Let's be honest, dating is hard. Once you come across someone you connect with, you'll start talking, you'll get close, you'll date, and then there's the breakup. However, it's not that simple, especially as we get older.
After the breakup, you'll usually start feeling like you did something wrong. What did I do? Why did I make him feel like he needed to leave? Why did he begin treating me like I was nothing?
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Well, I'm here to tell you that you didn't do anything wrong.
Whether you were the one who ended the relationship or not, there's a part of you that is going to be upset about the sudden departure of him from your life. Somewhere deep down, you'll wonder what happened to make things change, to lead to the breakup.
The thing is, it's not your fault things changed. No matter what happens or what he says to you, you didn't do anything. Don't let him, or anyone else for that matter, make you feel like you're not enough.
Thinking back to every boy I've ever met, they all either don't think about what they say before they say it or say things knowing it will hurt you. So if he says things to hurt you or make you feel like you're not enough or that there's something wrong with you, he doesn't deserve you anyway.
I've been there a few times before. I've had boys wake up one day and decide that they had a change of heart. However, I won't let them tear me down, and neither should you.
Your real Prince Charming is out there.
You'll find him when the time is right because everything happens for a reason.
