12 Little Things Guys Do That Girls Notice BIG Time
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Everyone says that girls are so difficult. I mean one could defiantly argue that men are also quite difficult, but that is beside the point.

Most women really aren't that hard to please.

Yes, the big things matter, but so do many of the little things.

Whether you are dating someone or just have a crush on a girl, here are 12 little things that girls love you can do:

1. Forehead kisses

Forehead kisses

Honestly, I am not quite sure why we even like these. They are just cute and make us feel loved.

I think that most girls can admit that they melt when they get these.

2.  Random surprises

Surprises!

There are so many little surprises that you can do for her!

You can write her a little note for when she wakes up, maker her favorite meal for her, or even surprise her by showing up randomly when you know she could use it!

3.  Flowers

Flower

Flowers can do so much!

Giving a girl flowers for absolutely no reason other than that you were thinking about her and that you love her is a sure way to her heart.

Also a pro tip for if you don't know what type to get her, go with some that are her favorite color! You can't go wrong with that or classic red roses are also a win no matter what.

 4. Having our hair touched

Hair

OK, I don't know if this is every girl per say, but I think a handful of them defiantly do like this.

Personally I would put this on the like 100 times if I could, because dang it feels nice.

You can do this when you guys are just watching a movie or if she is trying to focus on something (like homework) and you have a free hand.

For those girls who don't like to have their hair touched, you can always just touch their arms or hold their hand. It all depends on what she likes.

 5. When you remember things about her

Remember

Girls love it when you remember something that she did or said a while back because not only does it show that you listened, but it also shows that you genuinely care.

This can be as simple as noticing her Starbucks order and getting that for her when she has work or just eating her purple skittles because you saw her picking out those ones last time and you know she doesn't like those ones.

 6. Neck kisses

Kisses

Same thing as the forehead kisses, except these are more intimate since it is such a sensitive area.

 7.  Massages

Massaging kitty

You can go as far out or simple as you want with this one.

If she's talking about how much her feet hurt then you can always surprise her with a nice foot massage while you guys are sitting on the couch.

Or if you want to go all out then you can light some candles and put on some music and really give her the real spa experience, minus the price tag.

 8.  When you bring her backup shoes

Heels

This is one that not every girl may immediately think of but when they need them it is a life saver and it shows that you care about her.

If you guys are going out and she's wearing some high heels than keeping some slippers or flats in the back of your car for the ride home is a sweet way to show her that you knew her feet would hurt and that you are there to help.

9. Goodnight and good morning texts

Text

Sending her a quick goodnight and good morning text lets her know that you are thinking about her, which is a super easy way to make her feel special.

10. A cute post dedicated to her

Post

Girls love a random and unexpected post about them.

You can do this on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or anywhere else. Just showing her off and letting everyone know that you love her is sure to make her smile and get butterflies.

 11.  Opening the door for her

Opening door

This is such a small thing that makes girls blush every time. It makes you look like a gentleman and is sure to make her think you are way smoother than you really are.

12. Making a list for her

Reaction

If you make a list of date ideas for her or a list of things you know that she likes, without even telling her, when she finds out she just may cry.

This is a way to make her really feel like you care about her and it will make her feel so special.

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Subtle Ways You May Be Disrespecting Your Friend's Relationship

If they make your friend happy, you shouldn't be doing these things.

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No ones significant other wants to tell them they don't like their friends. And trying to tell anyone not to hang out with the people they're closest too is a disaster waiting to happen.

Some people really just don't like their friend's partner, but others have no idea the damage they may be doing to the relationship. If you are more aware of some things to avoid, hopefully, you, your friend, and their partner can all get along in peace.

1. When you see your friend, make sure to acknowledge their partner.

To be honest, this is a basic courtesy. If you go to say hi to anyone in a group of people, it is polite to greet, or at least acknowledge, everyone there. If you completely ignore that your friend's partner is even there, it will make them feel awkward and neglected. Just say hi.

2. Don't be overly touchy-feely with your friend, especially around their partner.

Obviously, this mostly applies to friends of the opposite sex (for heterosexual couples). Look, there is nothing wrong with having friends of the opposite sex but just know your boundaries. You may think your friend's partner is being jealous for no reason, but are you doing anything that might make them uncomfortable?

You don't need to always have your arm around them or be leaned up against them. It is really inappropriate to kiss them on the cheek or give them super long hugs, even if that is something you did before they had a partner, and even if it is completely platonic.

