I'm about to sound like a monk but let's remember I'm in the body of a 21-year-old girl... So this can be relatable to anyone if you take the time to try and understand. I know this perspective is going to seem really taboo to a lot of people, but bear with me.
So from a very personal level, I'm going to use my recent experience as an example. The past 4/5-ish months, I've had sex twice and other than that, I've had no interest. I sat here and thought "what the hell is wrong with me?" AM I ASEXUAL?! Not going to lie, I was kind of concerned.
I've been in a very intense mental/spiritual growth during those months and I had only recently started learning about sexual/life force energy. I know sex has become nothing more than a physical activity for a lot of people, which may seem harmless, right? I think people are forgetting the divinity that comes when two people's life force energies come together. Or they just don't give a shit, which is even more dangerous.
We all have this very powerful sexual energy and it typically sits in our root chakra. This chakra is at the very bottom of our spine, all other chakras leading up to the top of our head. So if this energy stays at the bottom, that means it cannot fully activate the other areas unless it is transferred.
When this energy is compacted into this one chakra, it wants to be released through sex. Meaning, if your energy is sitting so low, that's why you're horny all the time. It's not normal to be constantly thinking about sex, especially with people you hardly know. If you can identify this energy and transfer it, it can be utilized in very powerful and effective manifestations.
For example, if this life force energy is moved up to your sacral chakra, this is where intense creativity comes alive. Each chakra has it's own powerhouse of energy for specific purposes. If a chakra is blocked, it can lead to illness. During Kundalini spiritual practices, it's not uncommon to actually masturbate and then before reaching an orgasm, they stop and gain control of the energy before transferring it. This enhances the intensity.
So what happens when having mindless sex?
Well for one, the energy exchange is most likely not going to be very pleasant. A lot of people don't have a very warm energy, if they're not sucking the life out of other peoples. When you have this energetic exchange, you hold debris of the other person and without spiritual cleansing, these remains build up. Now imagine sharing energy with someone who has a mixed ball of energy which they cannot distinguish their own from which ones were transferred to them.
And yes, this still affects you even if you're in denial or have no education on energetic transfers. If you're selfish with your energy and don't use it for sex, it eventually transfers to other areas on it's own. That energy needs an outlet so it finds a different way to release itself. This is also why children are so creative, their energy is so intensely powerful and it's obviously not released through sexuality, so they just create and imagine all day, letting the energy run wild.
Nikola Tesla, Leonardo Da Vinci, Muhummad Ali, Mark Twain, and many others, all remained celibate.
They preserved their energy which led to high levels of creativity and scientific achievements. There is so much life inside of sexual energy and they recognized that, using it to their advantage. If you can take control of your sexual energy, you can take control of anything. Taming sexual desires is one of the hardest things for humans to do; that is pure strength and self-control.
Isn't it no fap November or something, anyway?