Your Virginity Doesn't Make You Better Than Everyone Else
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Sorry Virgins, But Never Having Sex Before Has Nothing To Do With Being A Good Person

You are not a saint, being a virgin doesn't make you any prettier, smarter, or godly. You're just stuck up and annoying.

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Sorry Virgins, But Never Having Sex Before Has Nothing To Do With Being A Good Person

Everyone approaches the concept of sex differently.

Some of us get the talk when we're 13 and wondering what's going on inside and outside of us, while others basically teach themselves what their parents neglected to tell them. Regardless, sex was still something we were all "supposed" to avoid until marriage. Save yourself for someone who really loves and respects you! Save yourself because whatever God you believe in taught you to your whole adolescent life!

The point is, we aren't supposed to put out to the guy who tells us we're pretty, but instead to the guy who calls us gorgeous.

Obviously, not all of us commit to the vow to remain pure until we're married, and those who don't shouldn't be judged for it. I don't think we should be judging each other for losing our virginity to some random frat bro from Tinder that you'll never talk to again. You go girl, you were probably really happy at the moment, and that is what matters.

Still a virgin? Good, stay that way if it's what you want, but stop being such a judgemental person towards those who have already lost theirs.

You are no better than me, or Stacy, or Brandy because you're still a virgin. Don't brag about your other sexual conquests, but then talk about what a pure angel you are two seconds after because you haven't had your cherry popped. One, it's gross and unnecessary to talk about the bedside things you do, and two, you're not as innocent as you claim to be, clearly. Babies and puppies are innocent, not you, little 20-something virgin.

We don't all share the same views, and just because you believe one thing doesn't mean everyone else should too.

You are not a saint, being a virgin doesn't make you any prettier, smarter, or godly. You're just stuck up and annoying.

Knock it down a few pegs. I'm happy you're sticking to your guns because it's not the easiest thing to do, especially on a college campus surrounded by the opposite sex. I think it's fine to lose your virginity before marriage, especially when it's with someone who you know cares about you, it doesn't have to be true love. It could turn into love depending on the situation like if you catch feels faster than the common cold, which is something that happens to a good amount of us college students.

Knowing you lost your v-card to a guy who genuinely cares for you at that moment, is a feeling every girl deserves to have. Maybe things went south after, or maybe you two just drifted apart. Either way, that's a memory you can tell your daughter about when you finally give her the talk. Everyone has a different story, but don't make it seem ok that you're judgmental viewpoints are in any way something to be proud of. Your virginity pedestal isn't a thing. Don't judge people having an active sex life because I know for a fact that those very people are too busy getting some to judge you for being a nun.

I'm not judging, but I will if I continue to hear of virgins who act like they are a gift to the morality of humanity. We are all allowed to think as we do, but when you cross the line of letting your opinions fly out one too many times, you'll lose people willing to be around you. My greatest piece of advice is to cool it with your pretentious attitude.

Put those negative vibes to bed, please.

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