The Texts You Should Send AFTER Hooking Up With A Really Great Guy
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So, you did it. You hooked up with an amazing, wonderful, 10/10 guy. Kudos to you, girlfriend! Now, you're probably struggling as to what you should text him because let's be real, that first text you send post-hookup can be very crucial and very difficult.

You definitely don't want to ruin things with this guy because he truly is amazing. Now whether you just want to keep this relationship between the sheets or make it something more is a conversation for a different day, but here are seven texts you should consider sending after hooking up with a really great guy.

1. "Hey, I'm not sure if you have any plans tonight, but I'm going to be at (bar/party/social event), you should totally stop by if you have the time!"

This is a good one regardless of what you're hoping comes out of the relationship. It can be a super chill, fun night that ends up in another hookup or it could also be a chance to step things up to the next level. Plus, it pulls your relationship outside of the bedroom.

2. "Hey, I had a great time tonight, we should totally do this again soon."

This lets him know exactly how you feel in a simple, non-weird way. You're straight to the point, and I think anyone can appreciate that.

3. "Wanna grab a drink/dinner/coffee sometime?"

This lets him know you value you him as an individual, even if your relationship does end up being primarily sexual. You're completely mixing up the dynamic which can open up your relationship to a variety of possibilities.

4. "I just have one thing to say: wow."

If you haven't caught the theme of these texts yet, let me spell it out for ya - be to the point! You don't need to type out a paragraph about how you felt when he went down on you. Sum it up in three letters and I promise he'll get the picture, sister.

5. "This may be bold, but I miss you already."

If you're feeling any sort of emotional connection to this guy and want to change how he views you, this is a safe way to ease into it. It could mean you're really missing him and how you felt when the two of you were joking during pillow talk or it could mean you just really miss how amazing he was in bed. He'll never know, and he'll likely be too oblivious to figure it out.

6. "Thanks for last night ;)"

These flirty manners will be greatly appreciated. Feel free to replace the wink with a suggestive emoji of your choice.

7. "When can I see you again?"

You know you wanna see him again, so get straight to the point. Ask, and be ready to make those plans ASAP.

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Hickeys Are Killing Teens, Young Love Isn't As Innocent As You Think

Hickeys might just be the next cause of your death.

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An article by Mirror has revealed that a teen by the name of, Julio Macias Gonzalez, died because of a stroke caused by a bite mark left by his girlfriend.

The teen was spending time with his family eating dinner, after meeting with his girlfriend, when he started having convulsions and died of a stroke.

Hickeys, or bruises on the skin, as defined by Merriam-Webster, are usually caused by harsh sucking that burst small blood vessels.

These bruises usually last about 5- 12 days as stated through recent publishing by 54 Health.

The article also claims that the amount of time can also vary depending upon your own state of health & the amount of destruction the hickey caused.

"Some hickeys are more severe than others and take a longer time to heal," says 54 Health.

But, sometimes, there can be no room left for healing as some of these bruises can be extremely severe.

These hickeys on your skin can quickly turn into your next nightmare if it completely destroys your blood vessel wall.

In an interview given to Cosmopolitan's Relationship Editor, Julia Pugachevsky, Dr. Jessica O'Reilly said, "According to research, it is possible for hickeys to be dangerous if the pressure is applied over the carotid arteries."

"Too much pressure could injure the blood vessel wall and lead to a smaller clot that could clog an artery and cause a stroke," says Dr. O'Reilly.

Other experts, such as Dr. Teddy Wu, have made it clear that these strokes may not only result in your death but can also cause paralysis.

Even though the result of paralysis or death from receiving a hickey are of low-risk, consider the next time that you give your lover a mark or bruise on their skin - you might just end up being known as a "murderer," among their family & friends.

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My Parents Always Talked About Sex Openly With Me, And I'm So Grateful For Their Candor

And now, I write about sex.

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My mom and dad talk about sex. They never hid it from me and never freaked out when I came home with sex ed diagrams of female and male genitalia. Instead, my dad quizzed me on the fill-in-the-blank diagrams because I was determined to get an A (as I am with any other test).

I was never uncomfortable bringing this material to my parents to laugh at and discuss. I'm grateful that they weren't mortified either.

My parents are my best friends and it's always been this way. I share everything with them, including boys and all that fun stuff. This is how my older brother and I were raised—we can tell our parents anything, they will always be there. I am a mature, independent young woman who can make her own choices. I am not my parents' puppet to control. They are here to guide me so that I can handle all parts of life.

Sex is just another part of life's journey and they get it.

I never had the sex talk with my parents. Life just flowed naturally and I was always open with them. I will always be their baby girl, but I'm getting older and older. If I had a question, they were there. When I had my first kiss, I couldn't stop bugging them about it: "I kissed a boyyyy! I kissed a boyyyy!" When I had boy drama, my dad was the one who helped me reply to texts as he speaks boy-talk and can relate to what a teenage boy is thinking. Not so long ago, my mom and dad were horny teenagers themselves learning about relationships, love, and heartbreak. I've heard the stories!

And now, I write about sex. Neither of them questioned it and I'm so lucky to have that. When my parents speak of my work, my dad will make note that some pieces aren't for the lighthearted, but neither of them is ashamed. What is there to be embarrassed about? S.E.X. Sex. It's natural, most everyone has or will experience intimacy. Humans crave this attention and connection. I was taught how to enjoy the world and be safe. I could ask questions and never be judged.

I couldn't ask for anything more.

When I have kids of my own, they will grow up knowing what sex is. They will know how to protect themselves. Know how to say "no." Know who to come to when they need help. I don't want them going to others with the risk of being misinformed. I want to provide a safe environment and not have "The Talk" be so awkward.

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