20 College Guys Reveal The Worst Thing They've Ever Done To A Girl
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College is full of stress and mistakes. Everybody who is anybody has done something they regret. We're human. We all make mistakes whether we feel sorry about them or not, especially in college when many of us are really finding out who we are.

It can also be a rough time for anybody involved in a love life. Whether it's a long distance relationship or not having time for each other due to work or class. Man or woman, we've all broken some hearts here and there.

I went and asked 20 college-aged guys the worst thing they've ever done to a girl even if they regret it or not and here are their answers.

1. I cheated

"I cheated on her. That's all."

2. Tried to make her happy

"I tried to make her happy, but everything always ended up being my fault."

3. I led her on

"Probably the time that I led someone on into thinking we could have become something, then only to tell her that I simply don't date people. I felt like I was less manipulative and hurting her mentally by doing that."

4. Being her best friend

"I was her best friend for years without telling her how I really feel."

5. Over the phone

"I dumped her over the phone."

6. Fake number

"I gave out a fake number to a girl."

7. I was talking to her friend

"I was dating a girl for six months and was talking to one of her good friend's for three months out of the six. I ended up breaking up with my girlfriend for her friend. We're still together after a year."

8. Took the cheater

"My girlfriend at the time cheated on me so we broke up for a while. I was talking to this new girl who was amazing, but my cheater of an ex crawled back to me and I dropped the other girl and didn't respond to any of her messages. She ended up cheating on me again."

9. I used her

"I used this girl to get to her hot friend. Her hot friend then used me."

10. I played her

"There is no way to sugar coat this, but I led this girl on for almost a year. I would keep her interested by acting interested in her, but I was doing things with other girls and I knew she wasn't doing anything with other guys. I ended up just not texting her back one day."

11. I controlled my long term girlfriend

"I was in a relationship for two and a half years and my girlfriend would kiss my ass. I would make her do things that no guy should ever make a girl do like clean my room and my shoes. There was a lot more but after she broke up with me, I realized how horrible I treated her and wish I could take it all back."

12. I took a different girl to formal

"I had a fraternity formal and my girlfriend at the time was out of town, so I asked a different girl. My girlfriend didn't like that idea."

13. I was cheating

"I was in love with this girl for as long as I could remember and we finally started dating my freshman year of college. About a month passed and I met this girl in my chemistry class and I started to talk to her. She and I hit it off and I was cheating on my girlfriend for a solid ten months before I called it quits and broke up with her because she didn't deserve it. I still feel like trash from doing that."

14. I said I was a virgin

"I told this girl I was a virgin when she was the tenth girl I slept with."

15. I told her to leave college

"My girlfriend of two years went to a different college than me. We were about four hours apart. I let my own insecurities get to me and demanded that she went to school where I went or it was over. I don't know why I did that, but she ended up doing so and I basically ruined her dream school experience for her."

16. I was still in love with my ex

"I started dating this new girl to make my ex jealous. I didn't even like the girl at all."

17. I took her virginity

"Back in my sophomore year of college, I took this girl's virginity and never talked to her again. I didn't want to catch feelings."

18. I completely embarrassed this girl

"My friends and I were downtown at a bar for my friend's birthday and this girl came up to me and started to chat with me. I was being nice and talking with her throughout the night. As the night went on, it got late and I wanted to leave. The girl who was talking to me all night came up to my friends and I and asked for my number. I looked at her and said, 'no, I'm good.' and she walked away with a red face."

19. My ex came over

"My girlfriend and I were living together for a couple of months in our new college apartment. One day when she was in class, my ex came over and we ended up doing things in my bed. My girlfriend got let out of class early and caught us."

20. I showed her nudes

"This girl sent me nudes and I showed all my guy friends. I ended up sending the girl's nude to one of my friends and it got leaked to her. She never spoke to me again."

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When You Feel Like Nobody Ever Likes You Back

Please don't let it break you.

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It appears that I reached many people when I described how it felt to be single for 18 years (and update: it's almost 20 years now), but perhaps I can reach even more people when I explain the feeling when it seems like nobody *ever* likes you back. It's tough and it sucks. Maybe people feel this way about you. Or maybe you're in the exact same position that I am. Whatever end you're on, I'd imagine that you could relate or understand in some sort of way.

It's always fun to like someone new. We all love to fantasize about this new person, tell our friends (or enjoy the sneaky satisfaction of remaining cryptic about it), give him the Instagram follow (but you can't be the first to like his pictures so you wait to be the 23rd), get his phone number (and try *extra* hard not to text it too often), and gaze at a fresh face in class or at our activities.

We get that rush of happiness when he likes our Instagram pictures or when he answers our texts or when he views our Snapchat story or when he makes any type of effort to speak to us.

