10 Signs That Point To The Fact She's Definitely A Fuckgirl

We have all heard the term "fuckboy" and I am sure we have all crossed paths with one or two along the way, but have you heard the term "fuckgirl?" A fuckgirl is the female version of a fuckboy. She manipulates guys who adore her, cheats and could care less how her actions affect others. She can't be trusted. A heartbreaker hiding behind an innocent smile, a spunky personality and lots of Instagram followers. I am all about women empowerment. You do you, but if your actions hurt other people, then you need to reevaluate.

Here are 10 signs she is definitely a fuckgirl:

1. She has SO many guy friends.

There are some girls who are actually a bro. Those girls rock and you have nothing to worry about, but if your girl snaps and texts a ton of guys and you start to figure out she has hooked up with over half of them... you're probably being played.

2. She is overly protective of her phone.

This is sketchy when guys do it, and it's sketchy when girls do it. She always has her phone face down, she never opens snaps or texts where you can see and if you touch her phone she loses it. What do you have to hide?

3. She goes for guys who already have a girlfriend.

This girl likes a chase. She likes being chosen over somebody else without a care in the world of who could get hurt. If she hooks up with someone with the knowledge that they're in a relationship, then she has no respect for the boundaries of any relationship including her own. Future home wrecker in the making.

4. She always ends up out with guys when she's having a "girls night."

If she tells you she's staying in with the girls just for you to see snaps of her out on the town with her friends and a group of guys and she didn't invite or tell you, then that's a fuckgirl red flag.

5. She comments flirty things on guy's Instagram pictures.

First off, there's a difference between flirty and friendly. If she is commenting flirty things with heart eye emojis or kissy faces on some hot guy's picture then she probably isn't only talking to you.

6. Her Snapchat besties are all guys.

If there's not one girl on her snap best friends list and these guys aren't actually "just friends," then there's probably more going on there. Lucky for her, you have no proof they're flirty since snaps disappear forever. (-:

7. Every single ex is an evil psycho.

If every single ex she has ever had is "psycho" or "horrendous" and she did nothing wrong at all... odds are she's the crazy one.

8. BUT she still talks to all of her exes.

So your exes are crazy, but you still talk to all of them? Interesting... I can understand being cool with one here and there, but if she is talking to ALL of them (even after they supposedly sucked SO BAD) then you know... there's a little "somethin somethin" going on for sure.

9. She's super touchy with all guys.

If y'all go out together and she is grabbing on guys or just being incredibly flirtatious... naturally you're going to get upset. Here's the best part: once you confront her for making you look like a total fool in front of all of your friends, YOU'RE the crazy one. How dare you question her for sitting on the lap of that hot baseball guy!

10. She doesn't like labels.

I am sorry... but what girl doesn't like labels??? She makes you feel exclusive in private, but publicly y'all are "just friends." Watch out for this one.

Literally, so hot RN

Literally, so hot RN

Sorry Boys, But I Won’t Be That Girl Who Waits Around For You Anymore

Just because I know my worth doesn't mean I should have to wait around for you to realize it too.


I'm like most girls. I am such a hopeless romantic when it comes to dating and all that jazz. With that being said, I have also been the type of girl who has waited around for that guy once or twice (OK let's be real, one too many times).

I am a nice person and a lot of my friends know that I have a kind heart. You can do me dirty and I will forgive you. When it came to guys they could have led me on or ghosted me and later on came back out of nowhere and apologized, more than likely I would have given them a second chance at redemption.

I waited around for that guy to either realize how great we would be together or realize how great of a girl I was. All of my friends would tell me how great I was and how worthy I was but in the end, they weren't the ones I wanted to hear that from. Which was why I waited around and thought up of an excuse to defend the guy I was waiting around for.

The older I got the more I realized how silly I was for waiting around for a guy who probably did not appreciate me the way I should have been appreciated. I realized that I was much better than that and I made a promise that I would stop waiting around. Of course, I did slip up here and there (I mean, I am only human after all).

It wasn't until I was beyond over the male species that I realize how ridiculous I was being for crying over someone who stopped talking to me without rhyme or reason. That was the moment that I realized how worthy I was of a great relationship. A relationship that you see in movies or see in old couples who have been married for 65 years.

I decided I was no longer going to be THAT girl who waited around for a guy. I was no longer going to defend him when my friends asked me why I was still talking to him. I was no longer going to wait around for him to realize how worthy I was. Ever since I promised myself that I was going to live MY best life I have been beyond happy.

Yeah sometimes I say to myself "he was different" but then I remind myself that if he truly cared for me the way I cared for him then I would not have to wait around. He would not only pursue me but also my heart.

So ladies, realize your worth. Stop waiting around for that guy to come to the conclusion how amazing you are. You are a queen and if he can't see that right off the bat, he is NOT worth your time. Wear your crown with your head held high, live your best life, and slay the day away, queen.


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You’re Not Going To Meet Someone On Your Couch Watching Netflix, So Get Your Ass Up

Dating isn't easy, but getting off the couch shouldn't be too hard.


I don't mean to come off as harsh.

The words are directed at me just as much as they are anyone else. Dating isn't easy, especially when most of us have been out of practice. Even as an extroverted person, the idea of striking up a conversation with an attractive guy makes me anxious. If you are fine with being single then this article isn't for you but for the rest of us who want to change our stagnant relationship status, keep on reading.

Dating has changed drastically since our parents' days. In-person conversations have shifted to words on screens, while dinners and drive-in movie theaters have turned into "Netflix and chill." While some of us might be OK with these casual meetings, others want to be wooed. No matter what kind of relationship you're looking for, I can tell you that you aren't going to find it while laying on your couch. Starting something new is stressful and nerve-wracking, but you have to start somewhere. Sometimes we need to get out of our comfort zones in order to put ourselves in a situation to meet someone new. Whether it's a house party, a nice night out with your girls, or maybe even an invite to study with a new group of friends, these all have the possibility of you putting yourself out there.

There is the potential to meet someone new anywhere: the library, the grocery store, or even in class. While it's important to put yourself out there, don't put so much pressure on everyone you meet. Some people are meant to just be friends, while others have the possibility to be so much more. If you try and it doesn't work out with one person, don't beat yourself up — maybe it wasn't meant to be, or the timing just wasn't right. All I'm trying to say is that you will never know what's out there if you don't get off the couch. I've had a lot of heartbreak in my life and sometimes I think that stops me from trying something new. It's hard to come to terms with that you might be what's stopping you from having a relationship with somebody. We need to remind ourselves that we deserve to be loved and be happy, and a healthy romantic relationship can give us that, we just have to be willing to try.

So strike up a conversation with the cute guy in your English class. Text the boy who you've always wondered "what if." Flirt with the guy who you make eye contact with across the bar. Or don't. The choice is yours. Sitting on the couch hasn't been working for you though, so you might as well try something new.

If you're truly content with being single, I'm happy for you. Keep watching Netflix on your couch, don't let me stop you. But for everyone else who wants to change their relationship status, pause the show, close the laptop or turn off the TV. Try something new, even though it's scary. I'm not saying a boyfriend will just fall into your lap, but it certainly doesn't hurt to try.

Someone could be out there waiting for you, all you have to do is get off the damn couch.

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