What Your Horoscope Says About The Way You Handle Breakups

What Your Horoscope Says About The Way You Handle Breakups

I know you secretly read yours, even if you believe it's a bunch of crap.
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Don't lie and tell me you could care less about your horoscope.

I know you secretly read yours, even if you believe it's a bunch of crap. We're all curious about how our birthdays have anything to do with our personalities, and it's pretty insane how spot on they can be sometimes. Of course, not everything is going to be 100 percent accurate, so take these with a grain of salt.

1. Aries

It’s over? Who gives a crap, you’re already tackling all of your goals. If your previous relationship was holding you back from doing certain things, then you best believe you’re going to be doing those things AND making sure your ex sees them.

2. Taurus

You’ll most likely be holding onto the feelings and good times you had with the other person and think about what it would’ve been like if things had worked out. Sure, you’re a bit upset, but you know that time will heal everything.

3. Gemini

All I have is one word: subtweet. Yes, you’re likely to roast them on social media and choose to laugh through the pain when you really just want to curl up and cry. You’ll definitely be making jokes, but it’s the only way for you to cope.

4. Cancer

You just can’t let go. You have this idea in your head that the person is still “your” person, even when they’ve clearly moved on. Waves of missing your ex will pass and even though it’s going to take some time, you will accept it. Or you’ll just keep asking for a second chance. Your heart is too big to let this person get away, no matter how many times they wronged you.

5. Leo

How could someone fall out of love with the amazingness that is you? You may spend some time contemplating giving your ex a second chance, but in the end, you’ll move on. You have a lot of pride, and you’ll do just about everything you can to make your ex regret leaving. This means hitting up the gym, getting that haircut you’ve always wanted, essentially embracing all that is you and getting in touch with your inner self.

6. Virgo

Oh, Virgo, you could really care less about the breakup. This is not to say that you’re a heartless person, but you’re great at seeing the bigger picture. You recognize that you were a fabulous person before the breakup, and you’re still a fabulous person after it. Letting go is easier for you than it is for the rest of the zodiac signs.

7. Libra

Similar to Virgo, Libra is unbelievably calm about the breakup. You really aren’t a fan of drama, and want the aftermath to be as normal as possible, which is why you don’t mind staying friends with your exes. Of course, this can get messy, especially if a tiny part of you is hoping that maybe one day they will come around for a second chance. If you’re going to do this, keep it platonic and don’t hope for anything more, you don’t deserve to get your heart broken again.

8. Scorpio

You don’t take breakups very well, it’ll probably take you a lot longer to get over someone. Even though you’ll continue to act like everything’s fine, you won’t admit to scrolling through your ex’s Instagram feed at 2 AM. You tend to hold little grudges, but you’ll get over it, eventually.

9. Sagittarius

You’d rather not even talk about the breakup because you don’t vibe well with negative energy. Even if this person wronged you in so many ways, you’re not keen to complain and put your problems on personal display. The reason is that you believe if you keep pondering the breakup, the Universe will start to throw even more worse things in your direction. You value keeping a positive outlook on the situation and believe that you’ll be rewarded in the process.

10. Capricorn

You accept things as they are and look at the breakup as “Hey, that’s life, what can you do?” There’s a time and place for everything, and things didn’t work out for a reason. It wasn’t meant to be, and even though it’s a hard pill to swallow, you’re likely to swallow it and go about your life.

11. Aquarius

You’re a bit in denial, Aquarius. A few days will pass, you’ll think you’re over it, but you can still feel this person pulling on your heartstrings. As soon as you just acknowledge what’s happened, it’ll be that much easier for you to recover.

12. Pisces

You don’t want anything to do with your ex. No communication, absolutely nothing. At least, that’s what you’re telling people. Like Scorpio, you’re still checking up on them occasionally, but you don’t bother reaching out. After all of that betrayal, you’re secretly hoping they’re doing worse without you.

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To The Ex Who Won’t Move On, It’s Time To Let Go

Moving on is hard, but it’s time for you to realize I’m gone.

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It's been a year. It's been 365 days since I left you. I was ready for a change. Our relationship was unhealthy and very toxic. We argued constantly. You were very controlling, and it was time to end it. You knew you were the issue in the relationship and you knew what needed to be fixed.

You couldn't change.

After figuring out I couldn't live the rest of my life unhappy, I left. It was hard no doubt. We had good memories, but the bad outweighed the good. You never appreciated me. You weren't loyal to me and I never understand why. You always made me feel as if I was never enough.

I finally left you. You couldn't accept the fact that I was done. I told you I discovered my self-worth and you were angry. You didn't want to see me go. You called and texted me for weeks.

I ignored you.

You were so mad because I was finally done. You had convinced yourself that I would come back but little did you know, I wouldn't. You called and texted daily. You even called my job. You didn't understand. I could no longer listen to ongoing insults and constant accusations. I had enough of it.

When I didn't respond to your calls and texts, you began using text apps and calling me from restricted. You wouldn't stop. When you found out I moved on, it got worse. I begged you to stop and you wouldn't. I finally stopped responding. You still continue to try to contact me.

I need you to move on. I want to put everything behind us. I want you to go out and find someone to make you happy. I need you to realize you and I are over. I want you to move on like I did. I am happy now and I don't need you ruining that. To my ex who is struggling to move on, it's time to let go and move on.

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11 Sneaky Signs Your Relationship Is Headed For A Breakup

Sometimes it just comes out of nowhere.

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When you think of a breakup, you may think of weeks of screaming at each other, cheating, lying, and pretty much every other obvious sign you aren't meant for each other.

Sometimes, these signs aren't even there. There may be underlying signs that have been there for a while until it all bubbles up and, BOOM, the breakup happens.

Here are 11 subtle signs your relationship is headed for a breakup:

1. When your S.O.'s name pops up on your phone you feel like groaning.

Throughout your relationship, you would get butterflies when your S.O's name came on your phone. You would be dying to talk to them and tell them all about your day. If it feels like a chore, it might be time to revaluate the relationship.

2. If you live together, you find yourself hoping they aren't home when you get there.

Coming home to your S.O. at the end of every day should be rewarding and exciting. You need to be comfortable in your own living space.

3. You stop wanting to spend time together.

You don't need to spend every waking moment together, but when it seems more like more of a task to take time out of your day that isn't okay.

4. FaceTimes and phone calls become nonexistent.

And if they are existent, the love isn't there and they seem distracted.

5. When you are hanging out, you are checking the time and figuring out when you should leave.

Before, time would fly by and you would be wishing you had more time.

6. Going out on a date seems like a hassle more than an actual treat.

Date nights are rare in busy lives, but when planning them isn't exciting anymore it usually isn't a good sign.

7. When you look into the future you don't see them in it.

You had all your kids names picked out and now you can't even see the relationship getting through the next month.

8. The time between talking to each other increases.

You find yourself forgetting that you haven't talked in a while. And it doesn't necessarily bother you.

9. They irritate you more.

Just their face could bring out anger you didn't know you had.

10. The quirks you once found endearing are now annoying.

Remember the way he'd easily fall asleep in your arms and how it made you feel all gooey inside? Yeah, now it's like he's never awake when you're around.

11. When they stop doing the little things that once put a smile on your face.

No more random "you're beautiful" comments or spontaneous trips to your favorite places in town.

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