOADS of places: restaurants, bus stops, school buildings, carnivals, parks, beaches, cars, apartments, social gatherings, and so on... And I can promise you that even when you act disgusted by what we're doing or make a nasty comment about us, we're not going to stop. So there's really no point in wasting your breath or expending energy on overdramatic facial expressions.

Even if just for a brief moment, try to think about why a couple might be showing affection for each other in public. (News flash: They're not doing it to deliberately make you comfortable.) It's more than likely that these two people are making the most of a moment.

They're happy and in love. There's nothing wrong with that.

On the flip side, why are you making such a big deal out of something that doesn't involve you whatsoever? My guess is that you're either unbearably lonely, jealous because your own relationship isn't suiting your needs, or just generally coldhearted. If any of those scenarios are true, I wouldn't be surprised. You chose to be hateful and rude over being civil and staying out of matters that don't personally involve you.

Regardless of the circumstance, it's a you problem that you need to work out on your own time.

Just like communication and effort, affection is an important part of a relationship. I want my boyfriend to know that regardless of where we are or who is around us, I will never be embarrassed or reluctant to kiss him or touch him. His feelings guide my behavior. He's my #1 priority. Building my relationship and showing my boyfriend how much I love him will always be more important than catering to someone's bitterness.

You can't avoid being around happy couples in public (really, we're everywhere), but you can change your reaction to them. And that's that.

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