"Sexplanations" is not your high school's sex-ed.
"Sexplanations" provides inclusive sex-ed for free.
Dr. Lindsey Doe, a clinical sexologist from Missoula, MT, is the host of "Sexplanations" and is an incredibly inspiring lady. I remember watching the first episode of "Sexplanations" when it premiered during my sophomore year of high school, and I've been a fan ever since.
You deserve to have great sex.
Not just sex with one partner, but also sex with yourself or sex with multiple partners.
Here are my favorite episodes of "Sexplanations" that will change your sex life:
1. How to have a clitoral orgasm
Hello, folks with a vagina! If you've ever had an issue orgasming alone or with others, this is the video for you. Dr. Doe breaks down different methods for success!
2. Orgasmic sex positions
Part two! Orgasmic sex positions will demonstrate positions that are very pleasurable for both partners. Even as someone who's experimented, this video was super informative and fun to watch Dr. Doe run around in a morph suit.
3. Sex shields
Ladies and folks without penises, have you ever put a condom on? Do you know how to? This video will teach you all about sex shields beyond just traditional condoms. When my friends are becoming sexually active, I usually send them this video so they can become familiar with protecting themselves and others.
4. Falling in love
Ask anyone who knows me and they'll tell you that I'm an advocate of safe hookup culture. However, this video is so adorable and outlines the feelings of love in eight easy steps.
5. Does size matter?
Spoiler alert: It shouldn't. Learn all about why aspects of size are variable and learn about way dicks come in all shapes and sizes.
6. Friends with benefits
Fun fact: there are 7 types of FWBs.
7. Cunnilingus: Eating someone out
"Do not literally eat pussy." -Dr. Doe
8. How to eat ass
I remember the first time I learned about tossing the salad. I had no idea why any sane person would opt to do this. Dr. Doe outlines how to do this in a safe, clean and consensual way. FYI, the anus is full of nerve ends and that's why myself and many people find this pleasurable.
9. Anal sex
Along with rim jobs, anal sex can be incredibly intimidating. Here are the anatomical things you should know before engaging in anal sex.
10. Asphyxiation: Breathplay
Choking your partner is potentially dangerous, but can be incredibly pleasurable. Explore this video to learn how to stay safe while playing with breathplay.
11. Sexual discipline
If you've ever been curious why people are into BDSM, Dr. Doe dives into one aspect of the spectrum: discipline.
12. 10 hot hookups
I love hookups. Specifically, safe, consensual hookups like these ones.
13. How to have a one-night stand
"What should I do if this doesn't go how we want it to?" - Dr. Doe
14. Sex & alcohol
College life gives students lots of opportunities to have sex when intoxicated. Here's what you should know.
15. Sex & drugs
From chocolate to weed, sex on drugs is not the same as sober sex.
16. Sex analogy FAILS
"You can only give so many slices" - Dr. Doe
17. The vulva - The vagina's neighborhood
Possibly one of my favorite videos on the internet. This most adorable anatomy video you wish you saw in health class.
18. 33 masturbation tips
Learning to get yourself off can improve all aspects of your sex life and self-confidence.
19. Sex toys 101
One of my favorite places to shop for sex toys is Babeland. They have a storefront in Seattle and NYC for those who like to shop in-store.
20. Sexual racism
My last five favorites are less about improving your sex life and more about important sexual topics. In this episode, Dr. Doe addresses how race preferences affect sexuality.
21. I’m being harassed
Dr. Doe shares a personal experience with harassment and gives resources for those who have or are experiencing harassment.
22. Disability and sex
THIS IS IMPORTANT! Does sex look the same between all humans? No. Find out more here!
23. Should you have sex when you're sick
Frat flu is too real! If you've ever wanted to sleep with a sick partner, here's what you need to know. Don't forget that consent is sharing you're sick!
24. Disney princess sex
Who doesn't love Disney and sex? Are they better together? Find out here!