There Isn't A 'Perfect' Type Of Relationship, Stop Stressing

There Isn't A 'Perfect' Type Of Relationship, Stop Stressing

Because love is love, no matter what type of relationship you are in.
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People get so caught up in others business, especially their relationship business. People feel like they have a right to judge others and gossip about their relationship.

There is no perfect relationship...except maybe Blake Lively and Ryan Renolds, but they aren't even human so...

Thing is, there are so many types of relationships that work for other people that may not work for you. There is no reason to start shit over something that really has nothing to do with your daily life. It will not affect you or harm you in any way so why be so nasty about something you don't understand.

There are so many types of relationships that are so unique and diverse that suit different personalities.

One type of relationship people judge is the "break up and make up" couple. Look, it totally is annoying when your friend calls you for the millionth time about the "break up," but that's her business.

Unless he/she is treating them badly then stay out of it and keep your comments about how they should stay broken up to yourself.

They clash sometimes and may knick you in the process, but when they are together their love is magnetic.

Another relationship type is the "fights like cats and dogs" couple.

This couple is different than the one above because they never actually break up, but sometimes it seems like they will or you kinda wish they would.

They fight over every little thing and I'm sure people think it's crazy but it's actually their way. It means they have good communication and maybe they just like to fight, so who are we to judge.

One relationship that doesn't get talked about much but judged severely is the "lesbian/gay/trans" relationship. People will say, "ew" when the couple kisses in public or they will make fun of them or even worse they may get attacked.

You need to keep your head held high while knowing that your love is true and more pure that those people's dark hearts.

Or the "we fell in love young (and possibly got married young)" relationship, which gets owned for so many reasons that is no ones business. "Did she get pregnant? Are they religious? It won't last they don't know what they want."

Maybe, just maybe, they are in love and know exactly what they are committing to, Susan.

As I write, I keep thinking about even more types of relationships, my own included.

The one that a lot of people talk some real shit on is the "age gap" relationship. Look, age is a thing. It does matter. It matters when it's a fourteen year old girl and a thirty year old guy. That is creepy AF, but an age gap between two adults? Not so creepy.

As a twenty three year old (yes, I'm twenty three), having the choice to date how I want and who I want is my own and my right. No one can judge me because they are not in my life nor my relationship.

Please, keep your judgment to yourself.

And my favorite, the "I love myself" relationship. This one gets so much shit for being in a committed relationship to yourself. There is nothing wrong with putting yourself or your career first. Maybe you just love your job and that's enough for you right now.

So much gossip revolves around other's business. It's dumb because relationships are supposed to be amazing and happy things but people pull others down with their bullshit drama and harsh words.

Your relationship is yours and you know what it's about. You know each other and love each other, so don't listen to haters who aren't there behind closed doors. We all know those who judge aren't perfect and they have their skeletons and issues behind closed doors. At least you are honest and upfront about your baggage with your SO.

You do you and I'll do me.

Mind your own damn business and I'll mind mine.

Love who you want and I'll love who I want.

Moral of all this: There is no "right" relationship, because whatever you feel is what's right. So don't stress over petty gossip and other drama or what the perfect relationship "should" be.

You got this. You're doing it right.

How do I know?

Because love is love, no matter what type of relationship you are in.

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12 Things To Know Before Dating A Girl Who Loves Country Singers More Than She Loves You

They’re just as important as you, babe.

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If you're about to fall for a girl who falls for country singers, prepare yourself by knowing the following:

1. The playlist 

My playlist will go from Luke Combs to Blake Shelton and you'll have to deal with it. Your playlists are not an option. I will go on and on about how beautiful their voice is, but don't get jealous.

2. Releases

I will set alarms for new releases like Luke Combs "The Prequel" and you HAVE to be as excited as I am. I will be more excited about these releases than I am about anything else in life, but suck it up buttercup.

3. Concerts

I will give up time with you to go see my favorite singers and you’ll just have to understand. You can either join or not, but the plans aren’t changing.