It's all fun and games. Until reality creeps in and so do our doubts and realizations that he probably doesn't like us back.

And I understand that feeling. We get left on open or read with no follow-up and freeze in our tracks. We see him flirting with someone else and our stomachs churn. And, worst of all, we find out he is in a relationship with someone else and we can feel our hearts physically sink. We begin doubting and hating ourselves and questioning our own intrinsic worth.

In the prolonged time I've been single, I've felt these feelings over and over and over again. And sometimes people can undermine the pain because it isn't a real break-up from an established boyfriend. But we still feel the breaking of our hearts and like our feelings are valid.

It's safe to say I've had to take many Ls in the relationship department, and I continue to take Ls, so I can (probably) relate to what you're feeling.

I've been explicitly told, "I don't like you back." I've tried to break down the touch barrier, but it would build itself back up stronger than ever. I've felt led on only to discover that the person was seeing someone else all along. Even today as a (nearly) 20-year-old, my doubts set in, my flirting efforts are either too strong or not strong enough, and I receive telltale signs that my fantasies will stay fantasies.

And you probably have been in similar situations or perhaps taken different Ls. And you feel ugly. And you feel unlovable. And it sucks.

But you're not. Please don't let it break you.

If you wouldn't place your self-esteem in the hands of the stranger at the bus stop, you shouldn't place your self-esteem in the hands of any one guy. Both the stranger and your love interest are individuals and don't deserve that kind of power. Some situations are not meant to be and that doesn't make you any less beautiful or amazing of a person. Everybody will only have one truly happy ending regardless of who they are. So muster up the strength to move on, and realize that perhaps the happiest endings require the most loss and heartbreak to get there.

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14 Song Lyrics That Say 'I Miss You' Just As Good As Blink 182

Because sometimes you want to say more than just "I miss you."

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Music can speak incredible volumes that regular words can't reach. I use music all the time to describe how I'm feeling or what I'm going through. I use it most in my relationships, especially with my boyfriend. As a musician, him and I are always finding songs that describe how we feel for each other and the emotions we experience.

Saying "I miss you", sometimes can feel, almost dissipated. But song lyrics can *really* tell someone how much you actually miss them. These are 11 song lyrics that are perfect to tell that special someone you miss them.

1. "Wish You Were Here" by Avril Lavigne

"You're always there, you're everywhere
But right now I wish you were here"

2. "Far Away" by Nickleback

"That I love you I have loved you all along and I miss you
Been far away for far too long"

3. "Hey There, Delilah" by Plain White T's

"Hey there, Delilah
Don't you worry about the distance
I'm right there if you get lonely
Give this song another listen
Close your eyes
Listen to my voice, it's my disguise
I'm by your side"





4. "I Don't Wanna Miss A Thing" by Aerosmith

"Don't want to close my eyes
I don't want to fall asleep
'Cause I'd miss you, babe
And I don't want to miss a thing"


5. "Home" by Michael Buble or Blake Shelton

"Maybe surrounded by
A million people I
Still feel all alone
I just want to go home
Oh I miss you, you know"



6. "Faithfully" by Journey

"Two strangers learn
To fall in love again
I get the joy
Of rediscovering you
Oh girl, you stand by me
I'm forever yours
Faithfully"





7. "Need You Now" by Lady Antebellum

"It's a quarter after one, I'm all alone and I need you now
Said I wouldn't call but I lost all control and I need you now
And I don't know how I can do without, I just need you now"

8. "Making Memories Of Us" by Keith Urban

"I'm gonna be here for you from now on
This you know somehow
You've been stretched to the limits but it's alright now
And I'm gonna make you a promise
If there's life after this
I'm gonna be there to meet you with a warm, wet kiss"




9. "I'm Already There" by Lonestar

"Wish I was in your arms
Lying right there beside you
But I know that I'll be in your dreams tonight"

10. "Talking to the Moon" by Bruno Mars

"At night when the stars
Light up my room
I sit by myself
Talking to the moon
Tryin' to get to you
In hopes you're on
The other side
Talking to me too"






11. "All I Want" by Kodaline

"All I want is nothing more
To hear you knocking at my door
'Cause if I could see your face once more
I could die as a happy man I'm sure"


12.  "The Few Things" by JP Saxe

"You're one of the few things that I'm sure of
You're one of the few things that I know already
I could build my world of
One of the few things that I'm sure of"


13. "Kiss Me Thru The Phone" by Soulja Boy

"And that's the issue, girl you know I miss you
I just wanna kiss you
But I can't right now
So baby kiss me thru the phone (kiss me thru the phone)"


14.  "Falling for You" by The 1975

"I'll take it one day at a time
Soon you will be mine, oh, but I want you now (I want you now)
When the smoke is in your eyes, you look so alive
Do you fancy sitting down with me maybe
'Cause you're all I need"




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