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I am as straight as can be and I love boys! Always have and can definitively say I always will. Not to say that I don't have girlfriends, but, for me, it's easier to connect with guys. I know that they aren't out to judge me, talk behind my back, secretly hate it when something good happens to me—yeah, I have had some bad experiences with girls.

But, can guys and girls reallybe friends? Heterosexual individuals to be clear.

"Point to the jealousy that plagues many rational people when a significant other befriends someone of the opposite sex. Boil it down to the inherent differences between the sexes."

I mean, why not? Their sexual needs will cause too much tension between them?

Listen, I talk about sex all the time and I completely understand that both women and men yearn for sexual relationships. However, this doesn't mean that a male and a female are incapable of being platonic friends! As long as both partners understand that no romantic feelings are present, then these two individuals have all the strength to enjoy one another's time without pouncing on one another!

I like to say, romantic partners are friends but with sex; hence, heterosexual relations are just friends withoutsex (excluding "friends with benefits" relationships).

Personally, I have a lot of boy friends. No, not boyfriends. We are not dating, we do not plan on dating, and, although we may flirt for fun, we do not act upon sexual excitement.

We are mature enough to control what's in our pants: it's not all about sex.

If you don't believe me, take it from the experts who've concluded, "Though it may be tricky, men and women can successfully become close friends. What's more, there are good reasons for them to do so."

I love all my friends. I love my guy friends even if they are males since "platonic love does exist." They are respectful and supportive, and I couldn't ask for anything more. I don't care if some of my guys don't understand my "girl-talk," they give me the inside scoop on "boy-talk."

Guys don't judge me for the things girls would. Guys don't text their friends about my personal life as I'm crying to them about the stress I'm going through. Guys don't dare let anyone step on me.

Simply, guys are a girl's best friend.

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The Best Lines from the Fab Four

And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make

The sun is up, the sky is blue, it's beautiful and so are you

Love is old, love is new, love is all, love is you

There's nowhere you can be that isn't where you're meant to be

Life is very short, and there's no time for fussing and fighting, my friend

He say, "I know you, you know me", One thing I can tell you is you got to be free

Oh please, say to me, You'll let me be your man. And please say to me, You'll let me hold your hand

It was twenty years ago today, Sgt. Pepper taught the band to play. They've been going in and out of style, but they're guaranteed to raise a smile

Living is easy with eyes closed, misunderstanding all you see

Can you hear me? When it rains and shine, it's just a state of mind

Little darling, it's been long cold lonely winter. Little darling, it feels like years since it' s been here. Here comes the sun, Here comes the sun, and I say it's alright

We danced through the night and we held each other tight, and before too long I fell in love with her. Now, I'll never dance with another when I saw her standing there

I love you, I love you, I love you, that's all I want to say

You say you want a revolution. Well you know, we all want to change the world

All the lonely people, where do they all come from. All the lonely people, where do they all belong

Oh, I get by with a little help from my friends

Hey Jude, don't make it bad. Take a sad song and make it better

Yesterday, all my troubles seemed so far away. Now it looks as though they're here to stay. Oh, I believe in yesterday

And when the brokenhearted people, living in the world agree, there will be an answer, let it be.

And anytime you feel the pain, Hey Jude, refrain. Don't carry the world upon your shoulders

I'll give you all I got to give if you say you'll love me too. I may not have a lot to give but what I got I'll give to you. I don't care too much for money. Money can't buy me love

All you need is love, love is all you need

Whisper words of wisdom, let it be

Blackbird singing in the dead of night, Take these broken wings and learn to fly. All your life, You were only waiting for this moment to arise

Though I know I'll never lose affection, for people and things that went before. I know I'll often stop and think about them. In my life, I love you more

Obviously the best superpower.

There have been many lessons learned.

1. The importance of traditions.

2. How to be thankful for family and friends.

3. How to give back.

4. What the word "community" really means.

5. That it isn't about the destination, but the journey.

6. The consequences of making bad choices.

7. To trust people, until you have a reason not to.

8. To be welcoming and accepting of everyone.

9. How to be my own, individual person.

10. How to work for what I want.

11. How to be great at giving directions.

12. How to be humble.

13. To be well-rounded.

14. How to be great at conflict resolution.

15. The beauty of getting outside and exploring.

16. To be prepared for anything.

17. That you don't always have to do it alone.

18. How to be creative.

19. To brush off gossip.

I have never been so thankful to know you.

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

Don't freak out

Email the professor

Attend the first class

Keep attending class

Have a backup plan

Remember that everything works out at the end

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