It can be hard to know whether or not the person we are with is the one we should think about spending a future with. Check out these tips and try not to waste any more time on the wrong person.

1. She will want you around, however, you'll never hear her say she needs you because she depends only on herself.. she can carry her own weight.

2. She enjoys her "me time" because she believes we all need a little time to ourselves every once in awhile.

3. She keeps a small circle because she believes in the quality of friendships, not the quantity.

4. She would rather stay at home with her dog on a Friday night than spend the night out on the town.

5. She wants more than just "Netflix and Chill."

6. She doesn't put up with your BS. She doesn't have a problem calling you out when needed

7. She supports you and pushes you to be the best version of yourself..

8. Even though she may not forget all the stupid things you say or do, she's always quick to forgive you.

9. She doesn't compare you to others. Especially her exes.

10. She lets you have your "Boys Nights" because she understands both of you are going to have a life outside of your relationship.

11. She will never make you choose between your family or her because she understands the importance of family.

12. She may get a little jealous from time to time.

13. Lying isn't in her genes, so even if she wanted to (which she doesn't) she couldn't.

14. Even though she may not always know where or what she wants to eat, she does know what she wants out of life.

Be with the girl who has walls up; because although she has been hurt a time or two in the past, it indicates she's not going to open up and give her love to just anyone, but when she does, it will be more than worth it. It won't come easy, but her love runs deep.