80 College Girls Revealed If They Would Rather Be Boo'd Up Or Be A Hoe This Summer

80 College Girls Revealed If They Would Rather Be Boo'd Up Or Be A Hoe This Summer

Some need to find a boo ASAP and some can RELAX and other, really, REALLY need to rethink their relationship status. #YIKES
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For two weeks now, I have been collecting data about college girls and their preferences about their relationship status this summer. To my surprise, 80 college girls revealed how they would LOVE to spend the summer. There were two options, of course: in a relationship and single as a Pringle. BUT, I wanted to know some valuable and (as some may say, sneaky) information. Are they currently single or in a relationship?

I'm pretty excited to share this TOP SECRET information with you. 7.2% of all my ladies who are currently IN a relationship said that they'd rather be single. *INSERT DRAMATIC AF GASP HERE*

I really hope that one: I don't break some relationships here. OR that you will sit down with your boo thang and address this situation. Because GIRL, you know you are in some DEEP shit here.

Of course, I wouldn't leave y'all asking yourselves why, just WHY, these ladies think this way. I did it for you to ease your brain.

Here is just why they wish they were single.

"Freedom."

"[I want to] explore my independence."

"Cause, why not?"

...uh well, baby girl you should have thought about that BEFORE you got yourself all wifed up?

I am just... with this next one:

"Lots of sex."

Well, if you're in a relationship, doesn't that mean you can also get "lots of sex" too?

But I mean, you do you.

"My boyfriend won't be home for the summer."

"Bored of the long distance AND the person."

... girl... TALK TO HIM!

Lastly, my favorite and the one that kind of makes a little more sense to me.

"Not at all to get together with other guys but more to have an open schedule and only have to worry about myself."

Bottom line...

Here's your excuse to send him the "We need to talk" text.

Good freaking luck.

49.4% of all my ladies said YES, they are in a relationship and they are more than content with staying in that said relationship. *INSERT DRAMATIC AWWW HERE*

All the loyal ladies, all the loyal ladies. PUT YOUR HANDS UP! Here's something a little more up to speed with me.

My favorite response was this one:

"I am totally happy with who I am with. The seasons may change, but my love for him will not. *cue dramatic music and sunset in the background* But if I were not in a relationship, I probably would not seek one during the summer. The summer is so different from the rest of the year in terms of schedules and outlook."

YAS GIRL, YAS. This is what I am talking about. I don't think much more needs to be said on this topic.

Bottom line, the weather gets hotter, and so does our love for our babes.

18.1% of my ladies said they are single as a MF Pringle and really wish that they were boo'd up in summer 2018.

And here's why:

"Because I want to live out Grease."

Glad I met someone who's just like me. I can't agree more.

"Summer is a time for new experiences, new places and trying new things, and I think that would great with someone you love by your side."

"I want someone to go to the beach and watch sunsets with. Summer is a time to make memories. Although I make memories with my girlfriends, I want that special someone to treat me like a priority. Someone who goes that extra mile just for me."

Let me tell ya, from experience... it's something that literally can't be compared. The best feeling ever.

And lastly:

"I was off and on with my ex for 4-5 years. I’ve been single officially since June and I just don’t enjoy it. I am such an independent person, but I enjoy that constant attention and that person to build me up."

Last, but certainly not least:

25.3% of all my ladies said that they are SINGLE and *so f*ckin' happy* they are NOT in a relationship this summer. YOU GO GIRLS.

"I love that I can do whatever I want whenever I want. I can go out with my friends without feeling guilty for leaving my boyfriend at home. Or having to worry about texting him and telling him what I'm doing 24/7."

"Independent and don’t need no man."

Hey, whoever you are, you're doing AMAZING, sweetie.

Bottom line, summer is about YOU and no one else.

Enjoy it, no matter what your relationship status is. But seriously, some of you got some explaining to do.

Cover Image Credit: Brooke Albright

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I Am A Hopeless Romantic Living In A World Where One-Night Stands Are The Norm

It's the little things.

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In today's society, it can certainly start to feel like no one takes love seriously anymore.

Whether it's that one couple who has broken up and gotten back together more times than you can count, the two friends-with-benefits no one can figure out, your local womanizer, or just hookups in general, love and lust are a huge part of specifically college life and culture.

