Breakups are very hard to deal with, whether you ended the relationship or your significant other did. The clock on the wall will cure it all and so will Luke Combs, so here's 10 lyrics to do exactly that:
Literally, so hot RN
Literally, so hot RN
If you're having recurring doubts, it's time to sit back and read into it. No, don't overthink it. That's something I'd definitely do, so easier said than done, but just take a deep breath and if you feel that one tiny squeak deep down in your body that says something is off, then something is off.
It's not your period. It's not the stress from school. It's not what anybody says. It's your gut telling you something.
If there was a second that you were worried if he loves you or not, then you're not feeling it. There is no need to backtrack and think when this itsy bitsy hunch came about. It doesn't matter what happened. It doesn't matter how stupid or insignificant. If you're questioning something, then you've got some trouble.
I don't want to hear about a pros and cons list.
Love doesn't work like that. And if it did, that would suck, the romance would be buried in a dark hole and never seen again.
But, I get it. Deciding is the worst part. Making decisions that will personally impact you and your world, isn't a piece of cake. I'm not going to stand here and tell you that it's one, two, three—easy peasy. But, don't be afraid of this step.
It doesn't matter if you've been together for three months, one year, or five. If you think, "Oh! Maybe it'll get better, I just have to give it some time." No! You don't have time to waste. There will never be a good time to say goodbye, but you have no reason to be scared of being alone. You'll always have yourself and you're more than enough.
Do I believe in giving people chances? Duh. Do I believe that, in general, our generation has a fear of commitment (count me in, as well!) and that we are too brusk with swiping from one person to another? Yup. But, if you're with someone and you've been walking around with this blah sense inside of you, you don't have to ask yourself if this is a good relationship. You already know it isn't. You're not happy and it's time to find you a big bucket of glee.
You can't run away from your heart telling you something isn't right. And, if you try, it will only burn hotter later on.
I try so hard and do my best to be there for you as much as I can be, but I can't do it anymore. I should not be giving you the wife material when you won't even acknowledge the way I treat you. I try and try, but you don't care about anything that I do. I did so much for you and none of it ever hit home with you. But you know what... that is okay. I need to be able to put myself first and make sure my heart is in the right place and not pine after someone who does not even realize the things that I am doing for him.
I want to be pursued by someone and have that guy who treats me right and notices the things that I am doing for him. You should be treated like a queen and if a guy does not see that than it is his loss because there is going to be that guy who does see that. That is the guy you want. The one who notices you and puts you first. Not the guy who only spends time with you when it's convenient or when he needs something from you because he knows that you're always there for them. Every time that I try I always get hurt and I don't want to get hurt anymore. I need to stop getting put second and take care of myself.
Girls you are so so so much better than that guy who puts you second and you deserve so so so much more than that. I know waiting can suck, but you deserve the guy who is going to care for you and about you. Not the guy who comes to you when it is worth it for him.
Now I know he may be sweet and he's different around you or you know who he really is, trust me I have been there and said all of those things. But if he doesn't treat you right, girl move on. Listen to those friends around you who see the way he really is and the skepticism that they are bringing up. In the end, those friends only want what is best for you. And girl, believe me, the boy that puts you second is not the one.
All that boy will bring is pain and unwanted feelings that you don't need to be questioning. Don't waste your time on someone who doesn't appreciate you and don't waste your energy on someone who doesn't even realize how good you are. You are wonderful and deserve the best. Find a guy who is going to give you that because if he is putting you second now, imagine what will happen down the road. It's okay to be single and take the time to be with yourself, but it is better to be single than to go through a constant cycle of pain and heartache.