I Asked 13 Guys What They Hope For In A Future Wife And Their Responses Were Freaking Adorable

So these days dating and relationships just seem so messed up. No one wants to have a real relationship, and we all just feel like there's no point in even trying to date in this twisted world.

Well, ladies, I am here to reassure you that a good guy is out there waiting for you, just like you are for him. I asked 13 guys what they looked for in their future wives and here is what they had to say.

1. "Intelligent, beautiful, logical, stable, creative, funny, charismatic (lol I'm basically describing myself) mature, nurturing/caring, hard-working and ambitious, sensitive but strong, loyal, reliable, but most importantly, is the genuine connection I'd hope to have with her."

Taylor, 22

2. "I look for a sense of humor and intelligence. I'd like her to be at least remotely interested in what I do for a living. Also I'd highly prefer she has goals and ambitions, as in she wants to leave home and go do bigger and better things. I want someone who's gonna motivate me or push me to achieve my goals without doing so in a nagging or annoying way. I'd like if we had common interests, but I hope we can introduce each other to new things we can bond with. Also I need someone to learn French with."

Scott, 20

3. "Probably someone outgoing; I suck at initiating things. Also, the ability to navigate in this socially tense world and will be able to have the openness needed to put our goals into the universe so we can obtain our prosperity together."

Steven, 19

4. "I want my wife to be driven. There's nothing more attractive than a woman with goals and aspirations akin to mine. Mediocrity is the ugliest thing in this world, so I want to someone alongside me pushing to be anything but average. Pair that compassion. My mother always told me there's no place in a home for an evil heart. My parents were never perfect, but they both loved people unconditionally without question. I need to see that same trait in my partner. Everything else will work itself out."

Austin, 21

5. "Smart, caring, loving, compassionate."


6. "If my wife wants to start a family, she must understand the sacrifices and responsibilities needed to raise a child. Whether it's taking off from work, spending time with them, and understanding that your son/daughter is NOT your friend. They are MUCH more than that and my wife and I must be ready to be accountable for our child/children."

Anonymous, 21

7. "Funny as hell and can take jokes, likes good music, cuddly, not afraid to take it easy and doesn't mind cheap dates, always there to help cheer me up when I'm down, loves to try new things and to push me to be a better person."

Anonymous, 20

8. "Some personality traits that I would hope for in a future wife are someone who is family oriented, kindhearted, smart, honest, respectful, understanding, empathetic, ambitious, friendly, and has a good sense of humor. I would like if she is opinionated, healthy, loves animals, writing, and traveling. She needs to have confidence and loves what she does. I hope that she is someone who makes good decisions and cares about herself as much as she does about me."

Andrew, 25

9. "If she can listen to my thoughts and feelings, I'd wife her up immediately."

Anonymous, 20

10. "Humor, strength, loyalty, extroverted (because I'm an introvert), beautiful, authentic."

Anonymous, 22

11. "Intelligent, caring and loyal."

Jonathan, 20

12. "Caring, honest, faithful, easy going."

Gehrig, 19

13. "I want someone dependable, understanding, caring, a good listener, and someone who love me for me, rather than for my material things."

Anonymous, 19

So, there you have it. Some guys do still look for that genuine relationship, instead of today's version of dating. Don't give up hope, the good guys are still out there looking for love too!

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To My Future Fiance, If You’re Proposing To Me For The Instagram Content, Have Fun Posting A Video Of Me Saying ‘No’

Whoever you are, take notes for future reference.


OK, OK, he can propose to me in public, but if it's a grand event that has nothing to do with my character, then 100% I'm saying, "No, try again."

I hope that one day someone special has my heart and wants to spend the rest of their life with me. But I want them to really know who I am. Inside and out and all around. I'm not a showy person, I'm not into social media, and I don't want a 20-carat ring. There's nothing wrong with any of those things, but it's never been for me. It's just not me.

I'm never going to do anything because someone else or the general society thinks or says I should do it. I like to defy society and do what's best for me. Even if I do something that is acceptable by society's standards, I'm not doing it for them, I'm doing it for me. I always say, "If someone wants to get to know me then they shouldn't judge what they see, read, or hear, they should just say, 'Hi,' and we can go from there." I don't post something for others to see, I post it for myself. Because it makes me feel good. Because I impulsively want to.

So, I want my fiancé's initial feeling of complete and absolute love to be blurted out to me ASAP. You don't have to keep your passions hidden while you plan a huge fiasco with balloons and confetti and "Will you marry me?" clouds in the sky. I don't need that for you to tell me you love me.

My dream proposal would be us cooking and taste tasting dinner, dancing, and singing to our favorite song when you just pause to look at me and ask, "You wanna get married?"

Of course, I'd question if you're being serious or not, but if we've already discussed the future and our hearts are in the right place, I'd melt in your arms.