As a hopeless romantic, being part of a generation that "just wants to have fun" can be really frustrating, especially when you just want to find something real. It is so easy for people to put on a fake act just to get what they want and sometimes this can be extremely hard to see through. I'm sure we've all had some kind of incident with someone who played nice but had ulterior motives and the sad truth is that it can be impossible to recognize a person's artificiality.

I am a hopeless romantic.

I have always classified myself as such, and it has remained true. Sure, I can make the most of the freedoms I have as a single college woman, but deep down I just want to find my person.

I've had my fair share of letdowns, and I think we all have, but being a hopeless romantic makes it that much more difficult to get past the "what ifs" and fantasies that come along with starting something with someone new. We may already have our hearts set on a person when they decide they've gotten what they wanted and leave.

For me, I find myself caught up in the little things that someone does. I have always been someone who picks up on small details in situations, and sometimes this works against me.

I pick up on the small facial expressions that he may not even realize he is making; the ones that tell you when their guard has been let down, even just for a split second.

I pick up on the way he sits our two cellphones side by side on the nightstand, taking care to line them up perfectly as if that's just their spot.

I pick up on the short moments of laughter where he actually lets himself laugh and forgets about the act.

I pick up on things, and sometimes I end up hurting because of it.

When it comes down to it, though, I wouldn't change the way that I am. I wouldn't change the fact that I find myself in the search for more in a society that mostly only offers me less.

The trait that tends to hurt me most is also the one that I value most. Even if noticing all the little things is something that contributes to my own heartache, I love those moments. There is something beautiful about those tiny things shared by two people, even if the connection ends there.

Sure, it can be hard. But so can everything.

It's just a matter of finding the beauty.

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Dedicate Your Summer To Bettering Yourself For Yourself, Not Your Ex

Why waste energy on an ex who doesn't care about you anymore?

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I'm single for the summer (yet again, no shock there) but this summer there's something in the air that just feels different. It's the feeling of true acceptance of my single status.

Last summer I was single when I really didn't want to be. My heart with still holding out for a guy who wasn't interested in anything more than my friendship. It took me from late March all the way until Halloween to get over those feelings. However, while working through those tough feelings that summer, I came to enjoy my time on my own and not talking to anyone except my best friends. I didn't have to worry about when I'd get a text back, or if I'd be left on read, or who he'd be out with since I wasn't around. The only thing I needed to worry about was my paychecks and tan lines.

Sometimes after breaking things off with someone who you put so much effort into, whether it was a boyfriend, an almost relationship, or even a friend with benefits, it's easy to want to show off on social media and make them regret ever hurting you or ending things. Why? It's a nice little ego boost, sure, but after those few seconds of glee from the fact that you know they've seen and maybe even liked your picture or your tweet, or saw your story on Snapchat, do you still feel happy? No, you go right back to feeling like crap, whether you want to admit it or not. Stop making yourself all about them when that ship has sailed and start being all about you.

Your ex is off doing their own thing, maybe thinking about you, but obviously not enough to want you back in their life the way you used to be. They are probably out there finding a new person to take your spot because they don't have you at their beck and call anymore. If they're also showing off to show you how much better they are without you or to make you jealous...why are you still following them or still participating in this sick little game for attention? Grow up and block them so you don't have to keep seeing their posts, or be adult enough to stop if you're doing the same as well. If it's only you posting, chances are you just look stupid, so stop before you really embarrass yourself. I was that person, and I know first hand how embarrassed I am for acting the way I did.

Summer is synonymous for doing whatever the hell you want. Wear what you want, say what you want, and be the best version of yourself that only a high dose of Vitamin D can bring out. Your ex is an ex for many reasons. You have to set aside the summer for you and what benefits you only. Don't concern yourself with an ex who doesn't care in the least about you anymore. Coming from someone who posted thirst traps aimed at a specific person along with countless shady AF stories on Snap and Insta in the hopes that this one person and their friends would see it, just stop and save yourself the energy as well as regret.

We're all adults, it's time to stop the petty posts and photos. Post your thirst trap for yourself because you're a sexy queen who doesn't need anyone but herself. Once you start focusing on yourself this summer, instead of your ex, you'll realize just have great it feels to truly be free.

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