Sorry Virgins, But Never Having Sex Before Has Nothing To Do With Being A Good Person

Sorry Virgins, But Never Having Sex Before Has Nothing To Do With Being A Good Person

You are not a saint, being a virgin doesn't make you any prettier, smarter, or godly. You're just stuck up and annoying.

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Everyone approaches the concept of sex differently.

Some of us get the talk when we're 13 and wondering what's going on inside and outside of us, while others basically teach themselves what their parents neglected to tell them. Regardless, sex was still something we were all "supposed" to avoid until marriage. Save yourself for someone who really loves and respects you! Save yourself because whatever God you believe in taught you to your whole adolescent life!

The point is, we aren't supposed to put out to the guy who tells us we're pretty, but instead to the guy who calls us gorgeous.

Obviously, not all of us commit to the vow to remain pure until we're married, and those who don't shouldn't be judged for it. I don't think we should be judging each other for losing our virginity to some random frat bro from Tinder that you'll never talk to again. You go girl, you were probably really happy at the moment, and that is what matters.

Still a virgin? Good, stay that way if it's what you want, but stop being such a judgemental person towards those who have already lost theirs.

You are no better than me, or Stacy, or Brandy because you're still a virgin. Don't brag about your other sexual conquests, but then talk about what a pure angel you are two seconds after because you haven't had your cherry popped. One, it's gross and unnecessary to talk about the bedside things you do, and two, you're not as innocent as you claim to be, clearly. Babies and puppies are innocent, not you, little 20-something virgin.

We don't all share the same views, and just because you believe one thing doesn't mean everyone else should too.

You are not a saint, being a virgin doesn't make you any prettier, smarter, or godly. You're just stuck up and annoying.

Knock it down a few pegs. I'm happy you're sticking to your guns because it's not the easiest thing to do, especially on a college campus surrounded by the opposite sex. I think it's fine to lose your virginity before marriage, especially when it's with someone who you know cares about you, it doesn't have to be true love. It could turn into love depending on the situation like if you catch feels faster than the common cold, which is something that happens to a good amount of us college students.

Knowing you lost your v-card to a guy who genuinely cares for you at that moment, is a feeling every girl deserves to have. Maybe things went south after, or maybe you two just drifted apart. Either way, that's a memory you can tell your daughter about when you finally give her the talk. Everyone has a different story, but don't make it seem ok that you're judgmental viewpoints are in any way something to be proud of. Your virginity pedestal isn't a thing. Don't judge people having an active sex life because I know for a fact that those very people are too busy getting some to judge you for being a nun.

I'm not judging, but I will if I continue to hear of virgins who act like they are a gift to the morality of humanity. We are all allowed to think as we do, but when you cross the line of letting your opinions fly out one too many times, you'll lose people willing to be around you. My greatest piece of advice is to cool it with your pretentious attitude.

Put those negative vibes to bed, please.

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Hickeys Are Killing Teens, Young Love Isn't As Innocent As You Think

Hickeys might just be the next cause of your death.

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An article by Mirror has revealed that a teen by the name of, Julio Macias Gonzalez, died because of a stroke caused by a bite mark left by his girlfriend.

The teen was spending time with his family eating dinner, after meeting with his girlfriend, when he started having convulsions and died of a stroke.

Hickeys, or bruises on the skin, as defined by Merriam-Webster, are usually caused by harsh sucking that burst small blood vessels.

These bruises usually last about 5- 12 days as stated through recent publishing by 54 Health.

The article also claims that the amount of time can also vary depending upon your own state of health & the amount of destruction the hickey caused.

"Some hickeys are more severe than others and take a longer time to heal," says 54 Health.

But, sometimes, there can be no room left for healing as some of these bruises can be extremely severe.

These hickeys on your skin can quickly turn into your next nightmare if it completely destroys your blood vessel wall.

In an interview given to Cosmopolitan's Relationship Editor, Julia Pugachevsky, Dr. Jessica O'Reilly said, "According to research, it is possible for hickeys to be dangerous if the pressure is applied over the carotid arteries."

"Too much pressure could injure the blood vessel wall and lead to a smaller clot that could clog an artery and cause a stroke," says Dr. O'Reilly.

Other experts, such as Dr. Teddy Wu, have made it clear that these strokes may not only result in your death but can also cause paralysis.

Even though the result of paralysis or death from receiving a hickey are of low-risk, consider the next time that you give your lover a mark or bruise on their skin - you might just end up being known as a "murderer," among their family & friends.

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My Parents Always Talked About Sex Openly With Me, And I'm So Grateful For Their Candor

And now, I write about sex.

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My mom and dad talk about sex. They never hid it from me and never freaked out when I came home with sex ed diagrams of female and male genitalia. Instead, my dad quizzed me on the fill-in-the-blank diagrams because I was determined to get an A (as I am with any other test).

I was never uncomfortable bringing this material to my parents to laugh at and discuss. I'm grateful that they weren't mortified either.

My parents are my best friends and it's always been this way. I share everything with them, including boys and all that fun stuff. This is how my older brother and I were raised—we can tell our parents anything, they will always be there. I am a mature, independent young woman who can make her own choices. I am not my parents' puppet to control. They are here to guide me so that I can handle all parts of life.

Sex is just another part of life's journey and they get it.

I never had the sex talk with my parents. Life just flowed naturally and I was always open with them. I will always be their baby girl, but I'm getting older and older. If I had a question, they were there. When I had my first kiss, I couldn't stop bugging them about it: "I kissed a boyyyy! I kissed a boyyyy!" When I had boy drama, my dad was the one who helped me reply to texts as he speaks boy-talk and can relate to what a teenage boy is thinking. Not so long ago, my mom and dad were horny teenagers themselves learning about relationships, love, and heartbreak. I've heard the stories!

And now, I write about sex. Neither of them questioned it and I'm so lucky to have that. When my parents speak of my work, my dad will make note that some pieces aren't for the lighthearted, but neither of them is ashamed. What is there to be embarrassed about? S.E.X. Sex. It's natural, most everyone has or will experience intimacy. Humans crave this attention and connection. I was taught how to enjoy the world and be safe. I could ask questions and never be judged.

I couldn't ask for anything more.

When I have kids of my own, they will grow up knowing what sex is. They will know how to protect themselves. Know how to say "no." Know who to come to when they need help. I don't want them going to others with the risk of being misinformed. I want to provide a safe environment and not have "The Talk" be so awkward.

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