Guys, Do These 11 Things And You Will Make Your Girl Feel Like The Princess That You Know She Is
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Well, you did it. You found someone who you are fond of and it is safe to say they are fond of you too. I know lots of people want to do all that they can to make their girl feel like the only girl in the world. Actions, gifts, anything to show that they are always thinking of them. If you follow the list, they may start to believe you.

1. Hand kisses

I know this is super mushy-gushy, but this stuff is what really sets you apart from others. Hand kisses are what you see out of black-and-white movies or the stories that your grandparents tell you. This action proves that chivalry is not dead.

2. Hugs from behind

These are the ones that come by surprise. The good surprises that show you that you are always there for them. Whether its a slow caress of comfort or a tight hug to show that they are proud of them, either way they are always winners.

3. "Thinking of you" messages

Those good morning texts go a long way. During your busy schedule at work and at school, it's always nice to get a text saying how much you are appreciated.

4. Sending funny pictures to one another

Life gets stressful and sometimes, you just need a good laugh. Having a significant other that knows when to make you laugh just shows that they want to help in any way they can.

5. Unexpected acts of kindness

You often hear of random acts of kindness given to strangers. However, having random acts of kindness to a significant other can just mean that you think of them at random moments and want to do something great for them. So if you randomly get her favorite Starbucks drink on the way to see her because you want to, that's something that she will never see coming and will completely gush over it.

6. Supportive encouragement

Being a college student, or any sort of student will have their stressful moments full of doubt, fear, and uncertainty. When a significant other takes the time to build you up and saying that you are capable and can do this, it's encouraging. Got a new job? They will always be proud of you. Words of encouragement go a long way.

7. Attending every performance/sports game you are a part of

You know you have a supportive significant other when they go to every sports game you are apart of. Whether you are on the bench or not. They will sit in the best seat in the house to see you sing, dance, act, or whatever it is you do on stage. They may travel hours for a tournament to see you play. It's the thought and the gesture of being there and being proud of what you do that makes you feel something special.

8. Calling her beautiful and other sorts of adjectives to make her feel great

I know it's probably a given but it's worth being said. Words such as gorgeous, stunning, pretty, breathtaking, all of those words will make a girl feel beautiful and have her standing there feeling like a million bucks.

9. Holding her face during a kiss

Have you ever seen in the movies when the guy looks deep into the woman's eyes and and grabs her face before leaning in a kissing her. It's just a heart melting as it is on the big screen when you experience it in real life. Like seriously.

10. Taking an interest in what she likes

If she loves musical theater and you don't, making an effort to take an interest will go a long way. It will make her feel like her interests go noticed and that you want to try to learn more about it. You don't have to go all in but a little goes a long way.

11. Embrace who she is

No one is perfect. You learn that pretty early on. So is your S.O. Don't have perfect expectations because they will never be fulfilled. But instead of trying to change them, accept them for who they are, flaws and all.

This isn't the key to a perfect relationship, but they are some tips to make your girl feel like wanted and loved. Overall, treat her right. She may be a princess in your eyes but you have to make her believe it.

Literally, so hot RN

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PSA: Don't Text And Date, Do It Like Our Grandparents

Waiting for a text from a boy is like waiting for water to boil. Sometimes I think if I take a lap around my kitchen then the text will magically light up my phone.

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Texting in our relationships has become so prevalent that it has snuck its way into TV. shows and movies, as well as songs. This makes sense because it is such a large part of our lives. Texting boys can be great in some cases, especially in long distance relationships.

And don't get me wrong, it certainly can be exciting!

But I've realized is that it has the potential to be incredibly inefficient and waste a whole lot of everyone's time. The time that is wasted is a combination of the time spent texting in a conversation that leads absolutely nowhere, along with the time you spend thinking about when that next text is going to roll in. Not to mention all the time you spend screenshotting these texts and sending them to your friends and asking advice on how to craft a perfect reply and agonizing over the right wording, re-typing over and over again, having everyone from your best friend to your Mom weigh in on the perfect syntax.

For a generation that is obsessed with getting everything as fast as possible, why are we contacting each other so inefficiently? We think we will just send a quick text, but more often than not, it turns into a whole production.

Snapchat can be even worse. Taking time out of your day to take a well-lit selfie and send it to a boy just so he can send you a snap of his actual chin is just ridiculous.