4. Lyrics

You will hear me quote their lyrics more than I’ll say I love you, but just know I still love you.

5. Car rides

Every car ride will include country music, while it will most likely be Luke Combs or Adam Doleac blaring on the radio, you better enjoy every bit of it.

6. I will talk about how beautiful they are.

You’ll hear about their looks often, wether it be Luke Combs eyes or Luke Bryan’s voice, the looks will be brought up. Don’t get jealous, you’re just as handsome.

7. Their voices

Their voices are BEAUTIFUL. While I personally favor Luke Combs, just know I love yours too.

8. Phone backgrounds 

My phone background is most likely some country singer and not a picture of us, but you’re important, I promise.

9. Home Decor 

I will have pictures of Faren Rachels and I up before I have some of us, but realize I have plenty of pictures of us and one with her.

10. Awards

Whenever any awards are on, they’re number one priority compared to your Braves games. You can always watch recaps.

11. Singing 

I will randomly start singing any song by them and probably interrupt any story you're telling, sorry they're on my mind.

12. Dates

I will make sure any release dates for new songs, albums, or concerts are on my calendar; however, I will probably forget our anniversaries.

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11 Things The Man You Love Should Do For You, No Questions Asked

Sometimes it's just the simple things in life that mean a lot.

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Every girl feels special when the guy she's dating does simple things for her that not everyone thinks about. Here's a list of 10 things that every girl genuinely appreciates.

1. Open/Hold the door

I feel like this one is really simple because everyone has to walk through doors. Chivalry isn't dead, let him open the door for you. He's not trying to prove that you can't do it for yourself, but he's trying to be polite and show you that he cares for you.

2. Give you really big hugs

Everyone has bad days, and sometimes you just need a really big hug. Whether it be a bear hug or the hug where he picks you up and spins you around, it will make you feel better in the long run.

3. Buy you really small gifts

One of the best things my boyfriend has ever done for me is simply bringing me a Dr. Pepper when he knows I'm tired from a long hard day full of exams or work. Sonic slushes will also make my day in a heartbeat.

4. Text/Call you just to tell you he loves you

This is pretty simple. It takes less than 10 seconds to text, and only a few minutes to call. Sometimes you get these texts right at the perfect moment, and it makes you feel so much better.

5. Come see you when you're sick

Everyone hates being sick. But seeing your friends and family while you're sick can make you feel so much better. Having your boyfriend come to see you and possibly even take care of you just makes being sick that much easier.

6. Respect your decisions

You're not married yet, so your decisions are up to you! He should respect the decisions you make and support you, even if it's not what he thinks is the best decision. After all, you know yourself better than anyone else!

7. Give you a shoulder to cry on

We all have bad days, and sometimes you just can't stop the tears from coming. Even if he's not good with crying, he should give you hugs and love to help you get through it.

8. Compliment you

Even if you look horrible and know so, hopefully, he'll still tell you that you look good. Even if the clothes you're wearing aren't his style, he should still tell you that they look good on you and that you are beautiful each and every day.

9. Call you when you're away or he's away

If you're like me, I miss my boyfriend after being away for about three hours, so when we're apart for more than a couple days, I love getting random calls from him when he knows I'm not busy. It's definitely better than a text.

10. Deal with all your annoying quirks

So if you're anything like me, you enjoy screaming music as loudly and horribly as you can in the car and making a complete fool of yourself, but he should love you for that anyway. I also love to take really stupid pictures, and he should put up with that too. He shouldn't be annoyed by your quirks, he should love them and laugh along with you.

11. Love you no matter what

I honestly feel like this goes without saying, but I put it on here so that the girls who don't feel like they're being loved no matter what can realize. He should want to work out problems with you instead of calling it quits and holding a grudge. He should want you to be happy and support you in every decision you make in life. When he loves you unconditionally, he will do all of the above things and more.

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