I Asked 15 College Girls What Their Favorite Thing About A Guy Was

I Asked 15 College Girls What Their Favorite Thing About A Guy Was

When he leaves you alone and lets you have alone time, you've found a winner


I feel like everywhere I go, I'm always seeing, hearing, or reading about what guys like or want in a girl, while we never consider what a girl wants in a guy. Guys want a girl with big boobs, a big booty, and a stomach as flat as a pancake while having a very natural looking face. They want a girl like the ones they see on Barstool or someone like Kylie Jenner, aka, not every girl looks and acts like they do. I rallied some college girls to tell me what they liked best about guys, and every answer I got I can solidly agree with. It's time for the ladies to make a stand for what we want and like.

1. "Confidence" - Kim W.

Confidence in a guy is such a good look.

2. "When he leaves me alone" - Beth R

Sometimes we just need our quality time alone.

3. "Arms" - Colleen B

Nice muscular arms to wrap yourself in are a necessity of cuffing season.

4. "A good, outgoing personality" - Lauren L

If he can get along with anyone then he can get along with your crazy Aunt Karen.

5. "Facial hair" - Carlee W

Nothing crazy, just something chill that makes him look like a logger or something.

6. "A sense of humor" - Elley M

Make me laugh when all I want is to be mad at the world, but can't because you're making a funny face.

7. "Thighs" - Jeanna E

Thick thighs save lives baby, and we love to see it in those gray sweatpants.

8. "Nothing" - Sydnee R

I ship this.

9. "Ability to listen" - Grace B

Major key alert. Girls need someone who will listen to them, and not just interject their opinion because they believe what they think is the only right thing to think.

10. "Calves and if they smell good" - Madelyn H

Sculpted calves and the smell of Old Spice... I'll leave it at that.

11. "Good kisser" - Jess G

Don't overpower us with tongue, be artful, and don't bite our bottom lip off because you think it's hot because it's not.

12. "A nice package" - Briana G

We all love seeing what nice packages you have.

13. "Good taste in clothes" - Kara T

Don't dress like a bum because Kanye says it's cool.

14. "When he has his priorities straight" - Isabella J

Nothing is better than a guy who has his life together, because we don't have time to help you figure it out at this stage in the game.

15. "When he doesn't reply for a long time" - Sydnee R

Ladies love when we get ignored for hours! It's honestly such a turn on we look for in every guy.

Literally, so hot RN

Literally, so hot RN

To The Girl Before Me, Thank You For Shaping Him Into Who I Need Him To Be

You helped shape him into who he is today


I do not know who my future husband is and I do not know who you are, but I do know that you have an impact on his life. I do not know the details of your relationship nor do I want to. I'm not here to attack you but to simply say thank you.

No matter how it ended, I know that he will come out better and stronger once the healing is done. It is inevitable to heal the scar that you left behind, but I am more than willing to accept him for who he is and be the woman he needs in his life. I will love him in the ways that you could not.

I know that relationships are a struggle and nobody is easy to love. I know that we will have our struggles. We will fight over stupid things and disagree at times, but we will talk it out and work through it together. It is us against the problem, not us against each other.

Thank you for teaching him what he needs in a relationship, how to love and to accept the love given to him. Without you, he would not know the kind of love that he needs and deserves. Your relationship with him taught him what he truly needs. You taught him what kind of love is acceptable and what is not.

We are continually growing as humans to become better in every situation, and we will do that together. I will support him in every situation, for the things that you could not love and accept about him, I will love and accept with my whole heart.

For our relationship to work, it will take a lot of trust and communication. Will it be easy? Absolutely not, but it will be so worth it. Trusting someone with your heart is very difficult; you are giving them the power to break you, but I know that when the time is right, I can trust him with mine.

I'm sorry you were not the one for him, but thank you for help shaping him into the man he is and will continue to become. Whatever role you played in his life had some sort of impact and I thank you for that.

I know that my future husband will be my best friend and I cannot wait to live my life with him. Whether I have met him yet or not, I do not know. But once we are together, I know we will be unstoppable. I need a man to compliment my life, a man to have fun with, to laugh with, and to support me in my dreams in life.

I do not know why things didn't work out for you guys, but thank you for bringing him to me. Whatever you did, good or bad, thank you.

Thank you for bringing him to me and giving me my lifelong best friend, and to my future husband, I cannot wait to spend my life with you.

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To The Girl Who's Ready To Give Up On Love, Something Good WILL Come Your Way

When your time comes, you'll know.


Just recently, I came out of an extremely abusive and toxic relationship. There was a pattern in my love life of me getting myself in and out of toxic relationships repeatedly. I desperately tried to find something to blame this dreaded pattern on...I blamed myself, I blamed the environment I was in, I even blamed this generation's version of "dating," but there was only one thing that took the blame for all of my failed attempts at love and that was timing.

Trust me, I know you've heard it a million times, and I know you're probably rolling your eyes — if I was back in your position I know I would be to. But, what they say about timing is true, unfortunately. Coming out of my last relationship, I was ready to give up on the idea of love, on the idea of being genuinely happy with someone. But right when that last bit of hope was almost gone, it began again, love. This time was different, I knew it from the start, no one has ever made me feel the way that I do now. I've never had a relationship so loving, patient, loyal, and genuine. I could write for hours trying to explain the depth of love and feelings that I have for this person, but I know that no matter how much I write I won't be able to explain the love that we have.

There were nights that I prayed for a love like this. I begged God to let the next man that came into my life be the one, after every failed relationship. But, it just wasn't my time, and now just might not be yours either. But shutting out the idea of love completely because of fear that you'll never find the love you deserve will just make things harder. I know it seems impossible, but don't give up.

Your time will come.

I understand things are easier said than done, constantly being broken down by love. I understand the pain of believing that you did everything right but it still hurting and still failing. But I promise, that when it's your time, you will experience the love that you've been waiting, praying, fighting, and searching for. Your soul will be at peace, and you will be thankful that you didn't give up, and that you went through these experiences. Because without them, you wouldn't be able to truly appreciate the love you're being given.

When your time comes, you'll know. And when it comes, find peace in the comfort that it will bring. Don't be scared to fail, you'll be exactly where you need to be.

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