You can still hug and be close to your friend, just be respectful of their boundaries. If you don't give their partner any reason to be jealous then they will have no basis to dislike you.

3. If you invite your friend somewhere, it is polite to also invite their partner.

Even if you assume your friend's partner is going to come, it is nice to make them feel welcomed. And if you don't want their partner to come, make sure they are not together or planning to be together when you invite your friend.

You don't have to always have their partner around, but don't make it a habit of not inviting them. If they don't feel welcomed around their partner's friends, then they probably won't feel as confident in their relationship.

4. Don't ever bring up your friend's past relationships, especially around their partner.

Even if they are on good terms. Even if you are still friends with their ex. Just don't bring them up. No one wants to hear about their partner's past relationships or flings. It is embarrassing and uncomfortable to have to hear about your partner's exes.

5. If you are all out together, don't try to separate your friend from their partner.

There is a good chance that if you are out with your friend and their partner, their partner does not know many people there. If that is the case, don't try to separate your friend from their partner.

There may be an exception if their partner has friends around too, or if they are outgoing and can talk to anybody easily, but otherwise, it is really awkward to be in that situation alone. They are with their partner for a reason, and it is nice to make their partner feel included as well.

Just don't make it a habit to always pull your friend away.

6. Don't put your friend in any awkward or risky situations.

If your friend is a cheater, that is not really any fault of yours. But don't be the friend who is known for putting your partnered friend in risky situations.

There is nothing wrong with going out occasionally with your friends, but it does not need to be a regular occurrence, especially if it makes their partner uncomfortable.

Along the same lines, if you know an ex-partner or fling will be there, you don't need to put your friend in that awkward situation. Just be aware of the situation and how it might make their partner feel.

To wrap up, you don't need to completely change your relationship with your friend just to make their partner happy; just make sure to be polite and respectful of their partner and their relationship.

These are some subtle things you may be doing that are hurting your friend's relationship that you don't even realize have negative consequences. Simply be more aware of some of these situations and how they could potentially make your friend's partner feel. After all, the best relationships are the ones where your partner's friends also become your friends.

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My BF And I Were 'Just Friends' And Now We're Celebrating Our One Year Anniversary

Dating my best friend was the best decision I have ever made.

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In August 2017, Brendan and I met. A group of friends invited him and me to go to Wendy's after a meeting for a school club. We talked the whole time — the conversation seemed endless in the best way possible. Later that night, I called him to ask him what water balloons I should buy for a celebration the next day. From that day forward, I cannot remember a day where I have not called him. It started off as nothing more as a platonic relationship from my perspective, but he would advocate otherwise.

Fast-forward to January 2018, Brendan and I started seeing each other outside of school. We would make up excuses and white lies to our friends and parents, saying that we were going to the library to study when really we would just sit in the parking lot and talk for hours until he had to drive me home. He became my best friend. I wanted to tell him everything — good news, bad news, stupid rants, my blonde moments, random and unfiltered thoughts. However, day-in and day-out, I kept denying that it was anything more than a friendship. Again, he would argue otherwise.

On April 27, 2018, I gave in.

We were sitting in his parked Dodge Durango, listening to a pop radio station. I was leaning over the center console to rest my head on his shoulder, and we were waiting for the sun to go down at a park. Abruptly, I looked over at him and ironically asked if he would be my boyfriend. For some reason, we did not tell our family or friends for about a month (sorry, Mum and Dad). I wish I would have realized it sooner, but regardless of timing, dating my best friend was the best decision I have ever made.

Christmas 2018Olivia Zidzik

Since then, our relationship has overcome insane distances.

Being 12 miles away turned into 1,601 miles when he went on a service trip to Boca Chica in the Dominican Republic this past summer. It went back to 12 miles for a little while. However, at the end of the summer, it turned into 413 miles when I moved to the University of Kentucky. In October, we were only a few feet apart as I hid behind his car in his school parking lot to surprise him. After I have returned and left home for Thanksgiving, Christmas, and spring break, he decided it was time for him to come to Lexington in March 2019.

All the time spent together and apart brings us to our one year — April 27, 2019.

Hey, Brendan: Although we will be 413 miles apart for it, happy one-year. You have been my rock and my best friend for the past 20-some months, and there are not enough thank you's that I can say to express how thankful I am that God put you in my life. I am so beyond grateful and appreciative for everything you have done and sacrificed for me and for us. I cannot wait to see where our journey will go next, but until then — here's to me and you. I love you. See you very very soon.

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