No relationship is perfect. Not a single one.
It is so important that you know one thing: if your relationship has its bad days, it's OK.
Even though people make it seem like relationships should be sunshine and unicorns 24/7, that's absolutely not the case.
1. There's going to be days when you don't see your boyfriend or girlfriend as much as you would like to because they're busy, working, or getting things done.
Shoot 'em an "I love you" text and find comfort in the fact that they're being productive and growing as a person.
2. There's going to be days when both of you are incredibly stressed, and all you'll do is sit in silence and try to get work done.
Find comfort in the silence.
3. There's going to be days when things don't turn out like you wanted them to.
Take a deep breath and move on.
4.There's going to be days when you fight.
Talk it out and make sure you never fight about the same thing again.
So, no. Your relationship isn't doomed because you and your S.O. have a few bad days.
If anything, those bad days help your relationship grow. Being able to work through the bad days shows signs of a mature relationship, and of mature individuals.
Let's face it, a relationship can only be in the cupcake phase for so long. Don't expect to be in it forever.
Stop stressin' and keep lovin'!