10 Reasons Dating The Girl Who Loves Cats MORE Than You Is 100 Percent Worth It

10 Reasons Dating The Girl Who Loves Cats MORE Than You Is 100 Percent Worth It

If they can handle their cat's sass, they can certainly handle yours.

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Dating all by itself is a complete pain, but you add some cat hair and toe beans, you're set. I'm not claiming to have all of these answers correct, but we cat lovers do give our heart and souls to our furbabies, which completely benefits you for the following reasons:

1. They will always treat your cats like the kings/queens they are.

We already treat our cats like the mini gods/goddesses that they truly are, so rest assured that we will bestow just as much love to your pets that we do to our own. Honestly, we would give the love away freely to a stray off the street if they got close to us.

2. They're already portrayed as crazy – which means they'll be considerate of you and support you.

When cat people buy furniture or update their wardrobe even, they think deeply about how it's going to be affected by their cats. If you own a black cat (I do), it might not be a good idea to purchase white bedding, on principle alone because you're thinking of their comfort as well as thinking about how often you actually would clean something else.

3. They make cute meows or purrs in response to things – whether or not it's to a cat is moot.

This is pretty self-explanatory. We make cat sounds to human stuff too, it's a thing - but it's cute when you're dating us and it's a sign of affection.

4. They're perfectly fine with little personal space because they're already used to being smothered by their cat(s).

9/10 (there's always that 10% of cats) that our cat (s) are up our butts 24/7. Trying to pee? Too bad, keep the door open. Trying to eat? It's their food too - so we are already prepared to give up our pet

5. Their picture-taking abilities with their cat(s) and you are essentially perfect.

How many pictures of their cats do you think we have? I assure you that we have prepped and prepared then purrfect phots of our cat(s) to the point that our own photos are so fantastic you couldn't compete

6. They're more tolerant of your nonsense because they're used to cleaning up shit.

Cat litter, anyone? Or perhaps hairballs, torn paper, socks, towels, knocked over glasses and the list goes on. If we have an asshole cat, we be more willing to tolerate your nonsense - so are you ready for us yet? Or better yet, are we ready for you? 🤔

7. They're super easy to buy gifts for.

The options here are endless. Cat-themed items for them, cat gifts for them for their cats, or if push comes to shove... a cat!

8. They'll get super excited when they see cats or kittens… and probably try to take all of them home.

Fair warning that adoption day is dangerous, we will want to take every cat and kitten home with us, do not doubt our abilities to love another kitty. THERE IS PLENTY OF ROOM FOR THEM, that's why there's always plenty of love for you. 😘

9. They'll be loyal AF to you and to their/your cats.

And any other cat(s) that come their way. Owning a cat is a commitment, most cat-lovers will keep their babies for the rest of the meows lives, so don't worry about loyalty, they're already working it with Fluffy.

10. They also have a deep understanding of freedom and the need to come and go at will.

Like having no personal space (0% peeing alone), your SO will understand needing space. Getting into a fight with fluffykins after they knocked grandmas heirloom into the toilet can do that to you (kidding, mostly). So we get space, we need it too.

Remember that your cat-obsessed significant other is amazing. They will love you because their love for their 4-legged fury counterparts is endless, meaning it'll be endless forever. Our loyalty is boundless, so look at us more as gems than anything else.

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If You Loved The Wrong Person That Much, Imagine How Much You Could Love The Right Person

You fell in love with the wrong person, sweetie. But, it isn't the end of your love story — this is only the beginning.

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Love.

We all crave, wish, hope, and pray for it.

If you're like me, you've been planning your wedding from a young age. I've always imagined what it would be like when my "Prince Charming" finally waltzed his way into my life. Eventually, he did, or at least I thought he did.

I fell in love with whom I believed was my "Prince Charming," Ross to my Rachel, Augustus Waters to my Hazel Grace, Jim to my Pam. You name it, I believed it. I truly saw myself spending the rest of my life with this man. I loved him with every piece of me. I trusted him with my heart, but he broke all of that. I truly believed he put the stars in the sky.

Sadly, I was wrong. So. Wrong.

I, of course, would have done anything for this man. I was head over heels in love and just wanted to make him happy. I loved him so much. However, after he broke the trust that we had built and decided that he no longer loved me, that all vanished. I was left questioning what I did wrong? What did I do to deserve this? All I did was give you love and shower you with it. I did everything for you.

Then, the answer hit me. I didn't do anything wrong. In fact, I did everything right.