We are talking to people constantly about absolutely nothing. And quite frankly, we all deserve more. Technology is great, but just because it is advanced doesn't mean it's advancing our communication skills. Boys, I think it might be time to pick up the phone again. Imagine if instead of spending countless hours in a Snapchat conversation grasping at straws to make a plan with the girl you like, you actually just picked up the phone. The call would take maybe two minutes to set up a plan instead of whittling away a whole day. It seems like just because we have the option to text or message someone, we forget that we have the alternative of a trusty phone call.

If our grandparents had dated the way that we did, would they have ever worked out? Would our parents ever have been born? Would we even exist?

As I am re-watching "Sex and The City," "Gilmore Girls" and "Friends" yet again, I am overcome with nostalgia about what dating was like during these times. I'd love to come home to a message on my machine.

Maybe you're reading this and you think I'm lame and old fashioned and you're absolutely right, but I think I have a point. In order to have better success in our romantic relationships, we need to work on actually saying something. Why are we claiming we are "talking" to someone when we have never talked to them in person? How did we end up in this reality of sulking when we have been left on read, or obsessively checking to see if someone has viewed our Snapchat story?

We've been given all these ways of pseudo-communicating and endless time to do it and absolutely no rule book of what is acceptable. When you really think about it, it's a recipe for disaster that could be destroying our relationships before they even start. We need an Emily Post of technology to teach us how to behave. We need to stop abusing the convenience of technology and start challenging ourselves to communicate better.

I challenge you if you're a single lady that the next time a boy asks for your Snapchat, tell them you'd prefer it if they called you to make plans.

Guys, just call a girl! It might really impress her! Everyone who tries this has full permission to call me and yell at me if the person who calls you/you call says you're a huge freak. But do me a favor and start leaving your ringer on when you're not in class. Let's talk.

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13 Reasons To Date An Aries Girl ASAP

Once she's in, she is in with her entire heart.

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It's my absolute favorite season: Aries season! As an Aries, I tend to flourish as my best self once Aries season rolls around. I'm here to lead the way into the new astrological year, and as a single Aries, I'm here to convince single guys why they should date an Aries girl like me ASAP.

1. She's adventurous

She's not content with humdrum dates, she needs action or she'll leave you out of boredom. She'll be down for something to get her adrenaline pumping and will keep you on your toes.

2. She's driven

She's a girl with goals. She's independent and doesn't need anyone holding her back from what she wants. Support her or get out of her way.

3. She's all in whole-heartedly

When she falls, she falls all at once with her entire being. This is a girl who is willing to put her heart on the line for love once she knows it's real. You'll never have to worry about her heart being anywhere else but with you.

4. She's very direct with her likes and dislikes

She isn't a sugar coater since she hates liars, so she'll be honest about everything. Whether you like it or not, you'll always get the truth from an Aries girl.

5. She's super passionate

Whatever it may be, an Aries will be passionate for what she loves. I am passionate about writing, and I never let anything get in the way of it. In a relationship, an Aries girl will bring the heat that comes with her passion for you.

6. She's not a clinger

She hates clingers SO MUCH. Over the top PDA or romantic things generally make an Aries cringe (maybe not all of us, but I know that's how it is for me). She loves getting attention, but being clingy is a major turnoff, and she isn't one herself. She's not going to beg to see you 24/7, she likes to lead her own life.

7. She's a great listener

She loves to talk, but something she's just as great at is listening. She'll ask you so many questions to get to know you and really listen to what you have to say when you answer them.

8. She's big on friends and family, they come first

She's a big proponent of valuing her friends and family above all else. She will likely go to them for advice about everything. Meeting them is more important to an Aries than many people realize. If you're big on family, she's the girl for you.

9. She's open to anything in the bedroom

Got a fantasy? She's game to indulge. She's adventurous and that extends to bedroom activities as well. The same old routine bores her, so don't be afraid to experiment and try new things.

10. She only uses the past as a means to learn

She's probably got a rough past she doesn't necessarily want to talk about. The past is the past and she tries to use this as a lesson. It takes a lot for her to open up about it. She tries to be optimistic and keep herself in the present, and this optimism may rub off on you eventually.

11. Her cuddle game is epic

You'll never want to leave bed once your Aries girl gets her hands on you. You'll be too comfortable to leave.

12. She loves fashion and wears trends well

She loves wearing what's in fashion and looking her very best. Her outfits may put yours to shame. She's the kind of woman you want on your arm while you're out on the town.

13. She'll be the woman you'll never forget

You may break up or drift apart, but she's the girl that will leave a permanent mark on your heart. She's unforgettable.

Get your Aries while you can, because if you don't scoop her up, someone else will.

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