Hungover from the weekend?

Let me start this off by saying that, I'm not shaming the type of girl you are. I am not one to judge especially since I've been in your shoes. You're just having fun, right? You're young, and you don't want to be in love!

I just want to create awareness, girl to girl...OK?

I was there, I didn't want to be in love and I wanted everyone else to love me. I didn't want anyone to know that I had feelings and that I could want anyone back. Part of it stemmed off of a horrible break up—and it was just to get back at him. Like "look at me, look how well I'm doing!"

I can tell you from experience...I know you're not doing well. He doesn't see that you're doing well. Nothing shoves that you're doing better in their face by just being happy, by yourself.

And maybe I do envy you because you look happy on the outside. And because it looks like you can get any guy you want.

But nothing is sexier than going home alone. Your perfect prince doesn't want a girl that everyone has...

I've learned that respect is the most important thing that a girl can have. Respect yourself enough that you won't make yourself available to just anyone—even if that frat boy sweet talks you enough to make you blush.

A hook up to you might seem like an innocent action but some may see it as more. Why give yourself a name that you don't deserve to have?

Things add up, people make up things. Don't put yourself in that situation. Trust me, one drunk night alone makes up for a million drunken nights in strangers beds.

When you meet someone that you want to be with, you don't want to be embarrassed about your past. Why go home wondering why that frat boy didn't text you or doesn't say hi to you in public. Why feel like you're not special?Because in the right person's eye's one day you will be.

Don't be the 2 a.m. girl, be the girl that respects herself enough to deny that late night text. They aways say that if a boy texts you at 2 a.m., they only want one thing. Make someone work for that one thing. In the long run, you will feel so much better about yourself.