50 Questions To Ask A Girl If You Want To Know The Real Her

50 Questions To Ask A Girl If You Want To Know The Real Her

Because there's more to a person than her latest Instagram post.

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Looking to spice up the conversation? Are you interested and want to get to know her better? Is it just a friends thing? Lacking something to talk about? Have you liked this girl for a while?

Well finally, she agreed to go out with you. But now, you have a new problem – What to ask a girl?

Look no further than here. These questions should definitely get an interesting conversation going and give you plenty to talk about. But first, it might be best to find out what all you can ask, as some things are better to know at the very beginning of your friendship (or relationship, if you want something more.)

1. What cliché do you hate hearing the most?

outside box

2. What do you wish you cared less about?

is it a person? Place? Moment?

3. If you could go anywhere in the world, where would it be?

world

Some place outside the US, maybe Europe or Asia?

4. Where do you feel most at home?

dorthy

5. What childhood event do you think impacted you most as a person?

6. Who is the one person who knows you best?

Is it a best friend? Family member?

7. What did you think you were going to be when you grew up?

reporter

Did it change over time? Why?

8. Compliments? Do you accept them easily?

compliments

If not? What happened to make you not?

9. What's your favorite attribute about yourself?

It can be physical or non-physical.

10. Is love at first sight a real thing?

Do you believe in it?

11. What subject do you know the most about?

science

Besides the one you majored in. Is there a specific reason you know a lot in that subject?

12. If money was no object, what would your dream job be?

13. What's the one thing that makes you fall for someone?

14. What was the last thing that made you cry?

cry

15. Favorite memory?

Why is it your favorite?

16. What's your favorite inspirational quote?

motivation

Why?

17.  Do you believe in karma?

dont hate

18. Would you rather hand write or type?

Personally, it depends on the situation.

19. If they existed, what do you think your past life was?

20. Are you proud of yourself?

proud

21. What the real story behind the last Instagram picture you posted?

Sometimes, us girls post a photo just because, but other times we have a purpose for doing ti.

22. Do you know your love language?

love language

Knowing your love language can help you better communicate with your SO. Discover yours here.

23. Which romantic gesture do you think is overrated or overdone?

lady and the tramp

Is it common?

24. What has changed the most about you since graduating high school?

Or if she's still in high school, what has changed the most since you started high school?

25. What emojis do you use the most?

emojis

Is it a silly one?

26. What is the most surprising item on your bucket list?

bucket list

If you got a chance, wold you do it?

27. When was the last time you told someone you loved them?

i love you

Romantically, as a friend, or was it a family member?

28. How many people in your life do you trust with your secrets?

29. What is your favorite time of year?

elf

Christmas!!!!

30. What never fails to make you smile?

31. Do you believe that two people in love can overcome any differences they have?

32. What does intimacy mean to you?

33. What are you most afraid of?

scared

34. What do you think is the best way to solve conflicts?

35.  What kind of personalities are you the most comfortable around?

36. What music do you listen to when you need background noise?

37. What is the most encouraging thing your parents have said to you?

38. Has your favorite color changed since you were a kid?

39. What excuse do you commonly use to get out of plans?

insane

40. What classic book do you absolutely hate?

41. How many friends from your childhood do you still keep in touch with?

Is it all of them or just a select few?

42. Do you think of yourself as strong?

strong

Physically? Emotionally?

43. Have you put any thought into your future wedding?

44. What color pen do you usually prefer to write in?

pens

Blue? Black?

45. Has a pickup line ever worked on you?

Which one was it?

46. If you could redo (or alter) one decision in your life (so far), what would it be?

Why that specific one?

47. When was the last time you gave someone a second (or third) chance?

second chance

48. Would you rather have tons of good friends but not know them very well or have 2-3 best friends and be super close?

49. If you had to pick one place to live for the rest of your life where would it be?

Is it in the States? Abroad?

50. If you could be a famous athlete, model, actress, etc., which would you choose?

Was your choice because of a hobby or extracurricular you are in?

Literally, so hot RN

Literally, so hot RN

Hometown Tinder Is Every College Girl's Worst Nightmare When She's Home For The Holidays

It's full of all the boys who made fun of you in high school.

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Ah, the holidays. Three whole weeks where college students pack up their dorm necessities and return back home, to Christmas carols and grandma's famous fudge and some well-deserved rest. However, the holidays also come with quite a bit of extra spare time, and without your college friends three doors down, it can be hard to figure out what to do with yourself. This may lead to quite a few naps and Netflix binges, or if you're anything like me, swiping left and right on Tinder until you're completely out of people around you.

And while I'll whole-heartedly admit that I turn to Tinder over my holiday breaks to cure my boredom, I also know damn well that hometown Tinder is every single college girl's worst nightmare during the holidays. Here's why.

