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8 Ways You Know You're Dating An Older Guy

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Jenna Hainke

Jun 13, 2018

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Jenna Hainke

Thanks to a good friend of mine, I met my current boyfriend five months ago. Because I'm bad at math, I thought he was only two years older than me when in reality he actually has four years on me.

1. "Is that your boyfriend or your dad?"

Yes. I actually have gotten asked this on Instagram pictures. Usually from guys that I didn't end up dating.

Because yes, of course, I'd take a picture kissing my father! Of course I'd caption it with heart emojis! You have brains, people. Use them.

2. You can't get into bars with them.

My boyfriend and his friends want to go to a club or bar? I'll wait outside. Have fun!

3. They have full time jobs while you dread your part-time job.

I sit next to my boyfriend and complain about working a four hour shift while he works eight hour days... oops.

4. They have all these financial responsibilities you've never heard of like... bills and stuff.

What's a mortgage payment? How do you take out a loan? Why didn't I get a tax return?

5. You have a personal electrician, handy-man, and technician.

Broken doorknob? Don't know how to change a tire? It's OK, having a boyfriend with a couple years on you has its perks.

6. They can drink around your family before you can.

When your boyfriend goes out to dinner with my family, they talk about the drink menu while I have a very easy decision. I'll take a water, please.

7. You're dating someone who just might be smarter than you.

Girls are used to maturing quicker than guys. When you date somebody older, the maturity levels balance out. Sometimes, you might even be wrong.

8. You have your personal guide for all things college.

Don't know what a mysterious "blue book" is? Can't find a building on campus? Ask your boyfriend, he's done it before. He's like your own Google that you get to cuddle.

As much as we may like to give our older boyfriends grief for their age, they help us out with a lot and their experience comes in handy. I would've have experienced half the things I did this year without my boyfriend, so I owe him for that.

Besides, the older they are the sooner you can get married (this is a joke, Josh, calm down).

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2. You can't get into bars with them.

3. They have full time jobs while you dread your part-time job.

4. They have all these financial responsibilities you've never heard of like... bills and stuff.

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And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make

The sun is up, the sky is blue, it's beautiful and so are you

Love is old, love is new, love is all, love is you

There's nowhere you can be that isn't where you're meant to be

Life is very short, and there's no time for fussing and fighting, my friend

He say, "I know you, you know me", One thing I can tell you is you got to be free

Oh please, say to me, You'll let me be your man. And please say to me, You'll let me hold your hand

It was twenty years ago today, Sgt. Pepper taught the band to play. They've been going in and out of style, but they're guaranteed to raise a smile

Living is easy with eyes closed, misunderstanding all you see

Can you hear me? When it rains and shine, it's just a state of mind

Little darling, it's been long cold lonely winter. Little darling, it feels like years since it' s been here. Here comes the sun, Here comes the sun, and I say it's alright

We danced through the night and we held each other tight, and before too long I fell in love with her. Now, I'll never dance with another when I saw her standing there

I love you, I love you, I love you, that's all I want to say

You say you want a revolution. Well you know, we all want to change the world

All the lonely people, where do they all come from. All the lonely people, where do they all belong

Oh, I get by with a little help from my friends

Hey Jude, don't make it bad. Take a sad song and make it better

Yesterday, all my troubles seemed so far away. Now it looks as though they're here to stay. Oh, I believe in yesterday

And when the brokenhearted people, living in the world agree, there will be an answer, let it be.

And anytime you feel the pain, Hey Jude, refrain. Don't carry the world upon your shoulders

I'll give you all I got to give if you say you'll love me too. I may not have a lot to give but what I got I'll give to you. I don't care too much for money. Money can't buy me love

All you need is love, love is all you need

Whisper words of wisdom, let it be

Blackbird singing in the dead of night, Take these broken wings and learn to fly. All your life, You were only waiting for this moment to arise

Though I know I'll never lose affection, for people and things that went before. I know I'll often stop and think about them. In my life, I love you more

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There have been many lessons learned.

1. The importance of traditions.

2. How to be thankful for family and friends.

3. How to give back.

4. What the word "community" really means.

5. That it isn't about the destination, but the journey.

6. The consequences of making bad choices.

7. To trust people, until you have a reason not to.

8. To be welcoming and accepting of everyone.

9. How to be my own, individual person.

10. How to work for what I want.

11. How to be great at giving directions.

12. How to be humble.

13. To be well-rounded.

14. How to be great at conflict resolution.

15. The beauty of getting outside and exploring.

16. To be prepared for anything.

17. That you don't always have to do it alone.

18. How to be creative.

19. To brush off gossip.

I have never been so thankful to know you.

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

Don't freak out

Email the professor

Attend the first class

Keep attending class

Have a backup plan

Remember that everything works out at the end

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