Actually, You ARE A Psycho Girlfriend If You Keep Crazy Tabs On Your Boyfriend 24/7
Start writing a post
Swoon

Actually, You ARE A Psycho Girlfriend If You Keep Crazy Tabs On Your Boyfriend 24/7

There is no reason to have to keep tabs on your boyfriend every single hour of the day.

911
Actually, You ARE A Psycho Girlfriend If You Keep Crazy Tabs On Your Boyfriend 24/7
Captain Yoka//Instagram

One of the most important things in a relationship is trust. In this day and age, a lot of people are finding it harder and harder to find a relationship with said trust.

Nowadays, you hear more and more about girls being psycho (according to men) by doing specific actions that can seem to be overwhelming or really just plain weird, so, I'll just say this:

If you feel the need to check your boyfriend's location when he isn't texting you back, you need to tone down your psycho meter.

Checking to see if they're alive by checking their location is one thing, but checking it solely because they aren't texting you back is just so odd to me.

Now, OK, having your boyfriend have his read receipts on is fine and I say that because nobody likes to feel ignored, so it's a nice feature to have but...

How insecure are you in your relationship where you feel the need to look at your boyfriend's location so many times in 1 day? If your boyfriend can't text you every so often just to tell you he's OK, that's part of the problem. It's SO unnecessary to feel like you have to keep tabs on where your boyfriend is almost every second of the day.

Do you truly think that your boyfriend will be dead in a ditch somewhere every day? Are you THAT paranoid about him dying?

And, don't get me wrong, I know a lot of people share their locations with their boyfriend/girlfriend because they travel, but, to me, that's a different story because they're maybe halfway across the country and you'd like to know where they are, but if your boyfriend is at his friend's house and you constantly check his location, what does that say about you? Does it scream insecurity to you like it does to me and probably a bunch of other people?

My point is, you don't need to check your boyfriend's location every hour. That'll just make you stress 100x more. So, if your boyfriend isn't texting you back, go watch Netflix. Go take a bath. Go put on a face mask. Hell, take a nap if you really want to.

It's OK if he didn't text you back. I can guarantee you that he isn't dead in a ditch somewhere.

Report this Content
houses under green sky
Photo by Alev Takil on Unsplash

Small towns certainly have their pros and cons. Many people who grow up in small towns find themselves counting the days until they get to escape their roots and plant new ones in bigger, "better" places. And that's fine. I'd be lying if I said I hadn't thought those same thoughts before too. We all have, but they say it's important to remember where you came from. When I think about where I come from, I can't help having an overwhelming feeling of gratitude for my roots. Being from a small town has taught me so many important lessons that I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

Keep Reading...Show less
​a woman sitting at a table having a coffee
nappy.co

I can't say "thank you" enough to express how grateful I am for you coming into my life. You have made such a huge impact on my life. I would not be the person I am today without you and I know that you will keep inspiring me to become an even better version of myself.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Waitlisted for a College Class? Here's What to Do!

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

90230
college students waiting in a long line in the hallway
StableDiffusion

Course registration at college can be a big hassle and is almost never talked about. Classes you want to take fill up before you get a chance to register. You might change your mind about a class you want to take and must struggle to find another class to fit in the same time period. You also have to make sure no classes clash by time. Like I said, it's a big hassle.

This semester, I was waitlisted for two classes. Most people in this situation, especially first years, freak out because they don't know what to do. Here is what you should do when this happens.

Keep Reading...Show less
a man and a woman sitting on the beach in front of the sunset

Whether you met your new love interest online, through mutual friends, or another way entirely, you'll definitely want to know what you're getting into. I mean, really, what's the point in entering a relationship with someone if you don't know whether or not you're compatible on a very basic level?

Consider these 21 questions to ask in the talking stage when getting to know that new guy or girl you just started talking to:

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

Challah vs. Easter Bread: A Delicious Dilemma

Is there really such a difference in Challah bread or Easter Bread?

62286
loaves of challah and easter bread stacked up aside each other, an abundance of food in baskets
StableDiffusion

Ever since I could remember, it was a treat to receive Easter Bread made by my grandmother. We would only have it once a year and the wait was excruciating. Now that my grandmother has gotten older, she has stopped baking a lot of her recipes that require a lot of hand usage--her traditional Italian baking means no machines. So for the past few years, I have missed enjoying my Easter Bread.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments