7 Reasons You Should 100% Date The Girl Who Goes To The Bar Alone

7 Reasons You Should 100% Date The Girl Who Goes To The Bar Alone

Life certainly won't be boring with this girl.

Have you ever seen that girl alone at a bar and wondered what her deal was? It may seem odd for this girl to be on her own at a bar. Trust me- this girl is more interesting and worth your time. I'm not talking about a girl who completely isolates herself from people- that's just not healthy. Don't discount the girl who goes to the bar alone. She might be everything you never knew you needed. She may be a breath of fresh air that revitalizes you. There are some solid reasons to date the girl who goes to the bar alone.

1. She doesn't need you

Hermione Granger

Of course, it's nice to feel needed. She will depend on you and lean on you, but she won't rely on you just to exist.

2. She can make her own decisions

Leslie Knope

She doesn't need anybody telling her what her drink order should be. She knows what she wants and isn't afraid to ask for it. She can think for herself. You want a girl who can hold her own.

3. She knows who she is

This girl knows where her priorities and values are. If someone can't tell you what they value and believe, are they even worth dating?

4. She's got confidence

Michelle ObamaShe is confident enough to spend time with herself and go about her life. Dating requires confidence.

5. She doesn't care what people think about her

Allison Janney

Life is too short for her to care about what anybody thinks of her. She can be focused on improving herself based on her own self-reflection.

6. She is a deep thinker and imaginative

Alice in Wonderland

Spending time with yourself involves getting lost in thought. This girl can think deeply and reflect on where's she's at emotionally and mentally. If you date her, you want her to be able to communicate that.

7. She wants to experience life and she's not going to wait around to do it

Brook Davis

She takes initiative and sets her own agenda and experiences. You want a girl who is excited about life and has all kinds of ideas and dreams. Life certainly won't be boring with this girl.

Next time you see a girl alone at a bar, don't be afraid to get to know her better.

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10 Signs The Guy You're Texting During Sylly Week Will Be Your Boyfriend By Finals Week

Trust me hunny, if he is actually interested, you can tell.


We've all had that guy in our message thread that we have a crush on but can't tell if he does too. It's a little nerve wrecking because us girls don't want to say to much and make him flee. It's a give and take kind of game that can be fun or stressful. When texting a guy, it's always a gamble.

Here are 10 signs that will tell you if he actually likes you:

1. He texts YOU first 

This is super, super telling. If he really likes you, he will want to initiate conversation. Plus, this means he is thinking about you.

2. He sends long, thought out messages 

Typically, guys aren't the biggest texters. They usually send short and to the point messages, but if he is sending you long and carefully constructed texts, you are heading in the right direction.

3. He texts you when he wakes up 

Everybody knows this is of extreme importance. There are so many things a guy thinks about when he first wakes up so if you receive that message it means you were one of the first things that came to his mind.

4. When you don't text back right away he asks what you were doing 

The longer you take, he either wont think anything of it or he will think nonstop why you're not responding. So, If he asks what you were doing you know he's interested.

5. He makes it a point to text throughout the day 

Guys typically hate texting and don't do it often. So if he texts you all day long you are important in his daily life.

6. Compliments, compliments, compliments 

Compliments tell it all! If he constantly is genuinely complimenting you he is 100% interested.

7. He is always asking you questions about yourself 

If he does this he wants to get to know you better, which is a very good sign.

8. He tries to make you laugh

Making a significant other laugh is normally incredibly important. So if he is always trying to make you laugh and it's successful, you are on the right track.

9. He lets you know what y'all would be doing if he was with you 

This means he is thinking and fantasizing about you and imagining what it would be like to be with you—the best sign you could receive.

10. He texts you when he is drunk 

Listen up girls, if he is texting you and he is blackout drunk then this is tell tale sign. Guys can rarely even remember their name when they are drunk let alone text. So, if this happens you are definitely on his mind.

There are always signs to let you know if a guy really likes you. Here are just a couple to give a little insider, but if he does these then girl you've got nothing to worry about. Go get him, girl.

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10 Reactions You Have When Your Ex-Boyfriend Has A BABY, As Told By Michael Gary Scott

"Oh, my God! OK, it's happening!"


I don't know if I'm still too young or already old enough for my ex-lovers to start having children but either way, I'm freaking out.

Whether it's my ex or my friends, I am in utter shock because it's a reminder that I am not getting any younger. I'm stepping into a realm that I've never traverse before, and in all honesty, I don't think I'm ready.

There's nothing wrong about them having a child, settling down, and doing their thing but how the hell did time fly so fast? It's just that I can barely make my bed every day, let alone change a miniature human's diaper.

These were my reactions while stalking my ex on Instagram, as told by Michael Scott:

1. When you first hear the news 

2. "Wait how old were we?" 

3. "How old am I?" 

4. "No I'm not THAT old... am I?" 

5. "Can someone please tell me how and when did this happen?" 

6. "OMG, it's so small and chubbers" 

7. Two words—baby fever 

8. Then you remind yourself that you can't even take care of yourself 

9. Miss emotions about the whole ordeal 

10. You're actually really happy for them 

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