1. All of the boys who made you cry in high school are on it.

Remember when you had the biggest crush on Jake when you were sixteen and he made you cry at the homecoming dance when he wouldn't slow dance with you to "Someone Like You"?

No matter how hard you try to push that memory to the darkest parts of your mind, ten swipes on hometown Tinder will lead you to his picture on your iPhone. And while it may be fun to laugh at how he went from a 8 out of 10 in high school to a 6 out of 10 on a good day now, you don't want to be stuck contemplating whether or not you should swipe right on the boy who ruined your makeup on what should've been a good night.

2. And so are the awkward ones who you never really talked to.

Yeah, you always thought Aaron was cute, but you never struck up a conversation on the bus ride home. Now, you're stuck with a question that could go many ways: do you swipe right or not?

3. Most of the people you're swiping on will never leave your hometown.

Girl, you have goals. You were one of the few people who actually left your hometown and went off to school, and the last place you want to end up when you graduate is back in those hometown streets. Why in the world would you want to end up with someone who never plans on leaving?

Yeah, you may think it's "just Tinder," but truth is, you never know what could happen with the guys you talk to on there.

4. So. Many. Exes.

Your first crush from 5th grade, your senior prom date, your first kiss, the first guy who ever broke your heart...hometown Tinder is stacked FULL of so many of your exes in one place. If you choose to navigate hometown Tinder, well, good luck, sis.

5. You're going to end up doing something you regret.

Whether it's hooking up with a guy you've known since you were in diapers or getting back with your ex, hometown Tinder leads to nothing but bad decisions. Trust me on this.

6. You know people in your hometown run your mouth.

When you're away at school, the only time someone MIGHT talk about your Tinder is if some guy from work or one of your class recognizes you and thinks your bio is witty. When you're back home, however, your Tinder profile is going to be a featured screenshot and every "Saturdays are for the boys" group chat within a 15-mile radius. People are going to run their mouth about you even having a Tinder and they'll tear apart all your pictures and your bio. Yeah, it's shitty, but isn't that expected?

7. You're forced to lower your standards.

Let's be real for a second: the guys on hometown Tinder simply just aren't as cute as the boys you're swiping right on like crazy back at school. If you want a hometown hookup or even just someone to entertain you with conversation while you're bored binge-watching "Friends" for the fifth time, odds are you're going to have to lower your standards a bit.

8. One wrong swipe and you've ruined your holiday season.

Y'all, these are the holidays we're talking about. Three weeks to rest and recharge. Time to enjoy family and friends and the joy that comes with the holidays. You don't want to be stuck upset or annoyed or pissed at some rando and whatever they said to you on an app. Maybe, no matter how bored you get, it's best you let things settle for a bit and stay far away...

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8 New Year's Resolutions That Every Single College Girl Should Make In 2019

This is your year.

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Despite what you have probably been repeatedly preached, starting off the new year single doesn't suck. You may not have a definite New Year's Eve kiss, but you have plenty of opportunities to improve yourself and succeed in your goals, without the obligations of a relationship holding you down.

1. Dedicate more time to your friends.

When you're in a relationship, friendships can fall to the back burner. Single life is the perfect opportunity to invest more time in your friendships. Whether it's staying in or going out, organizing a wine night or a study session, make your friends a priority this year.

2. Have more confidence with guys and dating.

Text a crush from class first. Don't be afraid to leave a situation that doesn't feel right, of losing a date out of fear that you won't get another. Even if you get turned down, deal with confrontation, or remain single for a while, things will work out.

3. Break a bad habit.

The "New Year, New Me" mentality can often be daunting (and very ridiculous). The reality is, you are still you, faults and all. But making a goal to change one thing that's been holding you back can be helpful. Maybe this is going out for more, or procrastinating on studying, or a personal thing you really want to change, for yourself.

4. Improve your study and work habits.

This is the year to succeed in academics and career. Don't let procrastination and laziness hold you back. Get organized and get your goals accomplished.

5. Go on dates.

Don't make your goal to get into a relationship. But being single doesn't mean locking yourself off from possibilities. Get to know different people and options. Whether this is simply casual, disastrous, or has the potential to develop into more, don't try to force anything, and remember that everything is a learning experience.

6. Learn a new skill (or improve an old one).

When you're single, your schedule is yours. Why not take the opportunity to learn a new skill or hone in an old one that you've abandoned? It doesn't have to be a huge conquest that feels impossible. Take painting or cooking classes. Dedicate time every day to learn a new language.

7. Don't be afraid to try some new styles.

Get some bold lipstick, spice up your wardrobe, take some style risks.

8. Treat yourself.

Whether this means taking yourself out to dinner once in a while or having a face mask and Sex and the City marathon night, invest time in giving yourself the treatment you deserve.

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