20 Girls Confess The Worst Things They Found When Snooping Through Their Boyfriends' Phones

Cell phones in today's era are something we can't live without. Most of us do a lot of communicating through electronics, like computers, tablets and of course our phones. There's texting, Snapchat, Twitter and so many more apps that we can interact on... especially with your significant other. But for some people, inside their cell phone isn't always rainbows and unicorns... or trust.

I had 20 girls confess the worst things they found when looking through their boyfriend's phone and here are the answers:

1. Dating app

"My boyfriend and I met on the dating app 'MeetMe' 3.5 years ago. About a month into our relationship, I saw on his phone that he still had it downloaded and called him out on it. He deleted it right away, but I always thought it was weird that it was still on there."

2. Caught red handed

"A couple weeks ago, my boyfriend opened up his Safari to show me something, and he had PornHub open. He closed it before I could see it but claimed it was just a 'joke video' that his friend sent him."

3. No worries

"Selfies of the one girl he told me not to worry about and he sent them back to her saying, 'cutie, hottie, adorable!'"

4. Not over their ex?

"Nudes from his ex girlfriend still on his phone."

5. Come on...

"I found my boyfriend texting different girls on multiple occasions, one time begging a girl to come over and another time talking to a different girl about how he wants to put his hands all over her this weekend."

6. Join me in bed

"I found a girl snapchatting my boyfriend nudes and my boyfriend asking another girl if he could join her in bed."

7. Side chick

"I was texting my ex's mom while he was driving. Another text came through from some girl so naturally, I said something about it to him and asked if he wanted me to respond. He got all awkward and kept saying I didn't need to respond. Due to his weird mood change, I took a peak at what this girl said. She said she was excited to see him tonight for their 1 year anniversary dinner... I soon realized I was the side chick."

8. Uh...

"A video of his ex girlfriend giving him head."

9. Very direct messages

"DM's from other girls on Instagram."

10. The dreaded secret folder

"A folder of naked snaps he received from previous girls."

11. BFF and BF?

"My best friend's nudes."

12. Uh oh

"Pictures of his ex."

13. The truth

"Nothing because I trust the people I'm dating and don't date douche bags."

15. The truth x2

"I don't snoop through peoples phone's because I respect people's privacy."

16. Guy friend... or girl friend?

"Selfies of him and his friend naked."

17. Two years?!

"He's been selling weed for two years and never told me."

18. On his Tinder...

"On his Tinder he was talking to GUYS. GUYS!"

19. ???

"An article titled 'Top 10 Reasons You Might Be Gay.'"

20. Old messages

"Old sexting messages... but they were when him and I were getting to know each other, so I can't really be mad."

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An Open Letter To The Girl In A Toxic Relationship Who Doesn't See The Signs To Let Go

"it took letting go to realize that I was holding onto nothing" -R.H Sin


Dear you,

I hope you're doing well. I once thought I was too. I once thought that if he would just change, for me, everything would work. However, my sweet girl, you should not have to change people, you should not have to push people to be better, for you. You cannot help anyone, that does not want to help themselves.

In the movies, we learn to love a bad boy that needs changing. However, it isn't always your job to be boys saving grace. However, his shaming and emotional abuse is not just something you should put up with so that you can love him. That is not loving.

Love is not a constant competition of who could belittle the other one first. Love is not asking for a hug and being told no. Love does not make you feel stupid for bringing up things that hurt your feelings.

Love does not grow angry because you talk to your mom about your feelings. Love does not body shame. Love does not constantly change the passcode to their phone.

Love does not laugh when you find out they're unfaithful. Love does not tell you that you are not smart enough to accomplish anything. Love does not force their hand up your thigh when the words "no" slip out of your mouth.

Love is the warmth of a hand on your cheek when you get anxious. Love is getting your backpack out the car for you. Love is turning around when you need them. Love compromises.

Love is encouraging. Love is proud. Love is forgiving. Love sees you for who you are. Love knows you are worthy.

God is your Father and you are His daughter, so do not believe for one second that this abuse is the love you think you deserve.

Love will not always be easy. Love will be challenging and a constant prayer to not anger so quickly.

However, do not mix up challenging with the abuse. If you are losing the good pieces of yourself, then it isn't love. I know that you put a lot of time and effort into this relationship, but it is no good, you are holding on to someone whose heart is not in the right place to love you.

I connected with a poem from R. H. Sin, once I left my toxic relationship which reads, "it took letting go to realize that I was holding onto nothing."

Darling girl, you are so loved by so many people, do not let this relationship hold you back or make you feel less worthy than you are. I have always been the girl with her nose stuck up in the air smelling for smoke, to follow the trail to a burning house to find a boy that needed saving, but it is more than likely a boy that lit the fire in the first place and needs changing.

So, do not be me, be better. Be the girl that lights her own world on fire, for her work, for her family, for God. You are you and you are amazing, so do not fear being without him.

You will feel as if you have come up for air after drowning in an ocean that you had no idea you were swimming in.

The emotional abuse that this boy has put you through and maybe even physical abuse will leave you building walls around your heart. It will make other relationships hard, but you are so so strong.

You will meet someone that makes you so happy and feel so easy to love, you will never understand how you stuck around with the one that hurt you for so long.

You deserve to grow from this, and I promise you will.

Let go.


The girl who learned from a toxic relationship

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Being Far Away From My Boyfriend Actually Strengthened Our Relationship Instead Of Forcing It Apart

While we were apart, we became closer.


Before I really start this article, I just want to say that my relationship isn't truly a long distance relationship. We are both college students at the same university eight months out of the year, but the other four months we live quite a distance apart. Even during those four months, we are only about 150 miles from each other as the bird flies, but really about three hours from each other.

Being in a relationship where I'm not able to see my boyfriend every day or even every week has been a real challenge. But it's been a good challenge. It hasn't been a challenge because I've felt unfaithful or fallen out of love with him in any way. It's challenging because I miss him. We both work jobs and our schedules aren't the same and oftentimes we aren't able to talk to each other unless it's early in the morning or late at night. There are times when all I want to do is talk to him and tell him about how my day went and get a big bear hug from him. Unfortunately, I'm not really able to do this.

I firmly believe that being apart from each other for days, weeks, or even months have brought us closer than we could've ever imagined. We knew that this would be difficult, and we knew that there would be bad days, but we decided to power through it. It has made each time that we are able to see each other so much more special and meaningful.

Seeing each other has become more of spending time with each other than just laying around on the couch playing around on our phones. It's become really getting to know each other better and catching up on all the things we had missed. It's become a time for us to simply be in each other's presence and enjoy being able to talk face to face without a phone in the middle of us. We go on more adventurous dates, we take more pictures, and I think we would both easily say that we fall more and more in love with each other after each opportunity we have to spend time together.

Spending time together is no longer a daily activity, but it has become a right to be earned through hard work and several paychecks as travel can become expensive. We no longer take opportunities to see each other for granted, and it has made us grow closer because we aren't able to spend time together often. We look forward to the days when we won't have to worry about being apart but know that this is only a stepping stone in our relationship.

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