7 Reasons You Should 100% Date The Girl Who Goes To The Bar Alone

7 Reasons You Should 100% Date The Girl Who Goes To The Bar Alone

Life certainly won't be boring with this girl.

Have you ever seen that girl alone at a bar and wondered what her deal was? It may seem odd for this girl to be on her own at a bar. Trust me- this girl is more interesting and worth your time. I'm not talking about a girl who completely isolates herself from people- that's just not healthy. Don't discount the girl who goes to the bar alone. She might be everything you never knew you needed. She may be a breath of fresh air that revitalizes you. There are some solid reasons to date the girl who goes to the bar alone.

1. She doesn't need you

Hermione Granger

Of course, it's nice to feel needed. She will depend on you and lean on you, but she won't rely on you just to exist.

2. She can make her own decisions

Leslie Knope

She doesn't need anybody telling her what her drink order should be. She knows what she wants and isn't afraid to ask for it. She can think for herself. You want a girl who can hold her own.

3. She knows who she is

This girl knows where her priorities and values are. If someone can't tell you what they value and believe, are they even worth dating?

4. She's got confidence

Michelle ObamaShe is confident enough to spend time with herself and go about her life. Dating requires confidence.

5. She doesn't care what people think about her

Allison Janney

Life is too short for her to care about what anybody thinks of her. She can be focused on improving herself based on her own self-reflection.

6. She is a deep thinker and imaginative

Alice in Wonderland

Spending time with yourself involves getting lost in thought. This girl can think deeply and reflect on where's she's at emotionally and mentally. If you date her, you want her to be able to communicate that.

7. She wants to experience life and she's not going to wait around to do it

Brook Davis

She takes initiative and sets her own agenda and experiences. You want a girl who is excited about life and has all kinds of ideas and dreams. Life certainly won't be boring with this girl.

Next time you see a girl alone at a bar, don't be afraid to get to know her better.

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If You Go Into Summer 2019 Only Wanting A Summer Fling, You're Only Going To Be Disappointed

They may be fun but sometimes come with consequences.


We've all been through the summer flings. Summer is THE season where you have no commitment and are as free as can be with no care in the world. I've been on both ends of summer flings, from having one and cutting things off when summer ended and having one and gaining feelings for the other person... I've actually been dating my summer fling from 2017 for almost a year and a half now which was totally unexpected.

Back in Summer 2017, I was newly single and wasn't intentionally looking for a relationship since I just got out of one. I had a couple of small flings in the beginning, nothing serious at all. Until I met a boy in July from social media. We started talking and hit it off. We had a lot in common and enjoyed a lot of the same things. After a few weeks of talking, some flirting and a couple of dates... we had a fling going on. We weren't committed or anything, but we were both interested in each other. Long story short, I ended up really liking this guy and I could feel our fling diminishing, so I guess you could say I played some hard to get and "won" him over for good. It took a lot and I could definitely say it wasn't a care-free summer since I was trying to get him to make it official with me but now, here we are as boyfriend and girlfriend still to this day.

From my experiences and from friends experiences, summer flings almost always end with someone falling for you or you falling for them. And if you're really not looking for a relationship after summer, it can be quite hassle ending things for good due to feelings. Summer flings can also take time away from your family and friends. Everyone knows spending summer with someone you're interested in is fun, although it most likely won't be permanent, so why waste your time on them when you could be making those summer memories with your friends who will be there always?

A lot of the times, summer flings just involve hooking up and casual dates... nothing too serious. They don't involve "relationship" type feelings. But when you start to gain attachment to that person, sometimes they won't care like you do since summer flings are meant to be temporary. Of course, the person you have a fling with is someone you're into or at least think is good looking and when you find out you're not their only summer fling, jealousy can hit. Like stated above, summer is the season of no worries, and you shouldn't let jealousy take over your care-free attitude.

Summer flings, almost all the time, end in some sort of heartbreak when that isn't the intention in the beginning at all. But other times, they do work out and you guys call it quits and both move on or both end up in a relationship with each other (which was my case and I couldn't be happier to this day!). So, if your plan is to have a fling this upcoming summer, make sure you plan ahead for any type of scenarios that could potentially happen as well as know what you both want in the end.

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