10 Times Love Should Be Hurting You
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10 Times Love Should Be Hurting You

One in three women has been physically abused by their partner.

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10 Times Love Should Be Hurting You
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Every day I wear a purple ribbon on my bag to represent the women and men affected by domestic violence. As a member of Alpha Chi Omega, a sorority with a strong philanthropy of Domestic Violence Awareness (DVA), I am dedicated to educating others about DVA and healthy relationships.

Inspired by another powerful article written by an Odyssey creator, I decided to use my words to spread awareness of a widespread issue. Anyone can be a victim of domestic violence. Take a stand -- love should never hurt.

If you feel unsafe or need help, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-7233 ), alert local authorities, or reach out to a safe shelter. If you are in the Indianapolis area, the Julian Center is a place for survivors of domestic violence.

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"Domestic violence is the willful intimidation, physical assault, battery, sexual assault, and/or other abusive behavior as part of a systematic pattern of power and control perpetrated by one intimate partner against another." It's necessary to know what domestic violence is and how to recognize it.

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Every minute, 20 people are abused by their intimate partner in the United States. Domestic violence occurs often and persistently.

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One in three women has been physically abused by their partner.

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One in four men has been physically abused by their partner. Domestic violence affects everyone.

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An abuser is often dominant, threatening, humiliating and intimidating to maintain control over the victim. Know the signs and red flags to prevent yourself from continuing an unhealthy relationship.

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Domestic violence can be physical, emotional, financial, sexual and digital. Although these actions of violence are not always physical, the intention and effects are often the same.

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Domestic violence hotlines receive over 20,000 calls on a single day. Victims can speak confidentially and safely with trained professionals who want to help.

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Almost one in four domestic violence incidents are witnessed by a child. Children are also impacted by the effects of domestic violence.

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One in 10 high school students has experienced physical violence from their partner. Domestic violence for teenagers and non-married adults is referred to as dating violence.

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Intimate partner violence is most common for younger adults ages 18-24. Almost half of college-age women experience some form of dating violence

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