I Won't Say I'm In Love Because I Don't Know If I've Actually Been In Love
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I Won't Say I'm In Love Because I Don't Know If I've Actually Been In Love

I would LOVE to know what it is like to be in love.

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I Won't Say I'm In Love Because I Don't Know If I've Actually Been In Love
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Love: it’s a funny thing. There are too many songs to count that talk about it and so many people who look like they are in love. Love isn’t easy. It’s not something that you feel for someone immediately. It takes time to know, and for many people, knowing doesn’t hit you like a lightning bolt.

A couple days ago, a friend of mine asked me if I have ever been in love or had the feeling of complete euphoria. Honestly, I responded saying “not really” and It kind of hit like a train. All these feelings that I thought I felt of love, was mainly infatuation. Love is tricky because it enfolds more than one emotion. Love is being 100% comfortable around someone; it’s full trust and honesty. Love is to care for someone so much and only want the best for them. Love is so many things, but only you will know when you are in love.

Wait for the one, you’ll know eventually. Wait for the content feeling, knowing that everything will fit into place. Your parents will like him, your best friend will love him, and he will want you. He will want the good, the bad, and the ugly. He will want to be there for it all.

Love is fragile. It is special and unique to the couple who are in it. Love can be damaged, so try to keep the spark, and let everything happen naturally. Love is unique to each individual because they express love differently. Many people have their language of love, mine is touch and words of affirmation. It is always interesting to hear about other's love languages and see how they feel love best.

One day, I can’t wait to be in love because when I do, it will feel right.

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