6 Reasons Scorpios Are the Best 'Cute, But Psycho' Girlfriends

6 Reasons Scorpios Are the Best 'Cute, But Psycho' Girlfriends

Though the fiery traits of scorpios often make them misunderstood, scorpio women will make you crave them like a drug

Dr King
Dr King

It's officially the season of arguably the most disputed zodiac sign of all: the Scorpio.

Personally, I tend to have my reservations about how much people should look into astrology, but I will admit that every Scorpio I have met, including myself, tends to have the fixed qualities Scorpios are supposed to have. Also, every person I know who studies astrology seems to have the same experience of knowing Scorpios to be true to their conventional traits. Though the fiery traits of Scorpios often make them misunderstood, Scorpio women will make you crave them like a drug, and here's why.

1. They are some of the most passionate people you’ll ever meet

Scorpio women may be looked upon as "psychotic" but in reality, they're just very expressive. When they feel an emotion, they don't just feel it, but they endure it in its entirety. They feel it in their bones and it seeps through their blood. They don't accept passiveness or laziness from partners, because it's not in their nature to let mediocrity slide.

2. They are in touch with their sexuality

Each zodiac sign is believed to have a body part that rules over them. Scorpios are ruled by their reproductive system, sex organs, and bowels so this contributes to the sexual aura that flows from their body naturally. They embrace their sexual desires and they aren't afraid to communicate them. They are givers in bed, but they are certainly not afraid to take control of their own pleasure as well. They have a strong sex drive that lacks any inhibitions, so if you date a scorpio woman then trying new things sexually isn't something that just happens every once in a blue moon. It's standard. Also, sex for them isn't just about the act. They'll make sure it's a cosmic experience up to the point where the lovemaking becomes an addiction.

3. They protrude a certain ~je ne sais quoi~

This French term refers to someone who has a certain quality about them that cannot be explained. When referring to Scorpio women, you'll most likely discover that even when you think you know enough about them, you'll find out that you actually know nothing about them at all. They're enigmatic and have a way about them that makes you comfortable enough to tell them your deepest darkest secrets without knowing any of theirs. They know how to give you enough to make you interested, but conceal enough to leave you wanting more.

4. They are selective

Scorpio women aren't the type to fall in the hands of anyone who gives her attention. It may take up to months and maybe even years before she finds a new suitor who meets her standards. Just know for certain that if a Scorpio chooses you then it's not out of a fleeting act of desperation. If they choose you it's because they truly want you.

5. You’ll never get bored with them

Let's face it. Scorpios get a bad rep sometimes due to their intensity, vindictiveness, and obsessive mature. However, these qualities stem from their deep love for their mates. Not that this is an excuse for acting upon negative qualities, but at least with a Scorpio you'll never have a passive partner. They won't purposely start a fight, but they aren't afraid of confrontation

6. They are powerful and ambitious

Scorpios have tenacity like no other. Their strong-willed attitude allows them to push themselves and stop at nothing until they accomplish their wildest dreams. Having someone like this as a partner is a great thing because they won't just sit on the sidelines and take on the role of the typical house wife while their partner is the breadwinner. They want someone they can conquer the world with equally.

Dr King
Dr King

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To The Woman Who Needs To Be Wanted, Don’t Let Men Be Your Vice

It will only make you begin to despise yourself.
Cai Parks
Cai Parks

By definition, a vice is a habitual or trivial defect... a shortcoming. Everyone has a vice.

Mine was men.

I always felt abandoned by the men in my life. I always clung to the opinions and attention of the boys around me...fighting for it in any way I could.

When I was younger, it was easy to get the attention of the boys my age by just dressing cute and having a bubbly personality.

As I got older though, I noticed that I was having to work harder and harder for their attention. Eventually, it turned into me feeling like I had to give myself to them in any way they asked to get their attention.

So that’s what I did.

I used my body as a way to fill some kind of void that I thought could be filled with the love of a man.

As the years went on, I felt myself clinging to not their love, but their lust.

I no longer cared about their love.

I just wanted to hear them call me hot, sexy, or beautiful. I knew they were using me.

I didn’t care.

I needed them to want me.

I needed them to beg.