See, the thing is, when you are loving the person who you think you are supposed to be with at the end of the day, all you are doing is wasting your time. The person that you are meant to be with will look past your flaws and fall in love with them. You won't have to ask the person that you are supposed to be with for him/her to spend time with you, to prioritize you, to act like they truly want to be in your life. You won't have to ask the person that you are supposed to be with to love you, because they will do it unconditionally, just like how you did with the wrong person.

When you love the wrong person wholeheartedly, you never seem to win. You are always doing something wrong in the end. It's always your fault, isn't it? No matter how hard you try, how many kisses you shower them with, how much time you devote to them out of your schedule, it's still not enough. But why can't you win when you sacrifice so much for this one person? Aren't you supposed to be in love? Yes, YOU love them with your entire heart, but why can't you receive the same love and respect back?

Because you are not meant to be.

Those that you are not meant to be with will never see your worth. They will never appreciate you for the amazing, independent, strong, beautiful, and courageous person that you are. However, the person that you are meant to love wholeheartedly will, and they will do whatever it takes to show you your worth. They will love you for you and never make you question why you always seem to love more than your significant other does.

So, trust me, sweetheart, when I say you're meant to be will find their way to you. Maybe they already have and you don't even know it. Just have patience and love yourself, because when you fall in love with yourself, you will have so much more love to give to the right person.

Your right person is out there. We all have and deserve a Ross to our Rachel, an Augustus Waters to our Hazel Grace, a Jim to our Pam. So, straighten your head and hold it up high because your crown is tilting.

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Subtle Ways You May Be Disrespecting Your Friend's Relationship

If they make your friend happy, you shouldn't be doing these things.

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No ones significant other wants to tell them they don't like their friends. And trying to tell anyone not to hang out with the people they're closest too is a disaster waiting to happen.

Some people really just don't like their friend's partner, but others have no idea the damage they may be doing to the relationship. If you are more aware of some things to avoid, hopefully, you, your friend, and their partner can all get along in peace.

1. When you see your friend, make sure to acknowledge their partner.

To be honest, this is a basic courtesy. If you go to say hi to anyone in a group of people, it is polite to greet, or at least acknowledge, everyone there. If you completely ignore that your friend's partner is even there, it will make them feel awkward and neglected. Just say hi.

2. Don't be overly touchy-feely with your friend, especially around their partner.

Obviously, this mostly applies to friends of the opposite sex (for heterosexual couples). Look, there is nothing wrong with having friends of the opposite sex but just know your boundaries. You may think your friend's partner is being jealous for no reason, but are you doing anything that might make them uncomfortable?

You don't need to always have your arm around them or be leaned up against them. It is really inappropriate to kiss them on the cheek or give them super long hugs, even if that is something you did before they had a partner, and even if it is completely platonic.

You can still hug and be close to your friend, just be respectful of their boundaries. If you don't give their partner any reason to be jealous then they will have no basis to dislike you.

3. If you invite your friend somewhere, it is polite to also invite their partner.

Even if you assume your friend's partner is going to come, it is nice to make them feel welcomed. And if you don't want their partner to come, make sure they are not together or planning to be together when you invite your friend.

You don't have to always have their partner around, but don't make it a habit of not inviting them. If they don't feel welcomed around their partner's friends, then they probably won't feel as confident in their relationship.

4. Don't ever bring up your friend's past relationships, especially around their partner.

Even if they are on good terms. Even if you are still friends with their ex. Just don't bring them up. No one wants to hear about their partner's past relationships or flings. It is embarrassing and uncomfortable to have to hear about your partner's exes.

5. If you are all out together, don't try to separate your friend from their partner.

There is a good chance that if you are out with your friend and their partner, their partner does not know many people there. If that is the case, don't try to separate your friend from their partner.

There may be an exception if their partner has friends around too, or if they are outgoing and can talk to anybody easily, but otherwise, it is really awkward to be in that situation alone. They are with their partner for a reason, and it is nice to make their partner feel included as well.

Just don't make it a habit to always pull your friend away.

6. Don't put your friend in any awkward or risky situations.

If your friend is a cheater, that is not really any fault of yours. But don't be the friend who is known for putting your partnered friend in risky situations.

There is nothing wrong with going out occasionally with your friends, but it does not need to be a regular occurrence, especially if it makes their partner uncomfortable.

Along the same lines, if you know an ex-partner or fling will be there, you don't need to put your friend in that awkward situation. Just be aware of the situation and how it might make their partner feel.

To wrap up, you don't need to completely change your relationship with your friend just to make their partner happy; just make sure to be polite and respectful of their partner and their relationship.

These are some subtle things you may be doing that are hurting your friend's relationship that you don't even realize have negative consequences. Simply be more aware of some of these situations and how they could potentially make your friend's partner feel. After all, the best relationships are the ones where your partner's friends also become your friends.

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