You know that expression "right person, wrong time"? Well, I believe whoever came up with that phrase was a quitter. If you end up falling in love with a person that you can't imagine living without, then there is no "wrong time" no matter what life throws your way.
My girlfriend and I are at a point in our relationship where we need to think about the future. We're a semester away from graduating college and we don't know what's going to be next. We even entertained the idea of breaking up after college in case we can't live together due to lack of jobs in the area.
But you know what? We're not giving up.
I refuse to entertain the idea of breaking up with my soulmate because some person decided to tell people that it's possible to meet your soulmate at the wrong time.
When is it ever the wrong time to meet your soul mate? The only reason you would ever break up with the "right person" is if they were actually the wrong person.
The right person will never leave you, never give up on you, and they will always stand by your side no matter how rough life gets.
I think as millennials we're so used to moving on to the "next best thing" that we forget how to stick with something for the long haul. We're taught to believe that relationships aren't fun anymore because our society is so submerged into the "hook up culture." It's taught us that moving on from one person to another will keep us from getting hurt.
I've always been in love with the idea of love and marriage. Yes, getting hurt sucks, but, I know that if someone hurts me, then it's just one more heartbreak until I meet my soul mate.
But I've already met my soulmate.
I don’t wanna move on to another person because she is my person. No matter how hard it may be in the future, the relationship we have is worth fighting for. There is no "wrong time" with her.
If you're caught between breaking up with someone because life suddenly got hard, then they were never your soul mate.