12 Little Things Guys Do That Girls Notice BIG Time
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Everyone says that girls are so difficult. I mean one could defiantly argue that men are also quite difficult, but that is beside the point.

Most women really aren't that hard to please.

Yes, the big things matter, but so do many of the little things.

Whether you are dating someone or just have a crush on a girl, here are 12 little things that girls love you can do:

1. Forehead kisses

Forehead kisses

Honestly, I am not quite sure why we even like these. They are just cute and make us feel loved.

I think that most girls can admit that they melt when they get these.

2.  Random surprises

Surprises!

There are so many little surprises that you can do for her!

You can write her a little note for when she wakes up, maker her favorite meal for her, or even surprise her by showing up randomly when you know she could use it!

3.  Flowers

Flower

Flowers can do so much!

Giving a girl flowers for absolutely no reason other than that you were thinking about her and that you love her is a sure way to her heart.

Also a pro tip for if you don't know what type to get her, go with some that are her favorite color! You can't go wrong with that or classic red roses are also a win no matter what.

 4. Having our hair touched

Hair

OK, I don't know if this is every girl per say, but I think a handful of them defiantly do like this.

Personally I would put this on the like 100 times if I could, because dang it feels nice.

You can do this when you guys are just watching a movie or if she is trying to focus on something (like homework) and you have a free hand.

For those girls who don't like to have their hair touched, you can always just touch their arms or hold their hand. It all depends on what she likes.

 5. When you remember things about her

Remember

Girls love it when you remember something that she did or said a while back because not only does it show that you listened, but it also shows that you genuinely care.

This can be as simple as noticing her Starbucks order and getting that for her when she has work or just eating her purple skittles because you saw her picking out those ones last time and you know she doesn't like those ones.

 6. Neck kisses

Kisses

Same thing as the forehead kisses, except these are more intimate since it is such a sensitive area.

 7.  Massages

Massaging kitty

You can go as far out or simple as you want with this one.

If she's talking about how much her feet hurt then you can always surprise her with a nice foot massage while you guys are sitting on the couch.

Or if you want to go all out then you can light some candles and put on some music and really give her the real spa experience, minus the price tag.

 8.  When you bring her backup shoes

Heels

This is one that not every girl may immediately think of but when they need them it is a life saver and it shows that you care about her.

If you guys are going out and she's wearing some high heels than keeping some slippers or flats in the back of your car for the ride home is a sweet way to show her that you knew her feet would hurt and that you are there to help.

9. Goodnight and good morning texts

Text

Sending her a quick goodnight and good morning text lets her know that you are thinking about her, which is a super easy way to make her feel special.

10. A cute post dedicated to her

Post

Girls love a random and unexpected post about them.

You can do this on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or anywhere else. Just showing her off and letting everyone know that you love her is sure to make her smile and get butterflies.

 11.  Opening the door for her

Opening door

This is such a small thing that makes girls blush every time. It makes you look like a gentleman and is sure to make her think you are way smoother than you really are.

12. Making a list for her

Reaction

If you make a list of date ideas for her or a list of things you know that she likes, without even telling her, when she finds out she just may cry.

This is a way to make her really feel like you care about her and it will make her feel so special.

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An Open Letter To The Girl In A Toxic Relationship Who Doesn't See The Signs To Let Go

"it took letting go to realize that I was holding onto nothing" -R.H Sin

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Dear you,

I hope you're doing well. I once thought I was too. I once thought that if he would just change, for me, everything would work. However, my sweet girl, you should not have to change people, you should not have to push people to be better, for you. You cannot help anyone, that does not want to help themselves.

In the movies, we learn to love a bad boy that needs changing. However, it isn't always your job to be boys saving grace. However, his shaming and emotional abuse is not just something you should put up with so that you can love him. That is not loving.

Love is not a constant competition of who could belittle the other one first. Love is not asking for a hug and being told no. Love does not make you feel stupid for bringing up things that hurt your feelings.

Love does not grow angry because you talk to your mom about your feelings. Love does not body shame. Love does not constantly change the passcode to their phone.

Love does not laugh when you find out they're unfaithful. Love does not tell you that you are not smart enough to accomplish anything. Love does not force their hand up your thigh when the words "no" slip out of your mouth.

Love is the warmth of a hand on your cheek when you get anxious. Love is getting your backpack out the car for you. Love is turning around when you need them. Love compromises.

Love is encouraging. Love is proud. Love is forgiving. Love sees you for who you are. Love knows you are worthy.

God is your Father and you are His daughter, so do not believe for one second that this abuse is the love you think you deserve.

Love will not always be easy. Love will be challenging and a constant prayer to not anger so quickly.

However, do not mix up challenging with the abuse. If you are losing the good pieces of yourself, then it isn't love. I know that you put a lot of time and effort into this relationship, but it is no good, you are holding on to someone whose heart is not in the right place to love you.

I connected with a poem from R. H. Sin, once I left my toxic relationship which reads, "it took letting go to realize that I was holding onto nothing."

Darling girl, you are so loved by so many people, do not let this relationship hold you back or make you feel less worthy than you are. I have always been the girl with her nose stuck up in the air smelling for smoke, to follow the trail to a burning house to find a boy that needed saving, but it is more than likely a boy that lit the fire in the first place and needs changing.

So, do not be me, be better. Be the girl that lights her own world on fire, for her work, for her family, for God. You are you and you are amazing, so do not fear being without him.

You will feel as if you have come up for air after drowning in an ocean that you had no idea you were swimming in.

The emotional abuse that this boy has put you through and maybe even physical abuse will leave you building walls around your heart. It will make other relationships hard, but you are so so strong.

You will meet someone that makes you so happy and feel so easy to love, you will never understand how you stuck around with the one that hurt you for so long.

You deserve to grow from this, and I promise you will.

Let go.

xoxo,

The girl who learned from a toxic relationship

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Being Far Away From My Boyfriend Actually Strengthened Our Relationship Instead Of Forcing It Apart

While we were apart, we became closer.

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Before I really start this article, I just want to say that my relationship isn't truly a long distance relationship. We are both college students at the same university eight months out of the year, but the other four months we live quite a distance apart. Even during those four months, we are only about 150 miles from each other as the bird flies, but really about three hours from each other.

Being in a relationship where I'm not able to see my boyfriend every day or even every week has been a real challenge. But it's been a good challenge. It hasn't been a challenge because I've felt unfaithful or fallen out of love with him in any way. It's challenging because I miss him. We both work jobs and our schedules aren't the same and oftentimes we aren't able to talk to each other unless it's early in the morning or late at night. There are times when all I want to do is talk to him and tell him about how my day went and get a big bear hug from him. Unfortunately, I'm not really able to do this.

I firmly believe that being apart from each other for days, weeks, or even months have brought us closer than we could've ever imagined. We knew that this would be difficult, and we knew that there would be bad days, but we decided to power through it. It has made each time that we are able to see each other so much more special and meaningful.

Seeing each other has become more of spending time with each other than just laying around on the couch playing around on our phones. It's become really getting to know each other better and catching up on all the things we had missed. It's become a time for us to simply be in each other's presence and enjoy being able to talk face to face without a phone in the middle of us. We go on more adventurous dates, we take more pictures, and I think we would both easily say that we fall more and more in love with each other after each opportunity we have to spend time together.

Spending time together is no longer a daily activity, but it has become a right to be earned through hard work and several paychecks as travel can become expensive. We no longer take opportunities to see each other for granted, and it has made us grow closer because we aren't able to spend time together often. We look forward to the days when we won't have to worry about being apart but know that this is only a stepping stone in our relationship.

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