You're not proposing to me to show off our love to your Facebook friends. You're proposing to me because you want nothing else but me. If you want to plan something special afterward, go ahead. Thoughtful surprises make me feel so special, but make sure that it's planned for me.

My long-distance boyfriend recently surprised me with a visit by calling my parents to figure out just how to leave me open-mouthed. I realized how much I appreciated the planning and arrangement. No one has ever done that for me before and I won't lie, I loved it. I wouldn't mind a fun proposal. I would be eternally grateful for the thought behind it, but I want the initial question to be intimate, personal, and tailored for me.

At the end of the day, sure, the proposal can be out and about in public, but I want the focus to be us. Not just me or you, but our relationship and our future. I don't care if other people don't think you love me enough because the proposal wasn't a showstopper. I know how you feel about me and that's all that matters.

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16 Wedding Gifts Under $50 That'll Have Any Wedding Guest Say 'I Do'

Because being on a budget doesn't mean you have to arrive at a wedding empty-handed.


If you're on a budget but have a wedding to go to, it can be hard to find an affordable wedding gift you can buy for the bride and groom. You don't want to show up empty-handed, but you also don't want to spend an arm and a leg on a gift when there are plenty of other people attending who are better off affording certain items. (A good rule of thumb? Always try to "pay for your plate" — or the cost of what the bride and groom likely paid for you to be there.)

Most of the time, there are lots of things you can find on a registry under $50. Whether it be towels, a waffle maker or oven mitts, you can usually find SOMETHING in your price range. If not, this list is for you.

Brides-to-be: Here is a list of things to add to your wedding registry for your broke AF friends.

Broke friends: Here is a list of things to get if everything on your friend's list is way out of your price range.

1. Personalized cutting board

Personalized Cutting Board, 12 Designs & 3 Sizes, Bamboo Cutting Board, Wedding Gifts for Couple, Housewarming Gift & Kitchen Sign - Butcher Block Inlay Board #G

2. Cookbook

The Complete Cooking for Two Cookbook, Gift Edition: 650 Recipes for Everything You'll Ever Want to Make

3. Meat and cheese board

Bamboo Cheese Board and Knife Set - Charcuterie Board Set for Cheese Platter. Wood Serving Tray For Wine, Meat, Appetizers, Snacks - Entertaining Kitchenware Gift Ideas for Wedding and Housewarming

4. Handheld vacuum

Handheld Vacuum Cordless, HUNLEE 5KPA Powerful Suction Hand Vacuum Cordless Cleaner Rechargeable Hand Vac with 2.5h Quick Charge, Lightweight Hand Held Vacuum Cordless for Home and Car Cleaning

5. Carry on

COOLIFE Luggage Expandable(only 28") Suitcase PC+ABS Spinner 20in 24in 28in Carry on (White Grid New, S(20in)_Carry on)

6. Blender

NutriBullet NBR-1201 12-Piece High-Speed Blender/Mixer System, Gray (600 Watts)

7. Crock-Pot

Crock-Pot SCCPVL610-S-A 6-Quart Cook & Carry Programmable Slow Cooker with Digital Timer Stainless Steel

8. Bathroom towels

Luxury Hotel & Spa Bath Towel 100% Genuine Turkish Cotton, 27" x 54", Set of 4, White

9. Waffle maker

Cuisinart WAF-F10 Belgian Waffle Maker, Stainless Steel

10. Tools

DEKOPRO 128 Piece Tool Set-General Household Hand Tool Kit, Auto Repair Tool Set, with Plastic Toolbox Storage Case

11. Kitchen tools

Stainless Steel Kitchen Utensil Set - 29 Cooking Utensils - Nonstick Kitchen Utensils Cookware Set with Spatula - Best Kitchen Gadgets Kitchen Tool Set Gift by HomeHero

12. Baking dishes

Staub Ceramic 2-pc Rectangular Baking Dish Set - Rustic Red

13. Kitchen Towels

The Weaver's Blend Set of 3 Kitchen Towels + 3 Dish Cloths, Basket Weave, 100% Cotton, Absorbent, Size 28"x18" and 12'x12", Yellow Stripe, Kitchen Towels and Dish Cloths

14. Cute AF oven mitts

RED LMLDETA Oven Mitts Set of 2 with Transparent Clear Silicone Shell and Nice Dog Printing Cotton Lining, Heat Resistant to 500 F Kitchen Oven Gloves Pot Holder for Cooking (Blue)

15. Kitchen knife

J.A. Henckels International CLASSIC 8" Chef's Knife

16. Pizza cutter

16" Pizza Cutter by Kitchenstar | Sharp Stainless Steel Slicer Knife - Rocker Style w Blade Cover | Chop and Slices Perfect Portions + Dishwasher Safe - Premium Pizza Accessories

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