11 Thoughts You Have When 'That Guy' Slides Into Your DMs

11 Thoughts You Have When 'That Guy' Slides Into Your DMs

Please, just don't.

Ladies, we've all been there. You see "that name" pop up on your screen and you groan and/or roll your eyes before politely unlocking your phone and replying with something like, "Oh, hey, what's up?"

Here are 11 thoughts you have when 'that guy' slides into your DMs.

1. WHY ME, WHY?!?

There are like how many other females in the world, why'd you land on me? Huh? Tell me that.

2. OK, be nice, be nice.

OK, I can do this. One. Word. Sentences. (Or is that too harsh?)

3. Maybe if I smile it'll be easier to be nice

OK, maybe this "smile" just made things worse...

4. Should I text this to my best friend first to make sure it sounds OK?

I mean, if we're going for this whole nice theme, I have to make sure I do it right. What if that emoji I almost sent was going to be "too friendly."

5. OH NO, OH NO!

I guess that was "too friendly."

6. OK, regroup, regroup

There's gotta be some way to get him back in the friend zone, right?

7. Breathe. Breathe!

OK, breathe, think, analyze and get back out there to friend zone this guy!

8. OK, this sounds nice but not too nice, right?

This is definitely the right balance between nice and "I don't really want anything to do with you."

9. What's he going to say?

This anticipation may kill me...

10. Wait, he said what??

Oh, dear... it's worse than I thought.

11. UGHHH... repeat process

Well, maybe it'll work the second time around?

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Maintaining good vaginal health is critical for women of all ages. Not only can the state of your vagina impact your reproductive potential, but it can also make or break your natural defenses against infections. It's important to start young and to be informed when it comes to taking care of your reproductive organs.

That being said, here are ten of the most common myths about caring for your vagina and why they aren't accurate:

For more information about how you can ensure that your vagina stays healthy and clean, don't be afraid to do some researching of your own. Or consider contacting your physician or OB-GYN with any questions you're not sure how to ask. Although you might feel embarrassed, remember that at least one other woman (and definitely many more, really) has wondered about exactly what's on your mind once before.

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