I needed to feel needed.

For any woman who might feel as though a man’s lust for you can fill that deep void in your heart, take a step back. Trivial, temporary things like that will only make your heart heavier.

It will only make you begin to despise yourself.

There’s nothing wrong with living life the way you want or with who you want, but don’t use that lifestyle simply as a way to make you feel wanted.

Because my Prince Charming came into my life and I no longer needed any other man.

I finally felt truly loved and he helped me to learn that even without him, I would be more than a body.

He helped me see that I was a body, face, brain, smile, laugh, personality, and everything in between.

I am a strong woman now that I know my worth.

You are a strong woman.

Show your strength.

Know your worth.

Cover Image Credit: @thersagrant/Instagram
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Everything You Should Know Before Dating A Fitness Instructor

Sex, weights, cheat meal dates.


As a fitness trainer, I know how much we love our job. How much we love the people we help and encourage. How much we never want to stop doing what we do. Yet, it's not all sunshine and rainbows. My boyfriend has to put up with some things that probably, kinda sorta are unconventional. But, he's living his dream (his words).

No matter what they teach, personal training, yoga, pilates, barre, HIIT, I could go on and on, but either way, they are passionate about the people they work with. This fire follows them throughout their life and will most definitely influence you.

1. Constant practicing

Don't be alarmed if you wake up to find her up and about practicing her routines for a class/client.

2. Gushing about a client who has been killing it 

No matter how much of a tough cookie we are, clients touch our hearts.

3. She's flexible

You. Are. Welcome. My best friends always introduce me to guys with, "She's really flexible ;)"

4. There's a routine, stick to it

We may be flexible, but don't come between her and her schedule. She is supported by her routine.

5. You are now a fitness class guinea pig

She needs you to help her rehearse. Approach her practice tests with enthusiasm and just have fun.

6. She'll never judge you

Don't ever feel pressured or intimidated. We love you for you. And, news flash, we are not perfect.

7. Always learning

Learning never ends. Learning new routines, learning new people, learning new emotions, learning new approaches to life.

8. And always eating

Teaching a few classes a day is tough on the body. We need our snacks. All. The. Time.

9. Stretches before bed... every night

No matter how tiring and long the day was, she will make sure to fit it a quick bend and no break.

10. The funny things that happened during class

Story time: One time I taught and my pants ripped. Only made the class more fun!

11. Shaker bottle vases

There's no need for vases, when shaker bottles do you justice. The first time my boyfriend brought home roses, I didn't have a vase so we improvised and used a shaker bottle. Now, that's the only vase we will ever need.

12. Free personal training

It's your dream come true. Fitness is at your right hand at all times. Plus, we will be pumped to start talking to you about our passion.

13. She talks endlessly about how well/not well your class went

Sometimes we kill it and sometimes... we fall a little short.

14.  Chugging water

We need to stay hydrated! Plus, she'll be your water tracker as she bugs you to drink with her. Shots! Shots! Shots (of water)!

15. Team work makes the dream work

There is no "I" in team and fitness instructors know the strength of collaboration and support. No one can go through journey a journey alone.

16. She wakes you up early to go on a run

Let's take a jog to the beach and watch the sunrise!

17. Protein, protein, and more protein

She doesn't have to be a weight lifter to assure that she nourishes her body with enough protein (from any source you prefer). My cupboard is always stocked with lentils and chickpeas.

18. Watching her watch fitness videos to get ideas

While you're reading the news, scrolling through Instagram, or just chilling out, she'll be watching workout videos or saving posts from fitness accounts.

19. Goes to bed super early

We need at least eight hours of beauty sleep and, let's be real, we are grandpas.

20.  She lives off of Spotify playlists

Wait, do you hear that song? What's it called, I need to add it to my workout playlist. Plus, she loves to sing (even if she isn't that good).

21.  Pulse 2, 3, 4

While she does chores, she'll start reciting her catchphrases and mantras.

22.  She's your forever cheerleader

Getting out of bed? If you don't squeeze it, no one else will! Washing the dishes? Let's go, you've got this! Running to the bathroom? One more minute! 30 more seconds! Mowing the lawn? You better feel it tomorrow!

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